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    A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

    A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again!

    A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

    Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

    In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

    Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see."

    "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

    Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.


    Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"


    Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.


    "Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?


    Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?


    Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?


    Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

    May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

    The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

    Many Blessings
    xx
    "Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does not laugh and the greatness which does not bow before children." Kahlil Gibran
    Clean and sober 25th January 2009

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    A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

    Nice and I totally agree, hence my tagline.
    Ethanol is a toxic chemical, why would I drink it?

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      #3
      A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

      KTAB I actually mentor at a place in Liverpool called "Genie in the gutter" Take a peek!

      Genie in the Gutter

      I've always liked your signature and it's one of Oscar Wilde's finest quotes in my book!
      "Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry, the philosophy which does not laugh and the greatness which does not bow before children." Kahlil Gibran
      Clean and sober 25th January 2009

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        A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

        The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.hippie


        Love this as it is so true for me.Thanks hippie


        :congratulatory: Clean & Sober since 13/01/2009 :congratulatory:

        Until one is committed there is always hesitant thoughts.
        I know enough to know that I don't know enough.

        This signature has been typed in front of a live studio audience.

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          A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

          Philly, I chased the rainbow, found all that glitters truly is not gold. Today, the quiet country life, broken onlly by wildlife and my grand's happiness and glee at the freedom of nature, are what sustain me and thrill me.
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          Never look down on a person unless you are offering them a hand up.
          awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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            #6
            A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

            Awesome, Hippie! (Gotta love a gal who quotes Kahlil Gibran!)
            Go before that fire there, at the altar of your heart
            That fire of who you really are and be consumed by it fully
            Surrender everything into the fire of that love until you are one with that love. You ARE that love.
            Tilak Pyle Altar of the Heart

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              A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

              Looks interesting Phil, its nice to see people helping themselves and giving something back to help others. It is by giving that we receive, in ways we cant imagine sometimes, I reckon. Fair play to you.
              Ethanol is a toxic chemical, why would I drink it?

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                A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

                Interesting, I just read that lesson yesterday after saving it in a file of documents I sent to my daughters in 2005. Still haven't been able to bring myself to delete it. So obviously I thought it was pretty darn good. )

                Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible and suddenly you are doing the impossible.


                St. Francis of Assisi

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                  A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

                  I think I have reacted every way at some point in the past , ive felt weak, ive tried as a result to toughen myself and on occasion Ive blossmed with my trials and in the end im left with just me, trying to live , trying to learn , trying my best to find my healthy balence.

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