Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

[startingover]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Zeppie2;1002366 wrote: Only via the texting machine (the root of all my evil) - he is there for me if I really need him, but he cuts me short if I try to suggest we get back together

Blimey, think I would find that even more painful?

[Chillgirl]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Zeppers I have to say that not forgiving you for what you said makes him a ERC too! :H
(emotionally) there are a hell of a lot of things in life worth forgiving that are way bigger that name calling, he needs to stop taking himself so seriously.... Sorry just my $2 worth

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

I'm still kinda hoping he will change his mind Starty - even though I hate to admit it.

[startingover]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Well Zepps, you never know. I will keep my claws crossed for you x

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Oh I know Chills - I have huge dilemmas in my head almost daily - some days I think stuff him and others I feel bad about what I called him (he's very old school and was most offended one day I called him a jerk). I don't know if I am so attached to him because he got me thru 8 months of my year of being af?

[Chillgirl]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Zeppie2;1002373 wrote: I'm still kinda hoping he will change his mind Starty - even though I hate to admit it.

Zeppers just be yourself, don't push it or seem needy, you never know if he starts to see you as more independent he may change his mind. I realized I wanted my ex back once I saw him with someone else but by then it was too late :upset: he'd tried really hard to get me back but I wouldn't listen

[startingover]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Zeppie2;1002375 wrote: Oh I know Chills - I have huge dilemmas in my head almost daily - some days I think stuff him and others I feel bad about what I called him (he's very old school and was most offended one day I called him a jerk). I don't know if I am so attached to him because he got me thru 8 months of my year of being af?

Could be, he was with you through an incredibly challenging time and you might associate him with your success.
He does sound a bit of a knob tho

[Chillgirl]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

startingover;1002377 wrote:
He does sound a bit of a knob tho

:H:H:H

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

thanks Starty - you always make me laugh

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Right that's enough of that talk - don't want to be the bird who comes on here and wahs on about her ex.

[startingover]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Ah well, sometimes its just nice to talk about stuff and get it out there.
I am toying with the idea of writing about my fall from grace when my mum died.
Not sure yet, I dont want it to sound like "poor me" but in a way I want to be able to express how my thoughts changed over a period of time and how easy it is for habits to change from good to bad.....anyway, it might help someone, and it might help me so I might do

[mario]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

Good morning


I have a hangover

[mario]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

of cake

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

you should starters - i think it's good for all of us to realise that this isn't a quick fix. I certainly thought my poop didn't stink after I got a year under my belt, all though I should have because I hit the skids after 6 months the previous time. It's all to easy to go back to the way we were just thankfully we have the sense to overcome it.

[Zeppie2]

Army Thread 13th Nov 2010

hello there mario