Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

Just reading back..
don't think I should talk about the weather here....

(terrace door open, sitting with shorts & cut down t'shirt...) it's 22? outside...

thing is with Canary's we never drop below 22?s night time or 24?daytime...just about nevr...

this is why it's called the "Isands of the eternal spring"

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

mollyka;1218103 wrote: Loved my free evenings when mine were little -- now they never go:upset:
I is off to bed lads, gonna read my book and sure will be full of beans in de morn -- so nighty night all:l

G'night molly, have a good sleep..:l

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

ooooh shite they're smoking again....

it stinks......

[InChains]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

night molly

so i never got up the courage tot alk to the wife about his new drugs... i think it might end up with an argument, or one of us being upset... or both *sigh*

[one2many]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

say nowt for now Inchy....wait until you are less upset xx

[InChains]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

oh n talk of bedtimes, you guys would ahve ahted my mums system xD after the age of about 6 or 7 the agreement was, we go to bed when we feel tired

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

InChains;1218110 wrote: night molly

so i never got up the courage tot alk to the wife about his new drugs... i think it might end up with an argument, or one of us being upset... or both *sigh*

Hi inchy, things are better spoken about, rather let to brew and get really angry.

[InChains]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

xpost - i don't know if i will be less upset by it, it bothers me a great deal, n it bothers me that it btohers me xD jeez, a straightforward day or 2 would be nice

jan - I know I should talk to him, feel I shoudl get my head striagth first... god what a mission to set myself at 7 to 11 on a wednesday night xD

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

can't you talk to your partner about how you feel?
I don't know too much of your history as I've been missing for a while..
but we are all here to help each other..

[one2many]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

Can you put your finger on why it is upsetting you Inchy, any inklings?

[InChains]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

i ahve theories. i think me and my partner are the only purely good thign i had... i mean, not early on, but now, and if he's ill, he's like my family and I don't want that. or maybe its because he functions better than i do, n by this logic i should be on pills too which is not cool with me, or maybe i think if he gets better he'll realise exactly how screwed up i've gotten and won't put up with it? or maybe he'll change and we won't talk the stuff we do now? maybe i blame myself a little bit, coz i couldn't make him better even though i tried for 5 years...

[InChains]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

jan: i used to, now i only talk about myself properly when I'm drunk... i'm too open then, and completely closed off sober...

[one2many]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

Awwwhh Inchy, he loves you, he is not gonna take the tablets and then look at you and think you are fucked up, they don't work like that.

I know you have had first hand experience in your family of mental illness which has shock, hurt and upset you and you are worried, he is a different person, he is not like your family.

I think it can only be a positive thing if it helps him cope with black moods, might change but only for the better, he will be much better able to cope with things and situations and you will still talk and do all the things you do now hon, only the black episodes will be few and far between xx

[InChains]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

haha, he gets those moods less than I do... bless him. guess thats what worries me... but anyway, thanks oney, nice to have somebody to talk to who doens't just thing I'm being ridiculous

[one2many]

Army Thread Wednesday 30th November

No, I don't think you are at all, I do understand and you have been to hell and back with mental illness in your family, who could blame you.

Sleep on it and see how you feel and just tell him what you wrote here and have a chat xx