Army Thread Thursday 15th December

[stirly-girly]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Hi Jan. How about you stick close to the Army thread for the next while. Ollie will calm down watching TV and you can let off some steam here.

How did the visit with the child psychologist go?

And what Oney said - what is bothering him at the Centre?

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Jamie comes on saturday..I think he is scared shitless he's gonna get told off for all the shit he's been up to..

Jamie is really his father figure..
so I "think" this is why he is being so,so bad & naughty...

it's christmas...and he loves christmas...

this is what I just can't figure....

[one2many]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

I am glad Jamie is coming home to takr the pressure off.

How are YOU doing Jan? Have you got rid of the pills?

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

The child psycologist spent more time talking with me while ollie played....
she has recomended he has sessions with my psycologist for women/children abused

I'm sorry if I don't explain myself correctly but I'm very stressed and spelling etc is not at my foremost thought..
just hope you understand me..:l :h

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

one2many;1226814 wrote: I am glad Jamie is coming home to takr the pressure off.

How are YOU doing Jan? Have you got rid of the pills?

not taking the pills daytime..anyway..it's just like right now...he doesn't answer....goes fucking mute.....
wish I had some pills for him to switch off

[one2many]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Can understand you just fine Jan.

That is really not good enough, what are you meant to do in the meantime, have you seen your own doctor?

[stirly-girly]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Jan, I think the child psychologist is right - Ollie needs to see someone who specializes in abuse. Do you still see the abuse specialist Jan?

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

okies he's watching a dvd in his room...should last 80 mins...gonna try and clear this cassa and have a little nap...

I'm so exhausted..... I used to love christmas, and the build up to it..

playing silly old crimble songs..while dressing the house..

I just have zero heart for it just now..shit..

nevermind hopefully I'll have a little doze until his film finishes so I'm more clear headed... coz that it what really screws me.....I lose all concentration and just feel like I'm going mad...

I don't mean that as a joke..honest I think I'm going mad..my sanity is fucked..!

[stirly-girly]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Go get some rest then, Jan, and come back here later to talk again. Someone will be around. The UK people are up later than I am and some stay up quite late. Have a good sleep. See you later.

[one2many]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

I will be here all night on and off, pm me if you need me otherwise Jan.

[mama bear]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

I am here too Jan...remember I am the "other" Jan!!

[mama bear]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Hi Zen...just feeling bad for Jan

[one2many]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Hi MB, nice to see you.


I agree with Zen, try the not reacting and see what happens, when he see's it is not worth his while kicking off, he might simmer down, I know it worked with my 3.

[one2many]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Looking after kids is NOT easy, it can be very very hard and some days I feel like I am going mad too. But if I was still drinking or if I was taking pills, I know it would make things a hundred times worse. Being groggy and not in your sound mind escalates things so much and you have a MUCH shorter tether. Really makes thing so much harder.

[one2many]

Army Thread Thursday 15th December

Absolutely!