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[Nelz]

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Its fucking Hoooooooooooooooooooot! That is all :new:

[3June2013]

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um nelz you have over 2000 fucking posts and you're new here?

[Kradle123]

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With our Nelz, Everything old is new again! :H

Is that pic Avatar your new dirt, mr. Nelz? It's fucking awsome! :l

[Kradle123]

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Dirt = Dirt Bike...

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Why the fuck do people pretend they are one thing then do the complete opposite of what they say they are doing? I guess I am completely fucking boring cause what I say I am doing is what I am fucking doing. I don't fucking understand people.

[kronkcarr]

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Fucking dating

I want to apologize for not saying fuck in my last post. It won't happen again! I came on this thread last night to post about a first date and instead started at page 1 and read the whole thread--finished it this morning. Thanks to catch22 for starting it. Wow! It's true--1 person can change the whole fucking world!

I've been divorced 3 years and when I was drinking and dating I was so fucking desperate to be with a guy. Last Dec when I got sober I figured this out and really haven't dated much. So, I meet a guy, who seems nice, funny, smart on plentyoffish. We set a date to meet at the beach to fish. The great part of the date was that the weather was wonderful and the community of fishing people is pretty cool.

The bad parts are that the guy couldn't stop talking about my breasts, rump (Yes, fucking rump! Who in the fuck uses that word?) etc. He fucking constantly kept asking me what I thought of him. He then told me, "I have to have sex by the third date because why put all that time in if we're not good together in bed." Fucking seriously?!? He told me he was "clean" as in shaved "down there" so that Little Mikey looked an inch longer! WTF!?! :excuseme: I asked him how all this talk has worked so far with the women he's dated and he said it hadn't been a problem so far. As the date ended he asked if he could stick his tongue down my throat! :nutso: And I could come to his house to take a shower and "he wouldn't do anything". No fucking kidding! Fuck each time I put myself out to date I'm just blown away! We ended with him telling me to call him and me saying "no"--wonder how I kept from screaming, "No fucking way, you fucking joke of a man!"

So there's your Happy Fucking Labor Day story!

The good news--the sober me doesn't agonize over this shit anymore. The sober me speaks up and has boundaries--BUT just fuck... Then I saw this clip and it explains it all:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIXVbbCpvrY[/video]]Ask Steve - Men are stupid! - YouTube

[Mandiekinz]

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LoL, Kronk....isn't it wonderful to have standards and higher expectations now? I tell ya, I went through quite a mess of guys on PoF while I was drinking. I even landed myself in horrible "relationships" from there. Shit, this one bastard beat the fucking shit out of me so bad, I had to leave the state! It wasn't until then that I finally attempted to give it my all and get sober. I, too, always had to have a guy...I hated being alone when I was drinking. More so I wanted a partner in crime, as you put it, and someone that would support my drinking habit. I couldn't afford my own addiction...purely because I was too fucking wasted to work.

I'll tell ya...after I re-opened my PoF account after my initial attempt of sobriety in a new place knowing absofuckinglutely no one...I changed my wording around from "feeed meeee boooze om nom nommm" or something like that to something like "looking for friends that know how to have fun without being wasted". This old hunter-type man shot me an email one day, I wasn't really interested. I'm a city girl, what could I possibly have in common with a country boy...not to mention a much older man. He shot me another email. I was like, okay, you freak...let's talk. After passing a couple of messages back and forth, I told him I was in recovery...he responded with "Oh, so watching you clean my house while I slam a few beers wouldn't be good?" I stopped talking to him. Then I opened another account on a different site, and an hour after I did...the same bastard shot me an email on there too! So we got to talking again, I'm pretty sure I know why. Then, he drove 4 hours to meet me. We ended up going out to the bar...after all, I had an itch to drink and that was the only reason why I agreed to meet. I'm a booze slut, I know. We ended up having a GREAT time! He continued to drive 4 hours to come see me every weekend...and still we continued to have wonderful times. I ended up binging at one point badly...he got turned off, but couldn't stay away from me. I ended up moving in with him shortly afterwards...I kept going through waves of trying to not drink, then binging...however, he's so very supportive and tried to help me in any way possible. Even if it was to "retrain" me to drink like a normal fucking person. Of course I went with it...after all, any manipulative game I could play to be allowed to drink was my only way TO drink. Anyways, this man...as shitty as he seemed in the beginning and as piggish as he can be sometimes...he loves me more than anyone in this world, he picks me up when I fall, I TRUST him which is something I've never experienced before. As lame as this may sound...he ended up proposing to me in front of EVERYONE on my last day in rehab in Jan of this year. He drove an hour and a half every day to come spend the day with me there and learn everything that he could on addiction, made friends with all my fellow addicts. He's also VERY supportive of my Bac therapy. I'm soooo truly blessed to have this old man. Oh did I mention, he's 17 years my senior? He's probably the most loyal, good valued, and NORMAL person I've ever met. I strive to be a better person for him and his son that loves me oh so much...AND we have FUN. Even sober! He quit drinking for me. Isn't that amazing?

So, Kronk...don't lose hope. There are the good ones out there...even on good old PoF!

[Kradle123]

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I can't fucking help myself, Kron...did you catch any fish???

...I would make some obvious 'plenty of fish in the ocean' comment but...:l

Thank you for sharing that story. Maybe we should start a 'horrible dates' Thread! I absolutely have a few of my own.m

[kronkcarr]

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Kradle123,

Great question. He caught a fucking huge over 50 pound ray. I didn't fish but did drag the net for bait fish. Other than his conversation it was really a lovely day! I fucking love the almost plenty of fish in the sea comment!

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Kroncarr
that was one weird fucking date! I hope you can laugh about it soon :-)
And Maddiekinz - beautiful story and man you have there!

[Kradle123]

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I'm so glad Kronkcarr ! ! :l didn't want to sound insensitive as that experience didn't sound fun at all...:l

If that's an actually pic of that ding a ling, it's absolutely fucking hysterical! :H

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[3June2013]

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Kron your date had me fucking snorting out my coffee! Can you imagine a woman responding positively to that sort of fucking shite?

[3June2013]

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You can't fucking tell me that no one here needs to vent today? BUMP!

[Kradle123]

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Too fucking tired tonight, sweet June. :h

Can we make a date for tomorrow ? :l

[3June2013]

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LOL kradle I can't fucking tell you where I'll be but you come on in and have a good vent.