I say looser are always focus on our weakness( may be we ) where as successful people focus on their strength.What happen if we focus on weakness,
1. We loose our energy whatever left from alcohol abuse, alwaysthinking how can we give up our bad habit.Energy lossfor bad means simply no energy for good.
2.We have negative and positive thoughts in our mind, so if we add positive things negatives starts escaping as we have fixed space in our mind.Lets say we have 80% negativity and 20% positivity now.Total space in mind is always 100 %, cant expand at all. What happens if we add 20 % positivity with our limited energy it will change our porpertion and negativity goes down to 60% and positivity increased to 40 % so lets starts to use our energy in something good.LET'S ADD UP GOOD HABIT DONT THINK FOR BAD IT GOES AUTOMATICALLY.
3. What happens if we focus on negativity, it grows well as it percieves that we are loving it.In loving environment everything flourish.
4. Obviousely, we lost our energy for thinking to give up bad habit ,do not left any energy for the good one.
How can we formulate good habits ?
-Try to be as busy as possible still it is not benefitting you but not harming at least like surfing in this forum.
-Be a members of church,schools,charities,social clubs etc. Do not put any spare time apart from your sleeping,dinner, family chores etc.
-Always try to go inner core of your heart rather than physical facilities.Do meditation,go for spritual events.Have you ever heard any richest person is/ was being the happiest person in the world ?
-Definitely, we have peace with us not outside.
- Serve others as much as that brings the satisfaction 10 fold as said by Hippie.
-Remember giving is living not drinking,serve others.
-People who gives to others sleep well and who takes from others eat well ,Its our choice !!
These are some of my realized facts in my life so please comment or add if any !
Thank you for reading.
Kota
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