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Do you think my stripey typing goes well with my fur???

Reggie & Katie: YOU BOTH ROCK!!!

[JACQRABBIT]

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KatieB;851124 wrote: Sorry to change the mood but i dont know where else to post this as i dont want to start another thread.. but it was my son's birthday yesterday.. and not a single one of my friends or family got him a card, or present.. its so hurtful! i buy other people's kids presents when its their birthdays.. my poor son, having a mother that no-one cares about so much, they wont even get my child anything for his birthday! :upset: :upset: :upset: its enough to drive me to want to drink again...

That is lousy Katie.

I do remember when I was with my ex feeling like that,
he has 4 sisters and they used to give each others kids senstional presents every christmas and my kids got nothing or the same supermarket colouring book year after year.

It does hurt alot, you don't care if they hurt you but when they hurt your baby it hurts like crazy.

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tiptronic_ct;851136 wrote: Do you think my stripey typing goes well with my fur???

Reggie & Katie: YOU BOTH ROCK!!!

Yourock
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[JACQRABBIT]

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KatieB;851135 wrote: Thank you Reggie.. it just hurts when my son is my families only grand-son etc.. but my mother cares more about her horrible husband than her own daughter or only grand-son.. she is so selfish! it hurts.. but you are right.. the fact my son does have me means more than silly games and people's selfishness when it comes to present-buying.. i know its only gifts, but gifts show caring.. at least I got him lots of great presents.. i just worry that my son will think i am a freak for not being in touch or having any family.. he is my only family now..

Damn...
That sound familiar too.

My mother hates me ever since I broke up with my kids dad she hasn't spoken to me.
He lives quite near her and they are now great friends.

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KatieB, you're son has a mommy that cares about him - the biggest gift of all. So many kids are orphans - don't feel bad and be the best mommy ever.

[tawnyfrog]

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I'm going to rock off to bed.

My brain has been strained beyond repair today.

Bets - double tight tuck tonight please? Forget about the night light ...

[tiptronic_ct]

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G'nite T. Frog

See you on the morrow

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tawnyfrog;851144 wrote: I'm going to rock off to bed.

My brain has been strained beyond repair today.

Bets - double tight tuck tonight please? Forget about the night light ...

Nite Tawny

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KatieB;851135 wrote: Thank you Reggie.. it just hurts when my son is my families only grand-son etc.. but my mother cares more about her horrible husband than her own daughter or only grand-son.. she is so selfish! it hurts.. but you are right.. the fact my son does have me means more than silly games and people's selfishness when it comes to present-buying.. i know its only gifts, but gifts show caring.. at least I got him lots of great presents.. i just worry that my son will think i am a freak for not being in touch or having any family.. he is my only family now..

Haven't got much to add to this just to say that Young Mr Cute has YOU and all that love you give him. My mother in law SHOWERS the grand-children with money but has no interest in them and is never left with the little ones unsupervised as she is considered a danger to them (very long story.) When we were in the UK, she used to see my son for about 45 mins a year. Now it's 45 mins every 2 years and this will be our last trip for 5 years and as she's over 80, possibly the last time she sees him. It's her that's lost out.

Katie, as you tackle the AL and grow stronger, you will make better friends who will care for you and you're son. It will come, over the next few years. I met my best friend here through school, when my son was 7.

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jessie;851142 wrote: KatieB, you're son has a mommy that cares about him - the biggest gift of all. So many kids are orphans - don't feel bad and be the best mommy ever.

Short, sweet, beautiful and truthful, Jessie!

[tiptronic_ct]

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Spam;851149 wrote: Short, sweet, beautiful and truthful, Jessie!

What can I say? Us Saffas have a way with words.

Unlike Jessie, I haven't learned moderation yet... :H:H:H

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tiptronic_ct;851152 wrote: What can I say? Us Saffas have a way with words.

Unlike Jessie, I haven't learned moderation yet... :H:H:H

You could spread your words out over more posts and you'd blast through 10,000 before you know it.

Unless we start a campaign to get you banned and then you'd have to start again.:H

xx

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Spam;851147 wrote: Haven't got much to add to this just to say that Young Mr Cute has YOU and all that love you give him. My mother in law SHOWERS the grand-children with money but has no interest in them and is never left with the little ones unsupervised as she is considered a danger to them (very long story.) When we were in the UK, she used to see my son for about 45 mins a year. Now it's 45 mins every 2 years and this will be our last trip for 5 years and as she's over 80, possibly the last time she sees him. It's her that's lost out.

Katie, as you tackle the AL and grow stronger, you will make better friends who will care for you and you're son. It will come, over the next few years. I met my best friend here through school, when my son was 7.

Thank you Spam.. I know that I will eventually draw ppl to me by remaining AF - nicer ppl, and genuine.. families are dysfunctional at the best of times anyway, im lucky i dont have to deal with overbearing mothers meddling, or other family annoyances.. total freedom to bring my son up how i want! im sure lots of ppl would be envious of that! i think friends are more important now.. as you can pick them.. you cant pick your family and ppl struggle to cope with ppl they cant stand just b/c its family! but i dont have to.. thanks again,
Katie xxx

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Spam;851153 wrote:

Unless we start a campaign to get you banned and then you'd have to start again.:H

xx

Mmmmm. I rather like that idea.

There are so many possibilities...

I could come back as Tip (without the Tronic)!!!

[KatieB]

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jessie;851142 wrote: KatieB, you're son has a mommy that cares about him - the biggest gift of all. So many kids are orphans - don't feel bad and be the best mommy ever.

Thank you Jessie.. you are right.. my son could be in a lot worse a position.. I am totally devoted to him and i know im a great mum.. i cannot help the fact my family is dysfunctional and no-one talks to each other! i buy him plenty of gifts anyway.. but he is always happiest when out at the park than playing with toys that he gets bored of very quickly!