Just wanted to share some insight we had recently.
My husband and I gave up drinking April 18th 2010. It has been an up and down battle but we are both very happy to still be AF and enjoying a better life.
We have been feeling nervous about family who drink heavily and how we were going to interact with them when they came over. Yesterday we told this one family couple who were heavy drinkers that we had given up drinking, and then waited for the negative comments...instead they told us that a friend of theirs was on death's door because he wouldn't give up drinking. They had decided to cut back dramatically and now they only go to BYO restaurants and take 1/2 a bottle of wine with them. Previously they drank 2 bottles each at dinner. They congratulated us on quitting and thought we were doing great. They said we could all have a great sober time together now. This was a big, great, surprise to us.
There are so many comments about fearing what others think when we give up AL. I felt this way as well. Instead maybe our friends and family would be glad if we told them we had given up, as they have wanted to as well... just like this couple.
Best wishes to you all in your journey.
Hazeleyes
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