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    #31
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    I hope everything works out well for you Jodie. One thing is for sure - drinking and parenting don't mix well for people like us. Of course you already know that. :l:l:l Have faith that it will all work out for the best. (I know that's hard to do!)

    DG
    Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
    Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07

    One day at a time.

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      #32
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      You f**k up your partner and never come back here in that mood.you known if someone get f...up no matter.pls handle yourself.
      Kota
      If nature gives us lemon, we have a choice: either to cry or make lemonade.

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        #33
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        Kota I'm not sure what you are meaning but it doesn't sound very nice. I'm sure you realize this is a support site and we all pull together here to try and help one another.

        I would hope if you were going through this you would get words of encouragement from other members.
        "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
        AF - JAN 1st 2010
        NF - May 1996

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          #34
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          I favour you and respect as well.Anyway dot not take negative!
          I just think language only does not matter.he/she may know one English but I know at least 4.
          Sorry chill,
          Kota
          If nature gives us lemon, we have a choice: either to cry or make lemonade.

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            #35
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            I favour you and respect as well.Anyway dot not take negative!
            I just think language only does not matter.he/she may know one English but I know at least 4.
            Sorry chill,
            Kota
            If nature gives us lemon, we have a choice: either to cry or make lemonade.

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              #36
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              Wishing you well Kota :l
              "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
              AF - JAN 1st 2010
              NF - May 1996

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                #37
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                Thanks all for words of wisdom,one thing is for sure its not worth drinking over.
                Its just a shame it comes down to this,my eldest daughter(22) and my grandson(16mths) live with me and my son(18) lives with his dad.We all see a lot of each other and they have found a balance with their dad.The issues are around the 9yr old daughter.Her dad has told me that he will look for primary care of her so that he can hold on to the house till she is 18.He said he will drag me through the mud and say that i am a chronic alcoholic who could not be trusted with her.
                I don't dispute that i am an alcoholic, but no harm has ever come to my daughter while she is with me,the greatest harm was caused to my older children who witnessed his violence on me.The youngest one was only 4 when i fled that house.
                The courts have documents on refuge centers i stayed in,police reports,a&e reports and pictures of injuries caused to me.So if there is any justice in this world things will turn out that i am the primary carer.

                XX

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                  #38
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                  My English is not good,may be our vodka,beer,rum,wishky,gin,wine are good.
                  sorry.
                  If nature gives us lemon, we have a choice: either to cry or make lemonade.

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                    #39
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                    Jodie if at all possible I wouldn't admit to being an alcoholic. It's impossible to prove, you can say you drank accessively due to stress during the physical abuse but now have it under control which is true.
                    "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
                    AF - JAN 1st 2010
                    NF - May 1996

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                      #40
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                      Chillgirl i have already told them that i used alcohol as a sedative and to make me feel brave when he started on me,which is true.
                      But that is not the case anymore,and they can see that,i hold down a job since i left him 4 years ago,i look after my kids and my grandson,i pay my bills with no support from him.If i was the kind of alcoholic he is making me out to be i would not be able to get out of bed in the morning never mind function.

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                        #41
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                        Good advice Chilli, I agree and with documentary evidence of his violence he hasnt a hope of getting custody. Sounds like he is trying to play mind games with you trying to stress you out and hoping you fall into a bottle and his trap. Dont do it. Any man that lifts a finger to a woman is a f***ing coward.
                        Ethanol is a toxic chemical, why would I drink it?

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                          #42
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                          Best wishes with everything Jodie.
                          2 month's af is a huge accomplishment which you have not lost. It is your's, and you did it, so back on the horse, and do what you have to do to stay sober.

                          Take care, and go for it.

                          'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'

                          Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-

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                            #43
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                            Here here KT.

                            'I am part of all that I have met, yet all experience is an arch wherethro', gleams that untravelled world whose margins fade, forever and forever when I move'

                            Zen soul Warrior. Freedom today-

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                              #44
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                              Guitarista;975278 wrote: Best wishes with everything Jodie.
                              2 month's af is a huge accomplishment which you have not lost. It is your's, and you did it, so back on the horse, and do what you have to do to stay sober.

                              Take care, and go for it.
                              Feet are well and truly in the stirrups

                              Thanks Ktab

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                                #45
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                                Jodie look forward to meeting you in a couple of weeks!
                                "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
                                AF - JAN 1st 2010
                                NF - May 1996

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