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    6 months AF, and happy.

    3rd Jan 2011.

    Day 1 of packing in the booze, and cant believe 6 months later and here I am, no alcohol and 6 months and WANT to keep going.
    Feeling great, and proud.

    Had an eventful weekend. Had a long chat with my alcoholic father for the first time, there was a lot of shouting and man to man talking that we both needed to get off our chests. We left on good terms though.
    He is sober at the moment, but rarely stays off it for more than three months.
    He didnt realise I had quit also, I told him I would support him if he continued to try stay off the booze.

    Saturday night, there was a "street party" where I live.
    Its where most of the neighbours come out, have some games for the kids and a disco etc.
    I knew it would be another tester. About 30 adults came out with drinks, I was the ONLY adult not drinking. Quite a few wouldnt have even noticed.
    Although I found it strange that a few lads really tried to push alcohol on me. I repeatedly said I was fine with my orange, they were almost upset that I wasnt drinking. One of them called me boring. It was all very odd.
    But I stayed for the night and enjoyed it, went home at about 11.30 and got up this morning for a run at 7.00 am, feeling fantastic.
    Found out today the police were called at 1.00 as a few ot the lads got quite loud and a small argument had started.
    It was nice to be away from all that and grateful to wake up this morning hangover free and really had a nice day today with my family.
    Sorry, I am rambling.

    Anyway thats it from me, "I AM 6 MONTHS OFF THE GARGLE" happy days.
    Off on holidays next Saturday for my first sober foreign holiday. I am determined not to drink, hopefully I am strong enough, I think, in fact, I know I am.
    I am not throwing 6 months of hard work away.

    Thank you all for reading and also for your support. I really am so grateful.

    Up the Dubs

    Damo in Dublin.

    xxx
    Still trying !!!
    AF 25th June2014

    #2
    6 months AF, and happy.

    YOU ARE AMAAAAAAAZING!! So proud of you even though I don't know you!! Well, regardless, I hope you are proud of yourself.

    Keep on keeping on and have a fantastic holiday.
    Bean

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      #3
      6 months AF, and happy.

      Congratulations, excellent going Damo, you are doing brilliant.
      As regards some people having an issue with your not drinking, in my experience it is more than likely a case of their having a personal problem relationship with AL that they dont want to face up to.
      Enjoy you holiday, it will be so much better AF.
      Ethanol is a toxic chemical, why would I drink it?

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        #4
        6 months AF, and happy.

        Well done damo, your doing great,I agree with ktab most people who push the alcohol on you have problems themselves.Its good that you were talking to your father,it clears the air a bit.


        But anyway well done on 6 months, it is truly a great achievement and your quite positive determination is a credit to you. up the Dubs :-)


        :congratulatory: Clean & Sober since 13/01/2009 :congratulatory:

        Until one is committed there is always hesitant thoughts.
        I know enough to know that I don't know enough.

        This signature has been typed in front of a live studio audience.

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          #5
          6 months AF, and happy.

          Congratulations Damo on 6 months of the gargle.

          It could be worse, I could be filing.
          AF since 7/7/2009

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            #6
            6 months AF, and happy.

            'OFF' the gargle JC :H:H
            Ethanol is a toxic chemical, why would I drink it?

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              #7
              6 months AF, and happy.

              KTAB;1141311 wrote: 'OFF' the gargle JC :H:H
              I meant OFF, I haven't had me coffee yet.
              It could be worse, I could be filing.
              AF since 7/7/2009

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                #8
                6 months AF, and happy.

                Great job Damo, the first time i told some of my friends i wasn't drinking i might as well have told them i was having a sex change, such was the look of disbelief on their faces . I have the same view as the lads above as why they were wishing you to drink, i used to do the pushing myself, not of of spite but i couldn't believe why anyone who drank wouldn't want to drink. Have a good holiday you deserve it MM
                AF 5/jan/2011

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                  #9
                  6 months AF, and happy.

                  Way to go, that's awesome

                  Hope you have a brilliant AF holiday.....
                  I have a drink problem, I have been AF since 15 March 2011 and I am working hard to stay that way

                  They don't call me Pingu Purple Pants for nothing....

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                    #10
                    6 months AF, and happy.

                    Congratulations to you, and please keep on going forward!

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                      #11
                      6 months AF, and happy.


                      :yougo::yougo:CONGRATULATIONS ON 6 MONTHS AF!!!!:yougo::yougo:

                      fABulous!!!! Enjoy your sober holiday!

                      DG
                      Sobriety Date = 5/22/08
                      Nicotine Free Date = 2/27/07


                      One day at a time.

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                        #12
                        6 months AF, and happy.

                        DAMO :goodjob:

                        6 MONTH AF IS AWESOME!

                        :yougo: :yougo: :yougo:


                        It is wonderful to hear how well you are doing!
                        I can remember your 1st few posts Damo and how your positive attitude stuck out at me, you will go from strength to strength.

                        love
                        Chill
                        "In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer ."
                        AF - JAN 1st 2010
                        NF - May 1996

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                          #13
                          6 months AF, and happy.

                          Absolutely fantastic Damo, I've followed a lot of your posts and you really do seem to be in the right headspace to keep going, I stumbled just near 7 months so keep your guard up and really enjoy your holiday.

                          Dewdrop :h
                          Enjoy today - there will be no other one quite like it....

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                            #14
                            6 months AF, and happy.

                            WOO HOO 6 FABULOUS AF MONTHS!!!
                            :goodjob::goodjob::goodjob:
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                            Thoughts become things..... choose the good ones. ~TUT

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                              #15
                              6 months AF, and happy.

                              thank you all.

                              I DO need to keep up my guard up Dewdrop.
                              I know my AL brain is still waiting for me to slip.
                              I have accepted that there will probably always be temptations that I have to look out for.

                              Hope you are all keeping well.

                              Damo
                              xxx
                              Still trying !!!
                              AF 25th June2014

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