ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

[one2many]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

Mornin,

I still have a very little sick girl here which means I will have to get a babysitter to go and see the other little one's school play today

Feel a bit queasy myself to be honest.

I read the thread from last night and an horrified yet again....

[pingu1997]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

Anyone send hugs over the forum? this morning tigger scratched her brother because he didnt do what she wanted. i feel.like crap. she had screamed the house down and he had gone to school quite upset. sorry for ranting but i only have tigger here and i dont even want to be in the same room right now

[ladyjan]

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good morning gang...
Well back to normal........gonna try and sort out what's going on in my head today..!

right gotta get Ollie ready for school...wishing you all a happy tuesday...:l

[one2many]

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Amen to what Molly says Jan. I find it so upsetting to read what you are writing and I keep thinking of Ollie mixed up in it all. I have lived thru that as a child and it affected me deeply, PLEASE get some help and get your life back on track because if I am honest, I feel like something bad could happen if you don't do something about it.

No judgement here, we care, that's all.

[ladyjan]

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and YES ALL of you are soooo right....:l:l:l

[one2many]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

pingu1997;1225089 wrote: Anyone send hugs over the forum? this morning tigger scratched her brother because he didnt do what she wanted. i feel.like crap. she had screamed the house down and he had gone to school quite upset. sorry for ranting but i only have tigger here and i dont even want to be in the same room right now

Big hug coming your way, I totally understand your frustration, my kids can be so bold sometimes and fight like cat and dog

[one2many]

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[one2many]

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It's SNOWING!!!!!!

[Anjicia]

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Good morning everyone everyone its cold and raining here but no snow yet but the forecast says we might get some by late afternoon. I think i better buy some wellies this afternoon or shoe grips in case we get a repeat of snow we had at the beginning of the year. Jan its good your feeling better today its not good posting gobblygook when you're high on pills and people can't do much but worry. Please try get your act together sorry to be harsh but what can i say. How can you get to work after a night of pills? I hope you have a better day:l Off to get more coffee.:cupajoe:

[stirly-girly]

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Good morning Army...

Molly - so sorry to hear about that nasty business with your husband's store. I hope they catch the little beggars. You really didn't need that piled on top of other things.

Sorry to hear about Mia, Oney - hope she feels better soon and that you haven't caught the bug as well. (Glad to hear it's snowing. I would love it if it snowed here.)

Pingu, I know how upsetting it is when our kids fight. Mine used to go at it more when I was out but when they fought in front of me, it took the stuffing out of me. I hated it. Here's a big :huggy. Don't know if it will help much but we understand how you feel.

ladyjan;1225093 wrote: and YES ALL of you are soooo right....:l:l:l

Jan, I've thought over and over how to reply to you. I don't want to sound harsh and upset you. I know you've got your hands full with Ollie and that he can be very trying but whatever you're taking is not going to help you deal with your situation. You and I have talked about this before, both on the phone and by PM. You know that all of us here care about you and will do what we can to help and support you but you also know, as we all do, that we can't help one iota if you don't make the decision yourself to get rid of those pills or whatever it is and get yourself clean again.
And I have suggested several times that you get some kind of family counseling to help both of you deal with each other. Ollie may be difficult at times, as all children are, but my guess is that he realizes that something is not right with you and deep down is scared that he will be taken away again. And I have no doubt that he knows why he was taken away before.
Someone suggested that you read back over your posts when Ollie was in the centre - how terrible it was for you that he was there and how hard you worked to get him back. Jan, the thing is this - if you don't get yourself back on track very soon, someone is going to catch on and Ollie could be taken away from you again and this time it could be permanent. Please, for your sake and his, throw out whatever it is you're taking, except for the Baclofen, and get back on track. Ollie has already been through enough. You have to do something now to make sure he doesn't go through that again. And as I said, the next time could be the last time.

You know that we all care for you and what I've said is out of my concern for you and your family. Please get help now. Today.

[JackieClaire]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

Morning and general waves and greeting to all the troops and international visitors.


Jan I'm going to reiterate what every one else has said this morning and last night. This is so painful for us to watch. You look as if you are falling apart before our very eyes.

Remember there is absolutely no judgement here our uttermost concern is for Ollie and yourself.

Get rid of every single pill in the damned house, Jan. Absolutely everything. Remember when all of us with children thought we would go out of mind through lack of sleep when they were newborns. We got through that.

We can function without sleep however we can't function with an overload of meds.

Get help for you and Ollie today. The consequence of you not getting help does not bare thinking about.

This is said out of love and concern for you both, Jan.

[Anjicia]

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Off to get ready to go out have to get shopping and bill paying done. See yeez later.

[JackieClaire]

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I honestl think we could all do with a

[one2many]

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I agree !!

[Recluse]

ARMY THREAD 13TH DEC 2011

Morning all

Jan, I can't really add anything to what the others have said, except to say that I agree with ktabs that your posts in recent days have been very worrying. It's time to ask for help before you lose Ollie.

Molly - sorry to hear about the shop. Absolutely the last thing you needed, especially with hubs still being unwell.

Hope mia gets better soon oney.

It's a nice day here so far, but when I went to Sainsbury's last night it was absolutely chucking it down. Quite spectacular, it was. Apparently there's more to come too.