That's good, Sun, but anaesthiasia sounds atrocious. Really, two people with that kind of surgery having paddles in one day? I brought my daughter home after very serious bladder/kidney surgery in 1979 at best US childrens hospital in SE US. Scared the crap outta me, but they sent aides to help every day, thank goodness, since I was so stupid. One of my good friends died 2 years ago from the same disease, and daughter was told she might never bear children. She had a lot of problems, miscarriages, but she did. And now SHE delivers babies. I certainly don't the answers, only my experience, and mine with our insurance is great. I know thats the exception. But we pay through the nose, and I have to fight it often.
One thing I worry about too is that doctor friends have told me to stay away from hospitals, offices, if I can, because of the spread of these new, viral, drug-resistant illnesses. I read about more each day. 10 years ago, a caring physician told us not to leave a loved one alone in the hospital, because the quality of care is so bad. And this is with GOOD insurance. So where are we headed? The last time I was sick and in, Hubs call daughter in college, 2 hours away, just to let her know, and about midnight she showed up by my side and would not leave unless someone else was with me. I know I am blessed. I wish I could share it with the world. Please tell Swan how much I care, and wish I could do something personally for her. Thank you, Sun. You are such a loving person.
Wish I had answers. I don't. I just keep Swan in my prayers, and hope she stays in as long as she needs to to help her.
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