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[toughintexas]

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MA, Greenie is right, its your choice, Mike can't make you drink, only you can! You are allowing him to drag you down, tell your atty you want a temporary support hearing for an emergency situation and NOW....YA'LL CAN'T LIVE TOGETHER ON A GOOD DAY, MUCH LESS UNDER THESE CONDITIONS!!!!!
This isn't good for the boys either. I just don't know why your atty can't get this under control! Get yo butt up, and out of there! I think we are all just wasting our breath here, seriously, you need to take control of this and get your rights laid out, and get outta there! Nuf said, its up to you, I love you but you wish wash with him wayyyyyyy to much, no wonder he thinks he can use you to wipe his feet on....get off the doorstep!!!!!

[cowgal]

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ok

get it, feel like shit right now, can barely talk cuz my throat is so sore, have to work Sat Sun and Mon................not looking forward to it, been in bed all day, what a waste.........sorry guys...............MA

[more2life]

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MA don't forget of he threatens you the police will remove him from the house.

[cowgal]

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no worries

I will definitely call 911 if that ever happens, had david do it once...........let's accentuate the positive..............us gals are great!! I am feeling empowered rather that being a victim, that is one step in the right direction, right!??

love u guys

MA:l:h

[cowgal]

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hey all!!

Good day here in spite of being miserably sick, almost have no voice left!!?? AAUURRGH!!!

Hope you are all well, went and looked at an apartment today................nice and I fell in love w/ it.................not far from work at all, either job I end up with............ I will give Zac the bedroom, and have my bed out in the livingroom area.................should be ok, for now............just hope I can afford it, but I will do whatever it takes..................can be frugal when need to be, just eat lots of tuna and cheap food, pasta, u know , whatever it takes...................

love u all,:l:h

dearly

MA

[more2life]

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Good girl.... I wish you could keep the house, but you know whatever it takes to get away from asswipe is well worth it.

[cowgal]

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Really don't want it!

The mor I reflect and think about it, the house is a "sick house", the mold and humidity are horrible, will be better for me and the horses to be gone, they are going to Larry's soon, just talked to him tonight for a long time, he is sweet, cares alot for me, goog good person, yuo know!??

The apartment is nice and I am excited to find a place so sweet and close to everything!! It has a gym, pool, wifi, cool, the appt I looked at is big, cute, cannot wait to move out!!!

Finally something to look forward to !!!!!!!

Love u guys!!!!!! Really, thanks for being my support group!!!!!

Xoxoxo
xoxoxo. WoW!!! Just almost nodded off while typing this, need more caffeine!!!!

MA

[toughintexas]

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Good going MA! Just remember, he'll still owe you your half of the equity, the atty's will have it apprasied, and he'll have to buy you out...he can get it from his Dad. And, you need child support for Zak, AND you need that temporary support, he has to give it to you, get you a court date! Save that money for a rainy day if you can swing the rent etc yourself, either way, you get temporary support!
When can ya move???? Hope everyone is having a great day! More2, are you home? I just saw you'd called, I have been kinda in the dumper the last few days, and kinda nodded off and on Fri. night and Sat. all day, holler at me if you are back!!! Love to all!

[cowgal]

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the sooner the better!!

I am definitely moving in when I get back from Ruby's with my new dog,very end of Feb, pretty much first of March........ don't want it in that house.............will come home w/ fleas, was so badly flea infested last summer................just because we live so far out in the woods and there is sand everywhere, fleas just love that!!!

Am borrowing lots of $$ from my 401Ks(not using it all, just don't want it availabe for Mike, he will get 1/2 of it!), he says he is empying his so he can pay his credit cards off, and so I cannot have any since I would be entitled to 1/2 of it!), he wants to be debt free. Little does he know, he inherits 1/2 of mine.............I am telling my lawyer to go for it, I will pay her an extra grand to take him for all he is worth, he is getting so mean and ugly, he has a millionaire father he can borrow from, I have nobody, my mom is and always has been dirt poor................what I came from..............am going back to??, it looks like too?? guess only for a little while tho................chin up, I WILL make it!!!

I am really happy right now, spent the time to and from getting hay w/ 3 wonderful friends, got some good lawyer advice and we just had a good ol' time!!!

Love you guys, thanks for always being here...............appreciate having some friends that can always be here to listen to my gripes.........................no more, born again, at 46, ready to start anew, and going to really really soon!!!

MA

[more2life]

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Good girl MA,

My first husband and I split our seperate ways 50/50. The only thing I got 100% of was our son. Thank Jesus I did!! Even if you left with nothing but your own paycheck you'd be better off. Mike is an ass and will get what he deserves. Can't wait to hear about your new place.

BTW Aloha from Hawaii.... I can't help myself... I'm addicted to MWO.

[cowgal]

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jealous!!

Well, jealous, but I am going for more than just my paycheck, he is getting ugly, can you say verbal abuse!!?? It is all I get while I am there, he does nothing but harrass me, I enjoy coming here just to get away from him at least!!?? enjoying coming to work, it is not that bad, have some artwork, someone asked me to do an illustration for a book, and I am working on a cover for another book, and illustrating some childrens books, cannot wait to get started on them and get them to my website, which still needs to get worked on and finished......................getting tired of waiting, but that is ok, it will happen in good time.............

love ya!!

MA

[cowgal]

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Cannot wait?!

Til Thurs to see my lawyer that is, and for alot of other exciting things happening in my near future!!! Feel good right now, but as with all things good and bad, "this too sall pass" but I am enjoying the hell out of it before it does pass!!!

Hope u r all fine, enjoying your place in CO, tit, and that wonderful sun in Hawaii More2....... Wish I could be there, but doubt highly I won't be going anywhere for quite a long time, but will enjoy finding myself again, getting my new place set up, all my friends here in tally..... Want to definitely grow and deepen them!

Will start some artwork now and then some charting, pace it out, I still have 8 hours to go, wish people were awake that I could talk to, that helps, at least I have my radio....... Thank god for small favors!!

Love & hugs!:l:h

MA

[toughintexas]

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MA, I think you will be amazed at how much better you feel and how much your spirits will be lifted to be out of that toxic environment with Mike. I left my ex and kids Dad's, a dentist, used to living in a big house, driving a fancy car, head of all kinds of charities, clubs, etc., nice clothes, you name it, and just left the SOB, he filed bankruptcy, and I moved back in a house with a high school pal and her daughter, we rented another friends house that went back to law school...she was in an abusive relationship also...and came from very high means too....WE HAD MORE FUN COOKING TOGETHER, GOSSIPING IN BED AFTER THE KIDS WERE DOWN, SPLITING LOAFS OF BREAD FOR SANDWICHES FOR THE KIDS LUNCH CUZ WE WERE SO POOR...IT WAS SO NICE TO KNOW WHAT WE WERE COMING HOME TOO...

[brittzak]

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I gotta say honey that money is NOT the way to happiness. You should know this. I know the unknown is very scarey. I'd take a million unknowns to the ONE thing you do know and that is Mike is a dang loser. Stop looking at what u are losing and think of what you are gaining. Write on paper. Every material thing means NOTHING if you have no one to enjoy it with and are miserable looking at it. I am happiest diggin in the dirt in old clothes and planting flowers. There is beauty all around us and it isn't in a fancy house, car, clothes...it is in your heart.

[TsHope]

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30 days for me!!!

Hi, Today is 30 days for me ! (Again) I am loving it!

I just got through reading about on this thread.. I to am thinking about a divorce and my, this has given me a bit of strength. Good luck to all.