Army Thread Saturday 4th september

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Thanks Mario.
Dont think I have ever been through anything as tough

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

of course not starts,

how is the rest of your family

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Its weird, no one is panicking, but we all seem to fall apart every so often...
Just getting through and trying to help mum as much as possible.
My brother wants her to go and live with him. She doesnt want to, but I dont think shes gonna manage on her own for much longer

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Are you all living near her

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

I live about 1 mile away, and my bro lives about 100. But his house is better equipped for her than mine. Plus he works from home so could look after her.
At the mo, I am going round every day and can be there quickly if necessary.

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Well that's good, has your mother got home help as well.

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Nothing yet. She has called the Macmillan nurses but no ones come back yet
She seems to have deteriorated loads in the last week.

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Can you not ring them as well & explain better or get your brother to do it,

I know its terible starts but there is not much anybody can say or do,you have to make sure that yourself keeps well through all this.

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

I will if we dont hear by monday. I have to be very careful not to take over from mum. She needs to do what she feels is right for her at the mo, still have some control you know?

I know there is nothing to say, Rich is being an absolute star right now. Dont know what Id do without him

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Fairplay to rich

sometimes the very sad times brings out the best in people that are around us

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Yep and these things always teach us something about ourselves too
I have quite strong beliefs in life and death etc and at the mo, they are very comforting.

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Well thats a help, i havent really thought about it, i am still trying to get me head around living :-)

[startingover]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Yes, well thats a toughie
Gonna have a nanna nap now. Nice chatting Mario X

[mario]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

ok starts, xxxx

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Saturday 4th september

Hewwo

Starts, it's bloody hard,lambie:l