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    #1

    It seems things keep getting worse

    My dui was an absolute scar on my soul. Then when attending an AA meeting mtg this week someone busted out of the door that I was entering and took out my two front caps.

    This morning I received a call from Harborview Trauma Center telling me they had my husband in there. After his last heart surgery they took took 2 veins from his right leg, and that had created an aneurism. He presented himself at the local Forks hosptial will blue/black toes and they had him in the helicopter within 1/2 hour. He didn't call me until this a.m. because he was headed for a procedure - which took about 5 hour - almost as long as his heart surgery.

    I have booked a flight leaving DFW tomorrow a.m., but due to the storm everything has been cancelled., however I will get there. He is in pain, although the procedure went well and he was hungry, but they can't feed him depending on an a further emergency surgery.

    You just never know, hubby is not going to love me looking like a dental degenerate. I've always taken excellent care of my teeth, but it will take over $2,000 and 15 days to replace - after I see that hubby is okay.

    :h:h:h
    Enlightened by MWO
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    #2
    It seems things keep getting worse

    Oh, Hilary - this is terrible. I dont know what it is that makes our lives go pear shaped every now and then but yours truly has. I trust that you will find within yourself what you need to get through all of this.
    Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn

    Harriet Beecher Stowe

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      #3
      It seems things keep getting worse

      He will love you because you're THERE for him, not judge you because you had an unfortunate accident.
      Love, I've been watching your posts, and you are having a REALLY rough trot of it, aren't you?
      Imagine it's Christmas Day next year, and you've turned your whole life around as a result of the 'bottom' you're experiencing now.
      You could look back on this positively aweful time as your new beginning.
      I really hope you turn the corner soon.
      Bridget
      If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
      Rejoined life 20/5/19

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        #4
        It seems things keep getting worse

        Thanks Miss, and BBBrg, you both totally get it and I appreciate that, I will check in when I can. Airport is totally snowed in, but will get there and hold his hand.
        Enlightened by MWO

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          #5
          It seems things keep getting worse

          Geeez Hilary ... what's that old saying ...? Something along the lines of - you're only dealt with what you can handle ... ? You are doing an amazing job at handling.

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            #6
            It seems things keep getting worse

            Hilary,

            Hugs and love.

            Lots of love.

            Cindi
            AF April 9, 2016

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              #7
              It seems things keep getting worse

              More hugs and love from LucyDog and me. 2010 has got to be a better year for you and it is almost here! :h

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                #8
                It seems things keep getting worse

                Aww Hilary, maybe when you see hubby you could hold his hand, look tenderly into his eyes and sing a few bars of "all I want for Christmas is my two front teeth"

                Much love
                K
                Nov 1 2006 avg 100 - 120 drinks/week
                April 29 2011 TSM avg 70 - 80/wk
                wks* 1- 6: 256/1AF (avg 42.6/wk)
                wks* 7-12: 229/3AF (avg 38.1/wk)
                wks 13-18: 192/5AF (avg 32.0/wk)
                wks 19-24: 176/1AF (avg 29.3/wk)
                wks 25-30: 154/10AF (avg 25.6/wk)
                wks 31-36: 30/37AF (avg 5/wk )

                I may not be there yet, but I'm closer than I was yesterday.
                http://www.thesinclairmethod.net/community/

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                  #9
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                  Thinking of you Hilary. xo Beth
                  vegan zombies want your grains

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                    #10
                    It seems things keep getting worse

                    My thoughts are with you Hilary.
                    Let us know how things are when you can wont you?
                    Living now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
                    Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009

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                      #11
                      It seems things keep getting worse

                      Oh Hilary, some how I missed this thread until now. I hope you are with your husband and that he is recovering nicely. Luckily teeth are something we can fix up.
                      Wally22:confusedmonkey::confusedmonkey::confusedmo nkey:
                      If I don't want to brag but I can still wear the earings I wore in highschool
                      November 2, 2012

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                        #12
                        It seems things keep getting worse

                        big hugs hillary
                        life is simple its just not easy

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                          #13
                          It seems things keep getting worse

                          Goodness sakes! What a tough go you are both having. You are "there" for each other, though. It will be OK.
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                          Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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                            #14
                            It seems things keep getting worse

                            Hi SKendall, I think sometimes we just have to look to the heavens and (no pun intended) smile at the hand that is being dealt to us. Things will get better and hopefully you can look back at this time and see it as having been a turning point in your life toward all the good times that lay ahead.
                            Ethanol is a toxic chemical, why would I drink it?

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                              #15
                              It seems things keep getting worse

                              Hil, I know this is little comfort, but everything happens for a reason. We may not see it immediately, but there is a reason for everything.
                              Feb 04 2009 80 days AF.
                              AF May 23 09 to July 09
                              AF December 16, 09 FORWARD.

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