Army Thread 23rd September

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Army Thread 23rd September

Well at least that is something but if he really is trying to de-rail you then I think action is needed.

[anon]

Army Thread 23rd September

I do not think he is actively trying to de-rail me but he honestly does not see the problem. OR does not want to see the problem. I am a little bit too ashamed of myself to confront him.

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Army Thread 23rd September

anon;1181280 wrote: I do not think he is actively trying to de-rail me but he honestly does not see the problem. OR does not want to see the problem. I am a little bit too ashamed of myself to confront him.

Firstly you have nothing whatsoever to feel ashamed about, you didnt choose this.
Secondly I find it nigh on impossible to believe that he does not see the problem.
I would suggest you sit down with him and explain exactly the effect his drinking and keeping large quantities of AL in the house are having on you. Even if he doesnt wish to acknowledge the extent of this he owes it to you, as his wife, to accept the present situation and make the necessary changes.

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

Back in

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

KTAB;1181279 wrote: Well at least that is something but if he really is trying to de-rail you then I think action is needed.
KTAB;1181282 wrote: Firstly you have nothing whatsoever to feel ashamed about, you didnt choose this.
Secondly I find it nigh on impossible to believe that he does not see the problem.
I would suggest you sit down with him and explain exactly the effect his drinking and keeping large quantities of AL in the house are having on you. Even if he doesnt wish to acknowledge the extent of this he owes it to you, as his wife, to accept the present situation and make the necessary changes.

100%

[anon]

Army Thread 23rd September

KTAB;1181282 wrote: Firstly you have nothing whatsoever to feel ashamed about, you didnt choose this.
Secondly I find it nigh on impossible to believe that he does not see the problem.
I would suggest you sit down with him and explain exactly the effect his drinking and keeping large quantities of AL in the house are having on you. Even if he doesnt wish to acknowledge the extent of this he owes it to you, as his wife, to accept the present situation and make the necessary changes.

Watch this space

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

Good woman Anon.
You have are doing so well,it would be terrible to give in to this monster because other people don't or wont understand how deadly this disease is.Keep posting anon it will do you good to let it out :-)

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 23rd September

Great stuff Anon :goodjob:

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

Ktab what you up to today ?

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 23rd September

I have a Plan B btw.......

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

Army Thread 23rd September

Working away here in the background Mario, kinda.....

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

Me too :-)

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

whats the plan ??????

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Army Thread 23rd September

For Mr A if he doesnt play ball.

[mario]

Army Thread 23rd September

and and and were listening