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[jodiex]

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All went ok in court (i think) no decision as of yet. the county registrar wants my daughter to have a "section 47".. whats that you may ask because i did..
It means that the court will appoint an independent psychologist to interview her father and me separately,visit each of our homes and decide where is best for her to live..
Some else playing GOD with my daughters life!!!!!!

[Seethepony]

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Oh no! Sorry to hear that.

[Chillgirl]

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Jodie how old is your daughter? Does she not get a say in this?

[Accountable for Me]

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((( hugs )))

Wishing you and your daughter all the best through this. xo

[jodiex]

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Chillgirl;975007 wrote: Jodie how old is your daughter? Does she not get a say in this?

My daughter is only 9...and time with her dad is usually the "fun" time.Im the one who has to do the usual homework.bedtime,bath time,discipline etc. So i dont know what she will say if she is interviewed herself

[Pride before Fall]

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Jodie, is this part of divorce, or is he trying to change an existing custody agreement for some other reason? I can't think they'd place a nine-year-old with her dad instead of her mum, unless he'd been responsible for the bulk of child care over the years.

[hart]

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Crossing my fingers for you Jodi. Another very good friend of mine is going thru a custody battle for her 2 1/2 year old. These are definitely the times evil alcohol comes whispering in our ear. You did well not giving in totally, good work!

[Dewdrop]

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Hi Jodie,

What an awful situation to be in, I'm thinking of you and sending good vibes your way. You need to be strong for your daughter and yourself and the best way to do that is to stay away from the booze - but you already know that.

Thinking of you :l:l

Dewdrop :h

[kota]

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You f**k up your partner and never come back here in that mood.you known if someone get f...up no matter.pls handle yourself.
Kota

[jodiex]

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kota;975170 wrote: You f**k up your partner and never come back here in that mood.you known if someone get f...up no matter.pls handle yourself.
Kota

Can you explain more i dont quite understand what you mean??????

[jodiex]

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Pride before Fall;975046 wrote: Jodie, is this part of divorce, or is he trying to change an existing custody agreement for some other reason? I can't think they'd place a nine-year-old with her dad instead of her mum, unless he'd been responsible for the bulk of child care over the years.

We have joint custody at the moment but now that the divorce is imminent it has to be decided who will be the primary carer,its all politics..

[fluff]

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Hoping everything works out in your favor- I bet the court will see who carries the most responsibility with your daughter and that's obviously you-
Thinking of you, Jodie
Fluff

[mario]

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jodiex;975175 wrote: We have joint custody at the moment but now that the divorce is imminent it has to be decided who will be the primary carer,its all politics..

As far as i know jodie the woman is the primary carer unless it can be proven otherwise,


I dont think kota english is that good

[Pride before Fall]

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Ditto on what Mario said, I think Kota was well meaning!

I went through the same thing 8 years ago Jodie; my kids were 3, 6, and 9 at the time. My ex fought tooth and nail, even though he had them three days a week. He was very angry over the divorce and just wanted to fight. I got laid off right in the middle of it all, to boot. It was awful, trying to stay even around the kids. My heart goes out to you. I did end up as "custodial guardian" (what bizarre legalese terms for mom and dad). All I can say is, this too, shall pass. They're 17, 14, and 12 now, and all thriving. They still spend 3 days a week with him, and 4 with me.

Hang in there, it gets better. xoxox Pride

[kota]

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You f**k up your partner and never come back here in that mood.you known if someone get f...up no matter.pls handle yourself.
Kota