Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

so what you are saying is that both of us should sit alone in our respective homes in fear that we might dump each other and end up alone?

It makes perfect sense really

[mario]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

For me personally i would not be in a serious relationship with someone much younger than me, that's not criticizing other people who are, its just me.

[mario]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

Zeppie2;956935 wrote: so what you are saying is that both of us should sit alone in our respective homes in fear that we might dump each other and end up alone?

It makes perfect sense really

zeps i cant say that about anyone else,everybody knows themselves what they really want,


if i was you i would sit mr zips down and talk & talk & talk, to me it comes across as his insecurities and fear,he needs loads of reassurances, and i speak this from my own insecurities & fears and as a man

[spuddleduck]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

Zeppie2;956935 wrote: so what you are saying is that both of us should sit alone in our respective homes in fear that we might dump each other and end up alone?

It makes perfect sense really

nooooooo .. we been together about 5 years now which is a lot longer than some relationships ive been in, in fact apart from my 'big' 13 year relationship its the longest. it you were closer id bring mr spuds to have a word with your fella..... oooh then again a nice holiday in NZ might be nice

[spuddleduck]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

ooh and just realized he;s 66 not 65.... theres me forgetting about age diff

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

I really know I am trying to push poop up hill with this one. My beef is that it is only the age gap that is ruining everything for him. He has said so himself, if he was younger he'd be right into the relationship.

To me that just seems so unfair, I have finally found the man of my dreams and I can't be with him because I am too young. It would be so much easier if he said it was because I was too ugly or smelled funny.

[mario]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

Zeppie2;956947 wrote: I really know I am trying to push poop up hill with this one. My beef is that it is only the age gap that is ruining everything for him. He has said so himself, if he was younger he'd be right into the relationship.

To me that just seems so unfair, I have finally found the man of my dreams and I can't be with him because I am too young. It would be so much easier if he said it was because I was too ugly or smelled funny.

zeppie2 can you explain to him your own fears and keep talking to him, but i do know there is only so much you yourself can do :l

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

I can only but try Mario, thanks for your words of wisdom, but I must away to bed. Have a lovely day

[mario]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

Goodnight zeppie2 x


see ya tomorrow

[mario]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

Looks like the barracks is empty, laters

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

I am lurking a bit. Collapsed in the chair trying to cool down and get my breath back, been pushing the mower around the garden. Even started it up.

[beagle]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

i'm back from washing dishes & serving steak burgers at the sports club.....
anyone still around?

hehe @ you ktab.....we have a ride on mower as our "lawn" (more commonly known as weeds) is a tad big for pushies.

[mario]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

hi beagle & ktab

There are some mighty showers in this country & i dont mean the goverment , :-)

[beagle]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

hey mario what's happening over there?

[Opal]

Army Thread 11th Sept 2010

Hello KT, beagle & Mario got 5 minutes so thought I'd drop in. Your right about the showers Mario, some of them are terrible.