The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

[OverIt2007]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

Oh Crap... Im just catching up on whats going on!! I hope everything gets smoothed over!!!

When I was a kid, I wrecked my Fathers car a few times. Um, not a fun experience, but you do manage to live through it.

"This TOO Shall Pass!"

[mama bear]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

i have been chanting that to myself the last few hours.....
any body own a money tree that they could spare a seed of????

[OverIt2007]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

How do you think Papa Bear going to handle this??? Are you afraid he will lose it??

[mama bear]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

um...yes....but we will stand there meekly and lat him rant and rave.....and he will eventually calm down....My poor baby is so upset and embarassed..that's what kills me.....and if papa gets out of hand...I have an iron skillet....and Ruby.....

[tlrgs]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

yeah i do mama but still waiting for the avocadoes to get ready and i can make at least some money this month well maybe next month

[OverIt2007]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

I feel your pain Mama, I really do. I hope it gets smoothed over as quick as possible!!!

I just had a thought though. It sounds like you got one Hell of a good boy though that he fears his father. Most kids these days just dont give a crap of respect for their parents!!

Just remember... "This TOO Shall Pass" Sending you a hug!!!

[mama bear]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

I have the best kids in the world....they adore and fear and respect their father...that's why we let him rant and rave and think he is in charge!!

[OverIt2007]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

Mama, you have the best kids in the world because you two are great parents. I grew up loving and fearing my father. When I did something wrong, I acted exactly like your son is now. My mother used to say to me "Just wait until your Father gets home" and when he did, I got one Hell of an ass whippin!

I love my father more than any Dad in the world!! He taught me Respect and Love both!!!

Love you!

[mama bear]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

I love you too baby sister!!

[OverIt2007]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

DITTO!!!

Its back to work for me... I just had a hour break. Ill check in later to see how the drama unfolded Mama. Dont worry, it wont be that bad Im sure!!!

[sunshinedaisies]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

Good evening all - my gosh, what a lot has been going on while I was at work!! Mb - as far as putting Mags in a diaper (Nappy to us Brits), if it comes to it, I suppose I will have to - I will see how the tabs work first - I suppose they will be estrogen tabs. Would just hate to do it to her!!

Ruby - the goats on the roof is so cute!! Overit - hallo to you - nice to see you here - welcome!! Biz - hallo to you too! In case you haven't guessed - I am working my way through the posts!! Ruby - my phone answer machine either kicks in after 2 or 10 rings - we go with the 2. Loved the pics of the cats yawning!

Vicki - we talked and things are fine - you are fine. I am fine. I love you - I would never hold a grudge anyway, and I am so pleased that we did talk - you are a sweetheart even if you do do too much!!!! I hope that you are feeling well today and have taken care of yourself. Oh - hubs has just come in - it is his day off today so I am going to go and chat with him and catch up then will be back to post more!!! love and hugs to you all - 'specially Vicki!!!! LOL

Love, Sun xx

[rubywillow]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

OK, Rubes in the house for a minute. I see MB needs me, so I'll give you MHO.
Hubs family was/is a 'car' family. Whose fault was the accident? (And I'm keeping in mind last nights, and previous, episodes)
If it was ALL his, he must own it. Immediately, to his dad. You need to back out, at this stage, and let the guys work it out. (I know you are a good and normal family). But this is a lot on hubby, suddenly. And I feel I know your man. He's going to rant, rave, get TRULY pissed off, but he'll find the way to deal with it.
I've owned a 16 y/o boy. Been there, done that, have the insurance bills to prove it. So, hard as it is, momma, let them work it out. Everyones safe. But everyone also has to grow up. Let your son and hubby talk, go in the kitchen and make a dinner. You will only bring more complaints on you, if you interfere. Give them both all the support you have, but, step out. (I found when I did that, Hubs was MUCH more soft than what I would have done.
It will pass. It's only tonight's trauma. Last resort, sell all the cars (cheaper!:H) and take the bus.
Love you.

[sunshinedaisies]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

Okay - me back again and carrying on - Rubes - I don't mind you carrying on and rambling either - I don't mind what anyone on here does!! I enjoy listening! Like Tony said - if I am not interested, I go on to the next one! Rog - would love to help you with a web site but what I know about web sites would fit on the head of a pin - sorry!! You probably need a 9 year old.

Hi co-co - nice to see you and a Happy weekend back at you!! Time - love your story re the names on your answer machine - I am like that - would have no idea how to change them - our machine still doesn't say the right time after our last power cut!!

MB - I used to have pigtails too - 'cept we called them plaits in England and my mum would do three - one on each side low down and one in the middle high up (go figure and she wondered why I had a complex!!), then when I was about 6 I cut off one of the low down ones . Ooppsss. I had to have short hair for a while.

Back to another post from Vicki saying sorry - Vicki we have covered this - it is old news - we are fine, it is forgotten - love you girl!!! Sorry you have had pain today - have you taken any pain pills? Try and rest eh??

JAN - if you are really going to a mountain top, I HAVE to come with you. I really really HAVE to. That sounds like heaven to me. Seriously I am so so sorry to hear about your trouble with the car and the accident - real bummer, but as Ruby said, the guys have to sort this one. you can't be the baby's mum and try and sort it for him. he is a big buy and must take responsibility, much as you want to fix it for him. It will be very hard for you I know. I am not sure I could do it............My heart goes out for you. You are strong although this is stretching even you. hang in there dear heart - we are all here for you.
Lots of love and hugs to you,

Love, Sun xx

[sick of being sick]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

It's deeply discouraged me again... I wrote a letter to Paul about his drinking. He got very angry and decided to go pick up limbs way out in the back. He got so defensive about his drinking and he said so many hurtful things to me to tell me to focus on myself and leave him the hell alone. In the letter I basically begged him to stop drinking because I missed the man I married, the man that wasn't depressed and critical and so defensive over everything, the man who had a strong healthy relationship with God, and loved me. It was a sweet, loving, heartfelt letter, but now all he wants is not to be anywhere around me. I honestly don't think he loves me anymore. He is always unhappy. I don't know what else to do.

[tlrgs]

The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for august

well vicky... you did your best and keep on doing it and as for paul ...like in many relatships give him some space.. keep doing the things that help you and in time all time change.. try not to push but accept him as he is right now and be there for him ..when he falls and be the strong one .. i know it might be asking alot and it does hurt .. but i believe in you vicky and you will get even stronger and make it thru this with the help god and us here .. love and hugs girl