Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

[Hamster]

what else can i say - im a jerk, but i never wanted this to happen

[Doggygirl]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hi Hamster and welcome. I'm sorry to hear that things are not good for you right now. I'm sure that none of us really ever wanted the bad consequences of our drinking behaviors. The only solution for me was to stop drinking altogether. Once I have even one drink, I cannot control my alcohol intake after that. And then the consequences come roaring in.

Have hope. There are many of us here that were in really bad shape in one form or another when we got here, and we're managing sobriety now.

Have you downloaded the book? You can do that from the Health Store and get it immediately and start reading. The path to sobriety is not easy, but for me it's the very best thing I've done for myself in my adult life.

Strength and hope to you,

DG

[Zeppie2]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Welcome Hamster - stick around, give going AF a go and prove to your family that the jerk you are being is not the real you.

[YogaHeart25]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hampster

Trying to get on chat with you...but my system is not connecting. Much love to you

[Guitarista]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hi Hamster.
You are right to be scared. And you know, that sooner or later, you will lose your family if you choose to keep drinking. I nearly did. It's great to see you posting here. That say's a lot about your thinking, and what you really want, and need to do, and you need to do something right NOW, to hopefully save your relationship's, not to mention your life, for this will kill you. Have you seen a doctor about this? Any medical help/support available to you? Have you got yourself a plan? What is it? We can help you with lot's of suggestion's and way's to start. What's your next step friend?

[Hamster]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

yep i have seen a doctor, and a psychologist too - but i have never talked ao anyone about my al problem - thankfully huby came home yesterday - but i know he hates me atm

[greeneyes]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hi hamster, just wanted to chime in here and whole heartedly agree with Mr G. It would be best to work on that plan ASAP. BTW, in what country do you live?

[mebill]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hi Hamster,

I know about alcohol fueled arguments, all the life dysfunction it can bring, etc. The first thing I had to do was remove the fuel (alcohol and painkillers for me). My relationship with my partner has improved so much over the last 4 months since I became AF and drug free. Hang in there, and the desire to become sober WILL become stronger than the desire to drink. It is a wonderful feeling, followed by lots of maintenance work on self. I could not do it by myself. Hang in there!

Bill

[Sky]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hello. I just joined and haven't written anything yet, but your title rang a bell with me. I lost my husband because I just cannot stop drinking and thankfully he has forgiven me and while we are not together at the moment, he hasn't given up on me - yet. I need to get myself sorted and I have been told this site does help. I hope things improve for you.

[Beaches]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hang in there, whatever you do hang in there for your kids.

[Hartley]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hamster;783641 wrote: what else can i say - im a jerk, but i never wanted this to happen

None of us did. Don't beat yourself up - just get on with it. It's a long and painful process.

[Lavande]

Im soo scared im going to loses my family cause of al

Hi Hamster & Sky too!

Welcome to both of you, you have found a good place!

As was already mentioned, be sure to download & read the MWO book. You need to make good plans for yourselves. Take a look in the Tool box (in the Monthly Abstinence section) for good ideas for your plan.

Please feel free to drop in the Newbies Nest thread too!
Wishing you the very best!

Lav