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    The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

    Sun, thanks for your enquiry about James. His arm was much better today so probably only two more days of trips to the hospital, hopefully. I told him this morning that I put up reports on him here from time to time and that I've told you all about his arm and even posted a picture. I think he was really touched when I explained your concern and that you ask after him. ALwise he's doing really well, although he still has some work to do from time to time.
    AGuy, I told him about your courageous efforts over the past 10 days and he was impressed. His withdrawal from AL and Oxycontin last year was horrendous. He was too ill to have any control over his bowels and just shivered and shook for about a fortnight. He couldn't lift a 2 litre bottle of milk his father brought him. It was one of the most courageous things I've ever seen. I express the same admiration for you because I have some idea of what you're going through, after watching and trying to support James. It saved his life...Dr George O'Neill, a world leader in the treatment of addictions, told him if he didn't have the Naltrexone implants and stop drinking he's be dead by Easter. Thirteen months later and he has a zeal for life, a deep appreciation for the second chance he's been given and a newfound spirituality which is moulding his personality and helping him develop really admirable qualities. We were talking on Messenger tonight and he said he feels like he's taking up too much of my time...silly man, I hope I managed to fully convey to him how much joy I've had in watching him transform himself, and what a privilege it's been for me to have played a role in it. I have gained so much strength and encouragement from helping him...which has really proved to me the fundamental and undeniable truth that there is more joy in giving than receiving.

    Sorry, I was rattling on a bit there...still a bit wound up from talking to him I suppose.

    Fen, I think Bird's idea of writing to Mrs Fen is an excellent one. If you write from your heart to reach her
    heart, with your gift for words, it will surely have some positive effect, maybe soften her viewpoint and awake some understanding and empathy for you. I really hope it might be so.

    Ruby, your cousin's gift was beautiful and reminded me of the widow in the Bible who gave a small coin of little value in the temple, but because it was given out of her want and was all the means of living she had, it was esteemed of so much more value than the rich offerings given out of the surplus of others, that her selfless act was counted worthy to be recorded in the Bible. Although unnamed, this widow's heartfelt gift has passed on down through time as the shining example of the true meaning of giving.

    Wow, I'm really on a roll tonight. I'll shut up before you all tie me to the Taco Truck and festoon me in toilet paper.
    Love and hugs, my Northern Hemisphere family. Sometimes the time difference is hard because you all get to interact and I just have to climb up on my soapbox :soapbox: and seliloquise.
    :sorry: I'm sure you're all probably thinking :blah: but :thanks2: for listening anyway.
    Love and hugs.
    :h Mish :h
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    Never give up...
    GET UP!!!

    AF since 25th November, 2011

    What might have been is an abstraction
    Remaining a perpetual possibility
    Only in a world of speculation.
    What might have been and what has been
    Point to one end, which is always present. T.S. Eliot

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      The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

      Mish, thank you for sharing James story. Oxy was supposed o be a wonderdrug and has been a bane for addicts. I was prescribed it once, and had to throw it out. Bu hat was a doc I'd never go to again. Wha a joy for you o be able to see him ransform! (sorry about the t's!)
      Yes, cousin's gifts really ouched us. MY husband, son and I have reached ou to him he last year, he's cried often on the phone to me, and to be able to give them a little part of our family at Christmas was a real gift for me.
      You sound wonderful, honey. Blather on anytime!! :hug:
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      awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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        The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

        Wow....alot going on here....
        I have been up and cleaned up the Christmas debris...
        Fen- it's hard for me to be around drinkers, too. Hubs is very supportive of me not being around alcohol...and he watches me like a hawk.....Mrs Fen has given you an ultimatum, and if she really wants you in her life, she will support you unconditionally....and I agree you need some down time. If she can support you through this she will have a sober mate and then it will be a win win. Why should you be humiliated and made to feel like a five year old??? It's hard enough to white knuckle it through social situations without that added stress. OK......I am done and I love you no matter what.
        Sunni - your magnet is hanging on my refrig with pride and I will spritz my pillow every nite.:h
        Mish - you are such and eloquent and beautiful writer....much like Fen!!!
        Blather on anytime....I love reading your posts. Give James a hug for us and I am still waiting for an Ashe update. Your restraint is awesome.....I am as bit hot headed, and I totally agree that you need to stay out of the middle of it. Like Mimzey says, we have to trust our parenting skills and know our babies will do the right thing.
        Mimzey- -it was so sweet of you to visit with your nephew.....it is sad that your sister won;t see him.....I am not sure I could that to one of my boys.:l
        Birdy - glad you had a good day hon.
        Yesterday was exhausting but nice. I have to admit I am glad it's over!!!!
        Hubs thrilled me with some Bose noice reducing headphones so I can watch my Netflix in style!!! He knows that is my escape. The boys "cleaned up" and got money and clothes. Now Baby Son is making us crazy to go find his car. Pop gave him money when he turned 16 and the boy's pockets are on fire!!!!

        ok....enough from me......Georgie and ATL - sounds like you both had a great day and the trip to England and Ireland sounds FANTASTIC!!!!
        Guy - hope you had a good one sweetie!!
        Sunni Butt - I am so glad you got to talk to Swannie...I know the holidays must be tough for her, like they are for so many.
        I love my family more than alcohol.:h
        Live in the Solution....not the problem

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          The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

          good morning ladies .. well so good to see everyone this fine day and hope everyone is bright eye and bushy tail.. and ready for this wonderful week .. we have an awsome chirstmas dinner out in the yard at 73 degree ... lots of love here .. was great to have my family here ... well time for me o get my ass in gear and do something on my last day off before i start the bathroom R&R ..
          love and big hugs one and all
          :beach: life does change as long as you are willing to change yourself ..
          best thing about the future it comes one day at a time..

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            The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

            hey sweet Roger
            I be ironing
            Fen - I hope I didn;t say too much....now I am worrying.....
            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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              The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

              mama bear;1233189 wrote: hey sweet Roger
              I be ironing
              Fen - I hope I didn;t say too much....now I am worrying.....
              Mama, you are absolutely right...you have said nothing wrong. That's how I feel...I can't be expected to plunge immediately into drinking situations with no problems. It's hard enough as it is. Missus and I need to be on the same page. I had a "come to Jesus" talk with her last night after all my venting on here. I think she gets it...time will tell. :h

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                The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                bird;1233118 wrote: Hi all
                Fenn, maybe you could write her a letter explaining how it is to be around booze for you at this time. I wrote one to my daughter awhile back, since talking to her was just not getting through.....I don't feel very close to my family at all. My Mom calls about once a month, and I get a letter here and there from a couple others. I have a couple friends I see now and then, most of my social life is talking to parents of my kids friends and coming here. ...am up eating the leftovers again, think I am going to join team lean at the Y today, it goes for 10 weeks with a weekly weigh in and boot camp if you want to attend. Cash for the biggest weight loss...hmmm think I'll practice piano.
                Thanks for the idea, Bird. I did hash things out with her when I went to bed. I think she gets it...

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                  The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                  Only one branch of my family imbibes heavily...and the Fen family Christmas got canceled, so I didn't have to deal with them this year, thankfully. Mrs. Fen and I have been together for over twelve years, so I'm pretty well integrated into her family. I do love them, despite my griping.

                  I love you all more, though. We all understand what we endure more than anybody else could...we are automatically closer. On this thread, there is no judging, another big plus. Thanks to all of you for being here. :h

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                    The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                    ATL? I've been to Ireland twice, so I can give you some helpful tips. It's a beautiful place! I'll email you with some great places to see.

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                      The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                      anytime sister girl!!!
                      I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                      Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                        The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                        Fen. I just got your email and I'm online for you.
                        I've spent the whole day digging into what's been happening with Ashe and Chris. It's messy and ugly. I'm almost crying with lack of sleep, but I've finally eaten after 3 days. I'll fill you all in later...still absorbing the awfulness of it all, but if Fen isn't here to chat I'm going to try to sleep...have to get James to the hospital at 9am...
                        :h Mish :h
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                        Never give up...
                        GET UP!!!

                        AF since 25th November, 2011

                        What might have been is an abstraction
                        Remaining a perpetual possibility
                        Only in a world of speculation.
                        What might have been and what has been
                        Point to one end, which is always present. T.S. Eliot

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                          The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                          Sorry, Fen...2am and I can't stay up. Even if I can't sleep my body will be resting.
                          :h Mish :h
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                          Never give up...
                          GET UP!!!

                          AF since 25th November, 2011

                          What might have been is an abstraction
                          Remaining a perpetual possibility
                          Only in a world of speculation.
                          What might have been and what has been
                          Point to one end, which is always present. T.S. Eliot

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                            The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                            Oh Mishy.....let us know honey
                            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                              The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                              MIL and I both had a good talk this morning, she truthfully has been there more than my own mom, told her as much and followed it with an ' I love you' to which she responded that she loved me too. Amen and thank God! I really do love her....always have... She rarely gives them back.... So Thank God she did.....I long for peace..... XO Gina

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                                The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!! for december

                                Just saying ..... I love you all and am blessed to have you all in my life.... Gina


                                Sorry to be mushy, but I truly am happy and blessed!

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