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Panno
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Greater Manchester
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?I told you I was trouble,? Amy Winehouse sang, ?You know that I?m no good.?
For me, that?s the most poignant lyric she ever wrote. It sums up the mind of an addict. You see, it wasn?t a brag; it was a mixture of ?keep away? and ?help me?.
How do I know? Because not so long ago, I was Amy Winehouse.
For most addicts, there?s a constant presence on your shoulder telling you you?re not good enough, that somehow, you?re ?less? than everyone out there. Your thoughts go round like a washing machine on high-speed. The noise in your head is constant, loud and harsh. It doesn?t matter whether you?re a rich and famous popstar, or Mary Taylor in Islington, homeless and sleeping rough in a shop doorway; it?s that same mindset. Alcohol and drugs are merely the medication.
Addiction isn?t fun. Addiction isn?t ?Let?s go to the pub and get pissed and have a right laugh? or ?Let?s get fucked on drugs and get up to mischief?. Addiction is lonely, terrifying and insidious. Oh, sure, you start out like everyone else, a few drinks here and there, a dabble or two in something a little harder. You don?t realise when it stops being fun, but it does. Suddenly you find yourself alone in a room, afraid to go out, because ?outside? is too damn scary.
So you take that hit, and for a short while, the noise stops. Peace through oblivion. Then you come around and the noise starts again, louder this time, and coupled with the anxiety, fear and terror that come with withdrawal. So you take another hit. Sweet, blessed relief. And somewhere in the back of your mind you hope you don?t wake up from this one. You?re nothing but trouble, you see. All you cause is pain and worry.
I read a fantastic blog by Russell Brand today, in which he said:
?When you love someone who suffers from the disease of addiction, you await the phonecall. There will be a phonecall. The sincere hope is that the call will be from the addict themselves, telling you they?ve had enough, that they?re ready to stop, ready to try something new. Of course though, you fear the other call, the sad nocturnal chime from a friend or relative telling you it?s too late, she?s gone. Frustratingly it?s not a call you can ever make ? it must be received.?
The problem is, addiction is the only disease in existence that tells you that you haven?t got it. Lock an addict away and they?ll be looking for an escape, or biding their time and playing the ?yes, I?m fine now? role until they?re alone again. I?ve had people in the kitchen pouring drink away while I?ve been climbing out of the bedroom window on my way to buy more.
I?ve been a day out of hospital after being found in my flat, hours away from death, and already I?m figuring out where I can get hold of some gear. I believed the booze and drugs were giving me something. In fact, it was the opposite. They were hollowing me out, alienating my friends and family and slowly stripping me of all that was real and good.
Sadly, all the love and support in the world wasn?t going to help Amy get better. She was trotted out on stage at every opportunity to make money for her record company. She didn?t have the luxury of being left alone so she could*get better. Contracts had been signed and albums were due. Her star had to keep shining, and all the while the press were snapping at her heels, waiting for her to fall again.
I can?t imagine anything more frightening than the whole world waiting with bated breath for me to fuck up.
Yesterday evening, people shut down Facebook and Twitter, still in shock and disbelief at this tragedy, before heading off down to the pubs and clubs for a well-deserved blowout.
Mary in Islington sits down in her shop doorway, begging for a few coins to get a can of beer. Just a little something to help take the edge off. You might have seen her last night, she may have come up to ask you for some change, desperate and devoid of pride, but like a lot of people, you probably looked away, annoyed and uncomfortable.
Sunday morning rolls around, and half of London wakes up with a hangover. Some might even still be going. iTunes seizes the opportunity to promote Amy?s albums on its homepage to make some cash, and somewhere in Islington, an ambulance arrives to take away the body of a homeless woman found dead in a shop doorway.
And all over the world, recovering addicts wake up and pray to a God they?re not even sure exists for the strength to stay clean one more day.
The world carries on. Then somewhere, a phone rings.
Panno
Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Greater Manchester
Taken from a tweet
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Source: Getty images
?I told you I was trouble,? Amy Winehouse sang, ?You know that I?m no good.?
For me, that?s the most poignant lyric she ever wrote. It sums up the mind of an addict. You see, it wasn?t a brag; it was a mixture of ?keep away? and ?help me?.
How do I know? Because not so long ago, I was Amy Winehouse.
For most addicts, there?s a constant presence on your shoulder telling you you?re not good enough, that somehow, you?re ?less? than everyone out there. Your thoughts go round like a washing machine on high-speed. The noise in your head is constant, loud and harsh. It doesn?t matter whether you?re a rich and famous popstar, or Mary Taylor in Islington, homeless and sleeping rough in a shop doorway; it?s that same mindset. Alcohol and drugs are merely the medication.
Addiction isn?t fun. Addiction isn?t ?Let?s go to the pub and get pissed and have a right laugh? or ?Let?s get fucked on drugs and get up to mischief?. Addiction is lonely, terrifying and insidious. Oh, sure, you start out like everyone else, a few drinks here and there, a dabble or two in something a little harder. You don?t realise when it stops being fun, but it does. Suddenly you find yourself alone in a room, afraid to go out, because ?outside? is too damn scary.
So you take that hit, and for a short while, the noise stops. Peace through oblivion. Then you come around and the noise starts again, louder this time, and coupled with the anxiety, fear and terror that come with withdrawal. So you take another hit. Sweet, blessed relief. And somewhere in the back of your mind you hope you don?t wake up from this one. You?re nothing but trouble, you see. All you cause is pain and worry.
I read a fantastic blog by Russell Brand today, in which he said:
?When you love someone who suffers from the disease of addiction, you await the phonecall. There will be a phonecall. The sincere hope is that the call will be from the addict themselves, telling you they?ve had enough, that they?re ready to stop, ready to try something new. Of course though, you fear the other call, the sad nocturnal chime from a friend or relative telling you it?s too late, she?s gone. Frustratingly it?s not a call you can ever make ? it must be received.?
The problem is, addiction is the only disease in existence that tells you that you haven?t got it. Lock an addict away and they?ll be looking for an escape, or biding their time and playing the ?yes, I?m fine now? role until they?re alone again. I?ve had people in the kitchen pouring drink away while I?ve been climbing out of the bedroom window on my way to buy more.
I?ve been a day out of hospital after being found in my flat, hours away from death, and already I?m figuring out where I can get hold of some gear. I believed the booze and drugs were giving me something. In fact, it was the opposite. They were hollowing me out, alienating my friends and family and slowly stripping me of all that was real and good.
Sadly, all the love and support in the world wasn?t going to help Amy get better. She was trotted out on stage at every opportunity to make money for her record company. She didn?t have the luxury of being left alone so she could*get better. Contracts had been signed and albums were due. Her star had to keep shining, and all the while the press were snapping at her heels, waiting for her to fall again.
I can?t imagine anything more frightening than the whole world waiting with bated breath for me to fuck up.
Yesterday evening, people shut down Facebook and Twitter, still in shock and disbelief at this tragedy, before heading off down to the pubs and clubs for a well-deserved blowout.
Mary in Islington sits down in her shop doorway, begging for a few coins to get a can of beer. Just a little something to help take the edge off. You might have seen her last night, she may have come up to ask you for some change, desperate and devoid of pride, but like a lot of people, you probably looked away, annoyed and uncomfortable.
Sunday morning rolls around, and half of London wakes up with a hangover. Some might even still be going. iTunes seizes the opportunity to promote Amy?s albums on its homepage to make some cash, and somewhere in Islington, an ambulance arrives to take away the body of a homeless woman found dead in a shop doorway.
And all over the world, recovering addicts wake up and pray to a God they?re not even sure exists for the strength to stay clean one more day.
The world carries on. Then somewhere, a phone rings.
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