NY Eve - How was it for you

[Owly]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Well I'm trying to email/txt them at the moment.... there isn't too much I can do as we live quite far apart, I was thinking of inviting them over for dinner but... it's probably too soon..

One of them is responding, we're talking around the subject but I've just asked him outright so waiting to hear...

[InnerStrength]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Hi Owly
Did everything work out ok with this for you?
I am sure your friends will forgive you. That's why they are freinds right?
I also embarassed myself in front of some friends and regret it now.
Hugs
Jen

[Changeling]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Reality Check

Poor Owly,
It is horrid when you know you have upset people and you can't even quite remember what happened.

At the beginning of December we had some neighbours round for drinks, about 7.30 and for some reason I was really 'going for it' I was drinking really fast and my glass always seemed to be empty.
Any way about 12.30a.m. I woke up on my bed fully clothed with a half empty bottle of Cava next to me.
I had absolutely no idea what had happened.......

The next day I decided not to say anything to my husband in the hope that he might not have noticed how smashed I had been.

Anyway a couple of days ago I remarked to my husband that these neighbours had not invited us round for a drink over Christams. He looked at me and said "you have absolutely no idea what you did, do you"
then went on to tell me that on the night they were here
1. I spilt wine down my front, knocked over someone elses wine
2. I fell asleep on the sofa about 9.30
3. I woke up at about 10.15 and said loudly "oh god, are they still here"
4. Picked up a bottle of Cava from the table and staggered upstairs without saying goodnight to anyone.
Well, you can imagine how I feel today learning this, I am so ashamed and will probably hide if I see them.
As you can Owly - we have all been there.
All the above only reinforces my determination the stay sober.
Day 8 Today....

[Owly]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Oh dear changeling at least it was a fair time ago and you only just found out - I'd much rather find out at a later date than right after when I'm feeling bad enough as it is.

Looks like I've managed to sort things out with most of them

Day 8 - that's awesome haven't gone that long since the summer. I would say day four but I had a glass of wine with lunch, doesn't really count though... it was more like vinegar!

[Determinator]

NY Eve - How was it for you

just found out that on NY day I yelled at my wife in a drunken fit of stupidity....that makes me so sad about myself, but you all are setting such good examples....bravo! I've been tapering down since NY but don't know if it's worse of better than my last "cold turkey"...guess it's a little better, nerves are calming down a tad. no matter what I've taken I still get that terrible chest pounding when I'm trying to sleep while going through a couple days of this garbage. wish I know why I allow myself to forget how crappy this is, then have the audacity to repeat it!!?!?! how on earth can I keep forgetting? just so perplexing. congrads folks...I'm coming back little by little.
D.

[Owly]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Amazing isn't it determinator, how such powerful feelings and memories can be forgotten... it's just bizarre.

[AMELIA]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Hey Owly,

Long time, no posts from me. Glad to see you are still around. Will look out for you.

Amelia

[Owly]

NY Eve - How was it for you

Hi Amelia, hope you're doing well :h