Army Thread 5th July

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread 5th July

Panno;1141847 wrote: Big hugs JC :l:l:l

What should you let go the thinking about hitting rock bottom?

What or Why?

I just need to let go of the overwhelming guilt I get from time to time of the absolute shite that Mr JC had to go through. He keeps saying it's fine, it's over, it's in the past, but I don't know how I would have handled it if the roles were reversed.

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 5th July

I would have thought that was a reason for celebration not sadness. I think if we live our lives wondering 'what if' then we arent really fulfilling our potential, in fact we are probably hindering ourselves.

[spuddleduck]

Army Thread 5th July

morning army peeps. if anyone wants a dog to wake them up, i have 2 very excited beasties here. its tipping down and i really dont feel like going walkies..... ho hum...... think i should get them a treadmill

[tiptronic_ct]

Army Thread 5th July

JackieClaire;1141845 wrote: Morning Ktabber, Hi again Panno,

Thanks for the smile there Panno, got a touch of the blues this morning.

It's 2 years ago to the day that I hit my rock bottom. I know I should let it go, but I can't help thinking if I do I'll start getting complacent.

:l:l:l

Take Mr. JC's word for it that it's all in the past and try to move on. You WON'T get complacent. But you need to stop the self-blame.

[tiptronic_ct]

Army Thread 5th July

Oh and :hallo: other peeps

[Panno]

Army Thread 5th July

I agree with KTAB & Mr T ...definately need to let go, and especially having the good fortune to meet Mr JC he certainly looks like a man who lets by gones be by gones :l

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread 5th July

KTAB;1141852 wrote: I would have thought that was a reason for celebration not sadness. I think if we live our lives wondering 'what if' then we arent really fulfilling our potential, in fact we are probably hindering ourselves.

tiptronic_ct;1141855 wrote: :l:l:l

Take Mr. JC's word for it that it's all in the past and try to move on. You WON'T get complacent. But you need to stop the self-blame.

Panno;1141857 wrote: I agree with KTAB & Mr T ...definately need to let go, and especially having the good fortune to meet Mr JC he certainly looks like a man who lets by gones be by gones :l

Aww lovelies, you're all right.

I could what if until I die and tangle meself in knots. And I should celebrate the fact that he's been beside me all the way. Do you know I think he's only ever lost his temper once over the whole time I was struggling.He's one of the good guys

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 5th July

JackieClaire;1141851 wrote: What or Why?

I just need to let go of the overwhelming guilt I get from time to time of the absolute shite that Mr JC had to go through. He keeps saying it's fine, it's over, it's in the past, but I don't know how I would have handled it if the roles were reversed.

You wont ever have to find out will you. Anyway thats what loving someone unconditionally means, through thick and thin, good times and bad.


Hi Spuds, when you do go out can you take my two mutts with you ta. They dont mind the rain.

[spuddleduck]

Army Thread 5th July

i officially declare mr jc a saint

[spuddleduck]

Army Thread 5th July

and god bless him and all who sail in him!

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread 5th July

KTAB;1141863 wrote: You wont ever have to find out will you. Anyway thats what loving someone unconditionally means, through thick and thin, good times and bad.

True and if there ever was I would be there with bells on.

spuddleduck;1141866 wrote: i officially declare mr jc a saint

:H:H:H

[Panno]

Army Thread 5th July

:wow:

spuddleduck;1141867 wrote: and god bless him and all who sail in him!

:H:H

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 5th July

KTAB wanna be a saint :wings: Ha chance would be a fine thing although I am behaving myself.

[beagle]

Army Thread 5th July

hello army how are you all.
jc, you are a gorgeous lady & leave the past be - burn that bridge behind you.
hi to panno, mario, expat, EW, all you northern hemisphere peoples. spudsy, sent you a pm.
now is there someone else?





hmmm.







let me think............








oh yes...............










KTAB you hunk of spunk give me a big tongue kiss please & then you WILL be a saint!:H

[InChains]

Army Thread 5th July

morning all

Reccy: glad you got the chance to talk to your mum and move forward, even though I'm sure it was tough its a step a in the right direction

Starty: Sorry to hear you had so little time to be open with your own mum, but glad to hear you got the chance to say the most important thing to her

JC: don't beat yourself up about what happened two years ago, you've done so much good since then in your own life and in our lives through MWO - if theres a karma I'm pretty sure you cancelled out your rock bottom by now :l

All this talk of people talking to their families got me thinking about my own - still haven't heard back about my dad... life goes on though eh? Last full day at home for me today before I journey to the holy land of metal that is knebworth, just trying to pass the time until I'm watching the big 4 xD

xIC