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[Guitarista]

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Morning Missy, Higher Power, Sunny and doodyheads to come,

Geez Missy, poor kid. Not to mention yours and Mr. B's obvious frustration. I totally understand your desire to get blotto. Fact is, it will ease your stress for an hour or so or whatever, but then you'll be 'paying the ferryman' big time when you can't put the drink down. This will increase your stress, and the stress in your household hugely, as the dwelling on the negatives of an issue/situation will typically become even more all encompassing. The grog will still be in your system the next day, and you will likely have a very negative aspect on most things in front of you. Can you get out for a swim/bike ride, and treat yourself to something easy and relaxing. Remain philosophical and positive, as difficult as that seems. Booze is an old coping strategy that is not effective for us problem drinker's overall, and we must break through and use less harmful strategies. Spiritual river.com isn't a bad site for a bit of motivation.
Sorry for the rave, it's just i care.

Have a great day folk's, no matter what get's thrown at youse! Think positive and rise above the illusion.

Ooroo.

[Guitarista]

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Yet ANOTHER cross post. But what does it all mean??! :H

:h:h

Have a great day Bridget. :goodjob:

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Cross post.
Twin powers activate.:H

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Guitarista;1194967 wrote: Yet ANOTHER cross post. But what does it all mean??! :H

:h:h

Have a great day Bridget. :goodjob:

Oh my Dog!

[Miss Behaving]

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byebyebridgetjones;1194965 wrote:
Funeral was 'nice' but somewhat sanitised by the family, so we've decided to have a little memorial do at some stage.

I know what you mean Bridge. One of the decisions I regret when my sister died was letting Mum have a lot of say in how the funeral was. At the time I thought I was doing the right thing, but actually it just meant all her friends felt really left out. Having your own memorial is a good idea.

Guitarista;1194966 wrote: Can you get out for a swim/bike ride, and treat yourself to something easy and relaxing. Remain philosophical and positive, as difficult as that seems. Booze is an old coping strategy that is not effective for us problem drinker's overall, and we must break through and use less harmful strategies. Spiritual river.com isn't a bad site for a bit of motivation.
Sorry for the rave, it's just i care.

Thank you G. It is good to know that you do. Plan for the day is going out with my PT at 11:30 for a bit of boxing which is incredible catharctic!! I also have a bit of time between finishing work and an evening meeting so I'm going to head to the pool. And the evening meeting is with a couple of lovely nuns about women's emergency housing needs and we (they!) always start and finish these meetings with a meditation. So I will be busy and kept out of harms way ..... just wish the drinking thoughts would go away.

byebyebridgetjones;1194968 wrote: Cross post.
Twin powers activate.:H

:H:H I always laugh when you two cross-post!

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Zenstyle;1195018 wrote: Been up and down and up and down I have!!!!! Quite frazzled I am.

Yoda.....settle down you must.

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Guess what now Undies?
I've got an eye disease!
This is shaping up to be a bloody cracker of a week.

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Zenstyle;1195058 wrote: What kind of eye disease?

pressure problems. It's treatable, but getting older just gives me the shits.

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Zenstyle;1195061 wrote: That sounds like something lazer surgery can sort out?

That's the one. I don't intend to much around with it. I have family members that are now blind as a result, and I have no intention of missing MWO.:H

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Zenstyle;1195065 wrote: And whatever else... just don't start wearing the big knickers.

No I'll be leaving the Bonds cottontails well alone.

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Zenstyle;1195071 wrote: WTF is that?!!! OMG... Don't start me off!!!

Great big Granny pants Zen. Passion killers.

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Zenstyle;1195069 wrote: Go and get an appointment and ask them what they can do.... be stern!! Ya know?

I was very bossy indeed. You would have been proud.:H

[Rags]

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byebyebridgetjones;1195054 wrote: Guess what now Undies?
I've got an eye disease!
This is shaping up to be a bloody cracker of a week.

What's happened to your eye?

[Rags]

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byebyebridgetjones;1195059 wrote: pressure problems. It's treatable, but getting older just gives me the shits.

Not glaucoma?

[Rags]

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Zenstyle;1195071 wrote: WTF is that?!!! OMG... Don't start me off!!!

There ya go Zenny. Bonds cottontails: go menu, women, underwear.


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