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    #136
    ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

    thanks Oney, intend to be here alot more, thinking of getting a laptop but for now ive to log off and feed the clan!

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      #137
      ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

      Will talk to you later....deadly that you will be around more...buy a second hand laptop!
      "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

      AF 10th May 2010
      NF 12th May 2010

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        #138
        ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

        limers;897187 wrote: Hi all, day 2 in Limeyville and feeling good. Have talked to everyone about it , husbos mum,my mum,my family and they all agree and support me in my givng up the cans and focusing on the kids. Husbos promised to remind me why im doing it all if I ask him to go to the offie and swore he wont but me any. So im feeling optimistic...
        Hiya Limey and Oney.
        Just read back over the threads. So sorry about the problems with your son Limey. Teenagers are so difficult to deal with. Good that you've talked to your family and that you will face all of this together. Support is so important. As far as the kids go, it's really hard to know how tough to be on them. If you're too lenient, they get away with murder and if you're too tough they want to murder you. Just be as close to him as you can and try to get him to talk. Or if he won't talk to you maybe you have a friend or family member that he would open up to. Have you checked about drugs? Is there any chance he could be using something. Kids at that age get pressured a lot by their peers and will often do things just to be in with the crowd.
        Glad your husband has agreed not to buy you any more AL. You will no doubt find more courage in dealing with the kids if you've got the AL problem under control.
        Best of luck with both.
        Stirly...
        For every 60 seconds that you are angry, you lose a minute of happiness.
        AF since 10/10/2015:yay:

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          #139
          ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

          beagle;897125 wrote: thanx One2, johnny, mr Tips dropped in to Underoos....i've just felt so detached & really need to get the hell out of Dodge do you know what I mean?
          I have a charming lil bag of green dream rigged up but couldn't stand to give the ole dog her stuff first,then been looking at the exhaust pipe all day & thinking about a nice spot with a view.Selfish yes but really i'm over worrying about what other people think.
          Me again. I was just going back over what's been posted on the threads and read the above. Urban Dictionary says that "green dream" is the stuff they give to animals to put them down. Along with that and the mention of the exhaust pipe and a nice view, have me worried. She did make one post after that and then disappeared. I hate it when stuff like this happens. And Beagle lives out in the middle of damned nowhere so it would be impossible to send someone out to see if she's okay. And it's the middle of the damn night there.
          Anyway, I didn't know what she was referring to with the "green dream". BTW she's a vet so would have easy access to it.
          I'm going out for a bit. Back soon.
          For every 60 seconds that you are angry, you lose a minute of happiness.
          AF since 10/10/2015:yay:

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            #140
            ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

            God, I didnt understand that post at all....I do now thanks Stirls.

            Somebosy must have a number for her?? Is she on FB??
            "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

            AF 10th May 2010
            NF 12th May 2010

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              #141
              ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

              oh site. I didn't get the post at all either. It makes a lot more sense now. That's really worrying.

              I just didn't know what to say so held my piece.
              AF since 15th March 2010

              The journey is the goal. As long as you're fighting the good fight and you're not giving up on giving up, you're winning. It's not about how often you get knocked down, it's about how often you get up again. Sobriety the goal for sure. But striving to get to that goal is what it's about. Not getting there. Because the journey never ends. The journey is the goal.

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                #142
                ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                Oh, kids!Reading through the post I got really uneasy with Beagles message. Please, keep up the contacts! I'm not here much, prepping for having all my grands this week.
                Limes, it hard for me to give you advice. I'm from a dif era, dif culture. I'm VERY old school when it comes to my babies, and, as my son (39) says, I wasn't tough enough. But they respect and try to please me. Our Tay just fixed her 'Cruella De Ville' hair, came straight to me to show it. I've praised and rewarded her constantly for it, and she's a happier, more thoughtful child now. They ARE children, and they need guideposts along the way. As adults, they have only their past to guide them, and I PRAY I give mine what they need to be happy in their lives.
                'Nuff preaching from me. As I said, we all live different lives in different places. I'm pretty much 'The Waltons'. No brag, just fact. But you all have to deal with your OWN lives, where you are, and it's SO much better to do it soberly. I wouldn't be anticipating my grands if I was the sop I used to be. Love to you all.
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                  #143
                  ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                  well Rubes thx for the thought but it cant have been all the waltons are you wouldnt have found your way here?!Just some thoughts of my own...

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                    #144
                    ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                    No, Limes, it wasn't. But that's close to my life, with drinking uncles!!
                    Like I said, I can't give advice outside my little world. And you are a GREAT mom!
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                    awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                      #145
                      ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                      rubywillow;897269 wrote: No, Limes, it wasn't. But that's close to my life, with drinking uncles!!
                      Like I said, I can't give advice outside my little world. And you are a GREAT mom!
                      no drunkin Rubies then??:H

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                        #146
                        ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                        Not anymore, love. I will remember her always, as a constant reminder of the life I can lose that I love.
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                        Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                        awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                          #147
                          ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                          And, as I say, and have learned in my dottage!, I cannot impose my lifestyle on those who live differently. I just was NEVER taught AL was a danger. And now I preach it to my loves every day. (Yes! They're sick of it! :H)
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                          Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
                          awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                            #148
                            ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                            just a quick hello. been in bed all day feeling shit, well theres a surprise. im so bloody annoyed at myself for drinking and im bloody annoyed at my self for coming on here drinking. i know drinking NEVER helps anything, i know that and im always telling others that. why do i not listen to what i already know. i really thought i had this crap sorted... obviously not. SORRY for all that shite. im off to my woodturning class and getting my head back in the right place. HOW BLOODY STUPID!!!!!!!
                            Today is the tomorrow i worried about yesterday and it turned out fine
                            Keep passing the open windows

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                              #149
                              ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                              Good evening, all

                              Good to see you, Limey :l

                              Hey, Rubes, Johnny & Oney
                              I'll do whatever it takes
                              AF 21/08/2009

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                                #150
                                ARMY THREAD 28 JUNE 2010

                                spuddleduck;897278 wrote: just a quick hello. been in bed all day feeling shit, well theres a surprise. im so bloody annoyed at myself for drinking and im bloody annoyed at my self for coming on here drinking. i know drinking NEVER helps anything, i know that and im always telling others that. why do i not listen to what i already know. i really thought i had this crap sorted... obviously not. SORRY for all that shite. im off to my woodturning class and getting my head back in the right place. HOW BLOODY STUPID!!!!!!!
                                :l:l:l

                                Upward & onward, Spuddie
                                I'll do whatever it takes
                                AF 21/08/2009

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