Support System at home, or Lack Of

[mama bear]

Support System at home, or Lack Of

Man Ruby...you are so wise
Litre.....ditto what Rubes said

[Guest]

Support System at home, or Lack Of

I love Rubies wise advice!

[FallonsMom]

Support System at home, or Lack Of

yes continue to work on yourself!!! My Husband supports me even though he doesn't get it. We have fought so much over my problem and he tells me to snap out of it, ummm yeah I wish it was that easy.

[Doggygirl]

Support System at home, or Lack Of

Litre;844757 wrote: Thankyou all for your support, I have mentioned this site to him, he showed no interest, so yes I am going to work on myself, myself. I am strong willed, and I have not fear that I will not succeed. I still want to try controlled drinking, if I fail then I know it is not for me, but until then, I will keep it in my mind. I wish more than anything to be like most people, but I still fear that first glass. In saying that, I may never take it, but I want the option to be there.

Haven't you already tried controlled drinking?? (I'm assuming you are like most of us, and have promised yourself time and again that you would stop after 1 or 2??) What do you envision will be different this time?

DG

[Guest]

Support System at home, or Lack Of

My husband likes to drink! I have put a damper on his enjoyment of his favorite pastime. He cannot understand anyone not having the ability to count drinks. Although his count is very high and I believe he has a problem it's not my place to take his inventory.
I will stay AF for me and his lack of support for it is going to have to be his problem.
He does many things in his everyday live I don't like or approve of, it doesn't keep him from pursuing them nor does it make him unhappy. On the AF point I have to be selfish also.
Time will tell where that leads us.

[Litre]

Support System at home, or Lack Of

DG, well no I have not tried controlled drinking, I simply progressed. I would however tell myself before I quit that I had to take control and I was heading for trouble, but did not how to change it. So if I ever do actually pick up that glass I do not know, I just want that option. Then I will know if I can or cannot ever do it again. For now, I still plan on looking out for me, and leave that glass alone.