ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

Mr J C's partner (in the firm not his other wife) broke her pelvis last week skiing. She won't be back for weeks,

[ladyjan]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

okies...
I'm goin a bed..
am on a downer..dunno why...
think it's coz my girl bonnie recieved an email from my ex..the sperm donor..!! of Ollie..
can't call him a father coz he never was..just a big time wicked ahole,

just hate when he surfaces in our lives..my head is in bits..

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

Do you want to stay and talk it out LJ?

[Draggy]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

i went skying once in andorra but that was crosscountry very slow and hard work not to be repeated again

[ladyjan]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

the only thing I remember from him is after being smacked to the floor
was his big foot kicking me,

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

My daughter doesn't have much luck skiing. She got dumped by her boyfriend on one holiday and dumped again the week before she went with another. My heart sunk when we went shopping as she wanted a new ski jacket. She got the last one stolen.

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

ladyjan;806844 wrote: the only thing I remember from him is after being smacked to the floor
was his big foot kicking me,

I read your other thread, sweet heart. you're away from that place now. Shiiiiiiit.it's weird when things come back to haunt us.

[Draggy]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

you ok lj??

[ladyjan]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

dragonfly65;806847 wrote: you ok lj??

no, be honest am crying my f'ing heart out

[ladyjan]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

you know the one thing I wanna ask him is WHY did he hit me..
I really don't know why

[rubywillow]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

Because he could, Jan, and he's not a man. There is no answer for cretins like that. But you are a different woman now. You KNOW what he is. And you've pulled yourself away from that life. Your friends are with you always, love.

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

It just bamboozles me. I've grown up with gentle men all my life.

You're right Rubes he can no way call himself a man.

[Draggy]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

there is no why, because for somebody to beat their wife or partner there does'nt have to be a reason, they're cowards and bullies and nothing what you did could prevent it.
don't ever forget IT'S NOT YOU!!!! its THEM
love draggy xxx

[ladyjan]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

sorry to kill the evening..
gonna go to bed with my doggies..
gotta shake out of this.gonna get my ollie in the morn and go up to the carnaval, so must be happy..
sorry to be on a downer, but it get to me when he makes contact.. he is so sneaky
thats why he emails my bonnie..
be honest.. it's really good I have no booze in the house coz I would've hit it..

[greeneyes]

ARMY THREAD 15TH FEB 2010

LJ I don't know why old wounds open like that. Maybe because you are stronger and they still need proper healing so they come up when you are able to deal with them better. See it's not driving you to drink, right? You can feel the pain and talk about it. That seems OK to me.