The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

[aspman]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

too tempting, 4 in a row...

[byebyebridgetjones]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Right.
I went to the beautician.
Having your eyelashes tinted is great incentive not to cry and rub your eyes.
Not unless you like burns and ulcers on your eyeballs.
Welcome Fuel. We can help you a bit I think. Stick around.
Frog is so good at going out on reco's and getting people :H
Okey Doke.
I have to go out and see my friends this arvi. The ones who drink. I'm a bit scared 'cos I'm vulnerable today. I'm going to spend a few mins concocting a solid plan before I go. I don't even give a shit if I have to lie. I'm just not up for it today.
Betts and Missy B................hello goyles..............might be hormones....but I can't have any carbs ....because I'm too fat and I'm on a diet with no carbs..........FMD !

[tawnyfrog]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Arvo all,

Well I've stopped estivating, am back on the air and think I've caught up.

Ronnie - I'm so sorry it's come to this but hope you can hang on to your great attitude. I was worried when you first told us about hubby's secret cash stash. It's often a sign that people are planning to "make a move". I just hope like hell that you can work out the finances in a mutually beneficial manner without it turning into an acrimonious shit-fight where the only happy people are the lawyers. A lot of us lose our partners whether through divorce, death, illness or disability and a lot of us know that we've GOT to continue to live productively. Not getting pissed is a bloody good start. There'll be hard times ahead. My best wishes to you all.

Bridge - I'm sensing that LadyJan's post on another thread has perhaps added to your doldrums? Maybe it brought back some crap for you? Hurl yourself into some land regen. stuff. You thrive on that.

Spam - very nice post. I've been here forever and the site has grown enormously. When I started there were only about 400 members. Let's just say that even if only 25% of those were regular posters, we got to know each other really well. You form friendships because with some people you automatically "click". Sometimes people (friends) leave and you never hear from them again and I can only hope that they are happy and travelling well and no longer need daily cyber interaction. Life goes on.

Aspy - I think MrG was referring to my passion for numbers and statistics. I am SOOOO going to use your link and bore everybody witless. Can't answer your Campral question.

Angel - everything ok now?

Fuel - welcome! Good to see that Aspy now has a neighbour.

MissB - I also have a mother in an aged care facility. It rips your guts out to see a chirpy, vibrant woman one day and a disoriented, nasty, harridan the next. And there's sweet FA you can do about it. The added stress of dealing with your brother's situation must be horrendous.

Bets - always lovely to see you and your xxx's.

That is soooo enough from me.

For now.

[Sheepish]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Greetings Underoos ~
Been a while since I said hello- but I read everyday about the goings on down there.
Won't comment individually- I'll leave the witless bor-ing to the Frog (she said it first!)
Just know that I am monitoring the Underoo events and cheering you all on for the desired outcomes.
As you were
-Sheep

[ronnie]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Hi ya
Betts I have been in Australia for nearly 3 years now....and still lovely every minute of it.... mine and hubbies relationship had its normal ups and downs in the UK but over hear im not prepared to put up with it and I think he knows that cause as a person I have very slowly grown stronger (like I was in the old days before I met him).
Tawney - Thanks for your kind words...I have written a list of all our monthly payouts ect. (his request) and what we owe ect. so that will give him something to chew over tonight!!!!
I really dont want this to get nasty as its not fair on my boys and at the end of the day whats the point!!!
I just hope he can stay out of his stropps for a while....lol
But one thing I do know is THANK GOD I AM SOBER cause if I was'nt then there would be no way I could cope with all this......
Bridget...honey I hope you are feeling better and I hope you had a nice arvo with your friends
Mr G....my door is always open for you darling....anytime.....lol
Fuel....Welcome to the best place ever, you will get lots of advice here and a few laughs along the way
And a big hello to anyone that I have'nt mentioned
Bigs Hugs
Ronnie
xx

[Miss Behaving]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

byebyebridgetjones;807369 wrote: Right.
I went to the beautician.
Having your eyelashes tinted is great incentive not to cry and rub your eyes.
Not unless you like burns and ulcers on your eyeballs.
Welcome Fuel. We can help you a bit I think. Stick around.
Frog is so good at going out on reco's and getting people :H
Okey Doke.
I have to go out and see my friends this arvi. The ones who drink. I'm a bit scared 'cos I'm vulnerable today. I'm going to spend a few mins concocting a solid plan before I go. I don't even give a shit if I have to lie. I'm just not up for it today.
Betts and Missy B................hello goyles..............might be hormones....but I can't have any carbs ....because I'm too fat and I'm on a diet with no carbs..........FMD !

Bridge:

good on you for having your eyelashes tinted!! Bet you have lovely long ones too!! Hope you had the eyebrow shape as well!

and double good on you for getting your plan together before going out.

And I'm sorry but I just dont believe you that you are too fat. I've spent my whole life thinking I am too fat, and then I look at photos years later and think that actually I look okay. This is not a weight problem, this is a self-esteem problem. You are a great mum to your boy, you have the best sense of humour, you keep us ROFL. I think you are one fabulous woman and your time is coming on up. :l:l

Sorry if I'm a bit emotional again ... visit to my counsellor always does that to me! And it was a doozy today!!

Ronnie: admire your attitude immensely and hope that it continues and so does his. As you say, your boys are the most important piece of this equation.

TF - thanks. That's exactly what I'm feeling. Nuf said.

Mr G - I dont acknowledge you enough, but you are always right on the money.

Sheepish - always enjoy your visits!:baaah:

Aspman - not sure about campral and its impact on aggression, but I do know that I went away last week without my supps (was trying to pack light) and I noticed an immediate difference within about 48 hours in terms of cravings. Did you get them here or through GP ... if the latter, was there any advice on how to come off them?

Angel, while I'm doling out emoticons, here is yours :yourespecial:

[ronnie]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Great post Miss B. Thankyou
And Bridget......I go with what miss B said.......your the best hon xx

Now off to tee-ball I go........

[byebyebridgetjones]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Oh Jesus Miss B and Ronnie.
Now I'm teary again.
Thankyou so much. You are both in a situation so much worse than mine.
I am not a cryer AT ALL. I seem to have lost it a bit today.
I think you might be right Froglet.
Anyway I lied to my friends and said I had indigestion and couldn't have a bubbles.
I think I'll feck off to bed, as I'm making bugger all sense, and make a new start of it tomorrow.
Thankyou so much youz all x

[tawnyfrog]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

It's ok, Bridge.

Ronnie's going to check us later and make sure we're tucked in good and proper.

Tomorrow will be a new and wonderful day. Remember to apply plenty of Embuggerance Begone™.

Nighters.

[Guitarista]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Evening all,
Welcome Fuelos!
Bridget, what is this? You come shower with me now. Tonight, i made beautiful music, and recorded the fecker too. This is very good for a famously, now former, procrastinating mo'fo'!
Lock ya door Ronnie!...........;-)
Miss B, of course, now you've set a precedent.......
Spamious, if that's really you, and, you facilitate Spam for the family dinner, GCH doesn't know what he's got.

Bridgos, tonight, i play for you.......a slow, sweet song, and with a gentle puff, i send it out on the ocean breeze, to reach you, in the middle of the night.

Yassou malakas.....xx

[Sweaty Betty]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

I thought I'd pop by and do the tucking in, give Ronnie a well deserved rest.

Lovely to see all the support around today.

Some hard times being had, but so much strength being shown.

Carry on All!

Bets
x

P.s. hope you can all get out of your hospital corners tomorrow........

Onwards and upwards.

[tawnyfrog]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Can someone pleeeeeze undo me? I can't get out. Bets is a very tight tucker and I have to go ... you know ...

[Guitarista]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Here you go Hornos.......Crikey! Hornos! You're nude! Errr, umm, what's that bit?! Ummmm........
Ok, there you are, consider yourself untucked.

Hi Betty

Have a safe, sober, and magical day folk's! :welcome:

:goodjob: :wd::kudos:
:disco:

[Guitarista]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Oh, and Spamious,
RR is Rational Recovery. Some great reading and info on that site too, i reckon.

:band2:

[tawnyfrog]

The Next day Thread, February, 2010.

Phew! Thanks, MrG - just in the nick of time. I was going to put an urgent call out to Aussie Nurse to help me out - she'd know what to do.

Hope everyone has a better day today. Let's make the most of the remaining days of summer.