ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

[Recluse]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

I can offer a bear hug! :l

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

It stotted down here last night. It's rather lush sitting in the conservatory listening the rain hammer of the roof.

[myhappyplace]

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I'll take the bear hug please! Hi Army! have to say thank you for keeping me sane and sober last night. That is all...

[Anjicia]

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Sorry Molly about the shop i meant to say it yeasterday not a nice thing to happen at any time of year never xmas. Not looking forward to goin out in this weather. Anyway i better be off.

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

HP saucy, I owe you an apology too. I read about your friend yesterday and meant to comment. I'm so sorry, it's a bugger breast cancer.

And you Mollers, what a blooming awful weekend in any one's books.

[tiptronic_ct]

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myhappyplace;1225118 wrote: I'll take the bear hug please! Hi Army! have to say thank you for keeping me sane and sober last night. That is all...

Och... while we're at it... have an inter-continental :l:l:l

[ladyjan]

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Thanks for your words guys..all of you and youare all sooo right...

had a call this morn from the clinic for child psicology & psiciatry..sorry it's spet wrong but it's a mixture of spanish & english..

But I reckon you all know what I mean..!

at first they gave me appt for ollie for the 1st of march...f'ing crazy especiall after all the reports I've got from school & day centre plus from doc and me...
so at 9:05 on mad rush to school call to say I can bring him this morn at 11:30...

so we are going runing up there now.....! not gonna let this chance miss...

will fill you in when I come back.....

but one thing about these pils I'm taking...I truly don't want a drink..furthest thing from my mind..very strange....

but I'm a strong ol'bird and will come thru this...I don't give up....

love you all for your understanding and caring..xxxxxxxx:h

[tiptronic_ct]

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Lunchtime check-in. I'm having a hectic day :upset: I forced myself to sit back and take a couple of deep breaths. I tend to get so caught up in what's happening that I need to step away consciously every now and again.

[tiptronic_ct]

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I hope the meeting goes well, Jan :l

[Recluse]

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Excellent news jan. I hope you have a productive appointment.

[JackieClaire]

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Excellent news, Jan.

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

Oney hasn't given us our Christmas song today. Saw on the news all the crew arriving back and being greeted by their families. Bawled me eyes out.

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[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

mollyka;1225088 wrote: I too have read back over last nights thread, and I absolutely agree with what Ktab said, Jan if you are reading now or later, there is no end of support here, but it doesn't sound like you are doing anything to help yourself, and it is very frightening to read those sort of posts when there is nothing we can do about it. When there is a kiddie there it is scary tbh. I would ask you to think about this when you wake up, don't for one second think that we are being holier than thou --- holy shit, I'm the last person to take the high moral ground, and really and truly we WILL be here for you, but I really feel this has to stop - now, give yourself a good shake and look at the realities, ok Ollie may be very bold - and on this one I really really know what I'm talking about, my 2nd son was very very troublesome, and my youngest is no walk in the park either, but that's what we sign up to when we have kids. Read back on some of your posts when you were grieving cos you didn't have him - please. Sometimes when we are in the middle of shit, it's hard to see the 'actual' situation. He's a little boy, and you are his mammy - if his behaviour is so bad, then maybe you need help, if it's just appallingly rude and belligerent - yep, he's a boy Don't take this as an assault at you, it isn't, we are a crowd of alkies trying to make as good a life as we can, and when we see one of us losing themselves, be it through drink or meds or whatever -- we just try to reach out to help. The peeps here saved me from myself only a few weeks ago:l

Great post Molly, as have been the subsequent comments from other members.

Jan I hope you didnt take my post last night as being judgemental or harsh for that wasnt my intention.
All is quite clearly not right and as you know there is nothing but support and caring here in the army for you.
I wish I had a simple answer but I dont. I do know however that things have a habit of getting much worse, along with the consequence of our actions if we do nothing. Please think long and hard and make a decision to sort this before it spirals out of control.

Great that you have taken the first step and gotten in contact with the clinic, make sure you follow up with them.

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

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Hi Reg and in other news it is snowing here this morning, it could yet be a white Christmas :yay::woot:

[Tabbers (a.k.a. KTAB)]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

Owww not nice, still cant get my head around an Aussie crimbo in the sun, have seen the whole bondi beach thing but it just seems very strange to be little northern brain. Problem is I dont do cold well and -17 last year was testing my resilience to the limit, I'm not a polar bear ffs.