Army Thread 19th May

[wannachange]

Army Thread 19th May

Excellent Starty and Tip, I read something about soul searching.
I also read on some gobshite's :l status about making peace with your past, seems like a good place to start

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Army Thread 19th May

WHAT??? MY BUM LOOKS BIG.......ARGHhhhhhhhhh...............

[startingover]

Army Thread 19th May

KTAB;862130 wrote: WHAT??? MY BUM LOOKS BIG.......ARGHhhhhhhhhh...............

Wear black. Very slimming

[tiptronic_ct]

Army Thread 19th May

tiptronic_ct;862122 wrote: On a more serious note: I don't have a particular "picture" in my head of where I'll be, but Mrs. T and I have set goals for ourselves and timeframes within which we want to achieve those...

That is for us as a couple.

On a more personal level, I simply want to continue on the path I'm now on. I'm discovering new things every day.

Tonight, despite getting home dog tired, I played a game of hide-and-seek with tickling involved with the cubs. I was standing on the TV room couch in my work clothes, waiting to pounce on them as they appeared around the corner.

I want more of that kind of experience, and experience them as the grow up and mature.

Phew! What else... there are so many things...

[startingover]

Army Thread 19th May

wannachange;862129 wrote: Excellent Starty and Tip, I read something about soul searching.
I also read on some gobshite's :l status about making peace with your past, seems like a good place to start

Brilliant advice from the gobshite :H
I have had lots of counselling to help with that and it works

[startingover]

Army Thread 19th May

tiptronic_ct;862133 wrote: That is for us as a couple.

On a more personal level, I simply want to continue on the path I'm now on. I'm discovering new things every day.

Tonight, despite getting home dog tired, I played a game of hide-and-seek with tickling involved with the cubs. I was standing on the TV room couch in my work clothes, waiting to pounce on them as they appeared around the corner.

I want more of that kind of experience, and experience them as the grow up and mature.

Phew! What else... there are so many things...

I wish you were my Daddy Tigger :l

[tiptronic_ct]

Army Thread 19th May

wannachange;862129 wrote:
I also read on some gobshite's :l status about making peace with your past, seems like a good place to start

Mmmmmm. I agree with "making peace with your past" and have discussed this with KT before.

BUT: personally speaking, I don't think that should be where one starts... but it is most definitely step 2 or 3.

[wannachange]

Army Thread 19th May

startingover;862135 wrote: Brilliant advice from the gobshite :H
I have had lots of counselling to help with that and it works

Ayy but my Councillor forgets me as we only meet once a month, :H have to tell her my life story every time I meet her, thinking of doing this without councilling actually

[rubywillow]

Army Thread 19th May

I love hide and seek with tickling.

[tiptronic_ct]

Army Thread 19th May

startingover;862137 wrote: I wish you were my Daddy Tigger :l

I also still lose my temper and scold them... And I don't always listen when they want my ear

But thank you, Starty :l

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Army Thread 19th May

wannachange;862140 wrote: Ayy but my Councillor forgets me as we only meet once a month, :H have to tell her my life story every time I meet her, thinking of doing this without councilling actually

That doesnt sound very good Wanna.
The counselling process is an ongoing relationship built on trust. How can you trust someone who cannot remember a thing about you?
Can you not find another one?

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Army Thread 19th May

tiptronic_ct;862143 wrote: I also still lose my temper and scold them... And I don't always listen when they want my ear

But thank you, Starty :l

You are there Tiggs, thats so very important

[tiptronic_ct]

Army Thread 19th May

wannachange;862140 wrote: Ayy but my Councillor forgets me as we only meet once a month, :H have to tell her my life story every time I meet her, thinking of doing this without councilling actually

Sorry if I'm being opinionated, but: you cannot possibly be getting much value out of a once-a-month session. I see my psych at least once a week for analysis and therapy. It is a helluva intense experience.

[wannachange]

Army Thread 19th May

I could starty but its a long story, she works on a sliding scale and they are hard to find and currently my financial situation fits in nicely

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Army Thread 19th May

I reckon that guy knows what he is taking about
We need to accept our lives for what they are now and what they have been. We need to finally say, the past is in the past, things have happened that I cant change, but we have to accept that and make amends if needed.
I can totally accept I am only human, I have made mistakes, I have regrets but more importantly I forgive me. We need to think about today not yesterday for it is a closed chapter in this book we call our lives and move on to a brighter future.