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    The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

    To any non-Christians, I apologize, but these scriptures are ones that give me peace and hope, and they are for Vick, and others who want it.

    Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
    —Genesis 2:18, 21-24

    He who finds a wife finds a good thing
    and obtains favor from the Lord.
    —Proverbs 18:22

    Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that he has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun.
    —Ecclesiastes 9:9

    Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
    —Ephesians 5:22-33

    Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
    —Hebrews 13:4

    Vick, honey, I hope you find comfort in these. My prayers are with you.
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      The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

      Thank you so much, Ruby. I'm gonna print those out and put them on my desk to read every day. You mean so very much to me, Ruby. I love and admire you so much. Thank you for your love, compassion and wisdom. Well, I'm not having a successful day with my emotions. They are all over the place, visualizes hurtful things, trying to understand why. I really believe that when we sin against a person, it will come back to hurt you. I left my first husband for another man. I hurt him so bad and now I understand that pain and am truly sorry I did that. Paul, who I've never cheated on in 19 years because I truly loved him so much, even when he went through this stage of never wanting any and I used to pray that God would take away my sexual desire and He did calm me alot and it was hard, but I dealt with it. (of course with lots of liquor) GOD, I I HATE LIQUOR SO BAD!!! I really thought I was gonna die and even wanted to yesterday. Please, God, help me NEVER to forget that feeling of total hopelessness. I guess I am having a pity party. I'm sorry. I won't ramble anymore. Thanks for just listening though. I love you all lots. Where are you, Roger?
      I'm not what I should be, I'm not what I could be. I'm definetly not who I want to be,
      but I'm sure not who I used to be!

      There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still.

      "I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME." Phil 4:13

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        The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

        Rog will be back soon. Just keep praying, and not drinking, honey.
        Here's a pic of Jack at Bible school, the golden child in the middle with his little hands folded and mouth open. I think it's PRECIOUS!!
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        Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
        awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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          The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

          Ruby-that is such a cute picture. Is your other grandson there also? I loved it when my kids went to vacation bible school = so long ago!!
          Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

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            The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

            Hi Sobs,
            Thanks for the kind words regarding my children. Best I can do right now is not quit on them and continue praying for them and sending letters ;-) Sorry you are having a rough go. I'll keep good thoughts in mind for you as well. I hope the evening goes better for you and is solid for everyone here.
            Maslow

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              The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

              heading home after a long ass day.....have a peaceful af night everyone!!!
              I love my family more than alcohol.:h
              Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                Grateful;893200 wrote: Ruby-that is such a cute picture. Is your other grandson there also? I loved it when my kids went to vacation bible school = so long ago!!
                Ry wasn't there that day, otherwise he would have been next to Jack. They're inseparrable! Ry has the most angelic face. Fitting, I believe, because by 1 he had lived through Hell. He was born to meth addicted parents who never took care of him.
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                Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                  The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                  Hello shifters,
                  Well i got myself in from the glorious sun at last...garden has had me almost all day...
                  We sure have busied up here...so happy most of the gents here had a great Pa's day...Maslow ur still sounding great & as Vikki says, I trust justice will be served on court day & either way ur children will be able 2 judge 4 themselves how u have dealt with this unfortunate situation...& u are talking like someone with their head well & tuly screwed on & shifting forwards...watch them tornados tho... ; )
                  Vikki u are as ever, an inspiration girl! Ur enthusiasm & faith always shine like a beacon for me...I understand ur picking up after u had the shocking news...that's done now though & ur back on the right side of the track... & to talk so soon of forgiveness is just awesome...im not surprised tho that ur heart is taking a little more time than ur head 2 get used 2 the idea of that...emotions usually need T I M E to settle & ur probably still in shock...is why it keeps playing over & over...the imagination does that...the feelings are so overwhelming that they almost force our minds 2 make pictures to fit...& then the mind keeps replaying them...& so it goes on...4 ever if we let it...
                  Your feelings will settle some...& possibly sooner than u think because ur allowing them expression now...remember tears can be healing...& apparently we actually release stress hormones in our tears or something...so it wiill ease the pain i'm sure...Like the ladies here have said... it's done now...in the past...long gone...& hubby obviously choose 2 stay alongside u right ?
                  Let the dust settle in ur heart...then u will find the peace that forgiveness brings i'm sure...then ur thoughts will talk the loudest & ur feelings will listen...
                  I personally dont believe always that our past actions come back to haunt us because God is forgiving & understands us better than we do ourselves...but i do believe that sometimes it isnt till we ourselves are sinned against in a certain way that we truly can understand the consequences of our actions...so maybe now is ur learning & the time 2 forgive urself 4 ur past actions...then god will hear you & u will be cleansed ...& i pray hubby too will take what learning he can from this but that is his task not urs...
                  Your love & compassion shine with every post Vikki...& ur humour & honesty !!! STAY CLOSE GIRL...WE NEED YOU !!! hehehe couldnt resist doin ur red thing...

                  Full moon on our tails this weekend people...let's keep the emotions shifting in a positive direction...
                  Keep safe in all you do
                  Gold x
                  :sun:

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                    The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                    Mas, your children are angelic! Things will get better for your visitation. Be sure you're the father they need when you do. And I KNOW you will, honey. I SO love little ones!
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                    Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                    awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                      The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                      Btw guys...as some of you may know i spend time in chat...u could meet up there & nip into a private chat room...take it slower...just need 2 create one & give it a name & a password..."Asses" would be funny...hehehe...just a thought...would love 2 join you but time diff means i'm usually zzzzzzzzzz
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                        The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                        Ruby, that picture of Jack is so precious! Maslow, I really admire that you have stayed strong and sober during all this pain and turmoil that you have been through. I am praying that you will be in your children's lives very soon. Gold, I am shocked that you are a man. Thinking back of all the beautiful and insightful things you have said. You truly are "GOLD" and I hope your wife appreciates and adores you. If tears do heal, my heart should be back whole for I have cried a million of them today. Thank you all for being there for me. I'm gonna be okay and there is ABSOLUTELY NO CHANCE of me drinking now or ever! I HATE the stuff! I have to let the pain go and move on. Today is the beginning for me and I choose happiness and forgiveness.
                        I'm not what I should be, I'm not what I could be. I'm definetly not who I want to be,
                        but I'm sure not who I used to be!

                        There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still.

                        "I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME." Phil 4:13

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                          The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                          Oh, Gold, that would be funny! I'm up for it. You gonna create one now?

                          The boys.
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                          Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                          awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                            The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                            ok back from long hot hot and dirty day of diging and playin with wood .. but the form is ready and im dead tired and now i forgot who what and where to begin to say what to anyone .. so glad to see you all here posting .. grateful maslow techie mama goodasgold bird iad and well everyone and well vicky baby the past is just that the past move forward girl he is a a loving man and we have all make misstakes .. but the thing is to move forward in life and ok you drink BAD BAD BAD GIRL ... but i know you are back and trying your best ... and well mama happy aniverorary .. how ever thats spelled heheheheh
                            :beach: life does change as long as you are willing to change yourself ..
                            best thing about the future it comes one day at a time..

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                              The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                              Grateful, thank you so much for calling me today. You have such a sweet spirit and I love you so much. I've never had such a sweet friend and I do wish we were neighbors to encourage, love and inspire one another everyday, but this site makes friendships that are even better than any friend I have ever had. Thank you for caring so much about me. I love you. Thank you, Roger and you are right, he is a loving man and you will see how wonderful he is when you get here, which by the way, is NEXT WEEK! I AM SO EXCITED! Paul has promised not to drink that week and if he can stop then, he will and I know Roger, you will be such an encourager and inspiration for him. Love you all, Vicki
                              I'm not what I should be, I'm not what I could be. I'm definetly not who I want to be,
                              but I'm sure not who I used to be!

                              There is no pit so deep that God's love is not deeper still.

                              "I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME." Phil 4:13

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                                The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!

                                Vick, if you come back tonight, Goldie had a GREAT idea about a private chat room. Hope he's setting it up. Come cry to your family if we make it work, OK. I know your heart his hurting, honey. But this is today. Don't hurt yourself crying (wears the hell outta me!) and stay away from those trips you know are going to cause you pain.
                                Everyone, I love you. Can't imagine my life without you. Stay strong, hold on to your sobriety. Without it, we can't help anyone else. Kisses, all.
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                                Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                                awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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