Underoos and Mates 2012 January....

[byebyebridgetjones]

Underoos and Mates 2012 January....

You're a star Star Stirls.

[tawnyfrog]

Underoos and Mates 2012 January....

Goody!!!!! Thanks Stirls.

Now we know Beags is ok, perhaps normal posting can resume? Come out, come out ...

Excellent COTW nomination, Bridge. May Madame Karma hit him with everything she's got.

[beagle]

Underoos and Mates 2012 January....

My thanks to Stirly, Wally22 & Pro for talking to me yesty. For Pro it was 1.am!

I'm sorry to have had a meltdown, you lot prolly get a bit tired of reading it but you're all I have.

Suffice to say, things are just eternally stuck in Negative Land which is sucking the living daylights out of me. Change is talked about here ( mainly by me! ) but not acted upon (by the men!) ......namely, to try & put it in a nutshell, we've been working our guts out for years here, apparently for the "lifestyle" - well, at the expense of my health & my husband's health & currently our marriage.

I wish them to sell one of the farms to see whether they (the blokes) don't need to keep busting their balls.....however the classic thing my FIL sprouted out this a.m during a serious talk ( which, by the way, I'm not invited to particpate in!) was " well , we're not going to make much money this year, so we may as well go for another".

full fat soya, if money is the only thing on their minds I cannot be a part of things here!
So the thoughts of me leaving & knowing the stress it will cause is partially triggering my meltdowns. But the crisis draws ever larger & who knows when this putrid boil will burst.

So, on other front,
Ragsy, lovely photos as usual. Seeing your zesty participation in life & travel & activity makes me champ at the bit, a bit!
Tawny, don't worry if you wish to post frivolity when I'm in despair, it'll dilute my verbal diarrhea.
Thanks again to all of you for my hugs & positive vibes.
I'm still a bit fragile but getting better.

[Guitarista]

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beagle;1239077 wrote: My thanks to Stirly, Wally22 & Pro for talking to me yesty. For Pro it was 1.am!

I'm sorry to have had a meltdown, you lot prolly get a bit tired of reading it but you're all I have.

Suffice to say, things are just eternally stuck in Negative Land which is sucking the living daylights out of me. Change is talked about here ( mainly by me! ) but not acted upon (by the men!) ......namely, to try & put it in a nutshell, we've been working our guts out for years here, apparently for the "lifestyle" - well, at the expense of my health & my husband's health & currently our marriage.

I wish them to sell one of the farms to see whether they (the blokes) don't need to keep busting their balls.....however the classic thing my FIL sprouted out this a.m during a serious talk ( which, by the way, I'm not invited to particpate in!) was " well , we're not going to make much money this year, so we may as well go for another".

full fat soya, if money is the only thing on their minds I cannot be a part of things here!
So the thoughts of me leaving & knowing the stress it will cause is partially triggering my meltdowns. But the crisis draws ever larger & who knows when this putrid boil will burst.

So, on other front,
Ragsy, lovely photos as usual. Seeing your zesty participation in life & travel & activity makes me champ at the bit, a bit!
Tawny, don't worry if you wish to post frivolity when I'm in despair, it'll dilute my verbal diarrhea.
Thanks again to all of you for my hugs & positive vibes.
I'm still a bit fragile but getting better.

Hi Beags,

Is there anyway you can arrange a period of respite from the farm and situation. Sounds like you need a rest and a break right now, or yesterday. You might all just have to factor into the budget someone to take over parts of your role for a while? Say a good 8 weeks off, but somehow with access to your animals? Talking about suicide is not normal, and not of a mind thinking clearly. Sounds like you're having a breakdown, not thinking clearly, crowded, stressed to the max, and you need to stop, and get out of there for some respite now. Let them look after the farms. Just a thought friend.

[tawnyfrog]

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beagle;1239077 wrote:
Tawny, don't worry if you wish to post frivolity when I'm in despair, it'll dilute my verbal diarrhea.

Nah. I'm all frivolled out. Take care. Hope you folk can collectively sort something out to benefit the health and well-being of all concerned.

Nighters underchunderers. DVD calls.

[Guitarista]

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Great to see you Saph. Sorry to hear of the embuggerances.

I 3rd the COTW nomination.

[Guitarista]

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Err, anyone for scrabble? Mah jong? maybe some darts? I note our Aussie darts champ got beat in London the other day. What a disgrace. Don't want him walking down my street. Obviously a hopeless work ethic, and got too cocky. Never send a boy in to do a mans job.

OK. Has anyone dropped a stitch in the last 24 hours?

[beagle]

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Gosh G-bloke, maybe you should change your deodorant. People seem to be avoiding you....
My OH watched the darts. More boring than batshit to me, I'm afraid.
But I am looking up a recipe for cerviche.....will share once I try & don't die.

[Guitarista]

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Good stuff Beags. But cerviche is the name of the new Rolls royce cabriolet isn't it?

Maybe i should actually wear deodorant. Ok, i do, but i refuse to wear yer 'Blue stratos' or yer 'Brut' or yer 'Eve saint laurance'

[byebyebridgetjones]

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Right then folkes. I'm going to bunk in now...

One of the things I wish for us as a clan this year, is that we can vent anything we want to....but still empathise for the rest ... remember we have the tyranny of distance to deal with..Regretably, there is a limit to what we can do for each other at distance...
Just saying.
Ok.
Night little loves.

[sunshinetoday]

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Wally22;1238287 wrote:
I don't know if this remarkable insight is helpful, but I think sometimes we expect too much from our spouses. And as they are flawed humans as well, they cannot meet our high expectations.

I love this Wally. It is so true, and I at times have some high expectations. Fortunately I remember my hubs is human and I myself am flawed.

[sunshinetoday]

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MB, the baby is due June 4th but I think it will arrive on the 2nd.
Beags, glad to see today is a bit better. Maybe you should include a trip to Queensland to visit us Undies over here.
Saph, I can sneak over to the sperm donors house in Brissy and decorate it for you in Toilet paper and eggs if you like. Being pregnant I will just blame my hormones.

So, nothing new here. I have an ultrasound Monday, a doctors appointment Wednesday, and my friend is coming to visit from Melbourne next week for four days. Someone told me I got fat overnight. I hear a lot of rude things about my body since I've been pregnant. And Bridge, my feet are killing me on the 10 hour days and the end of my work week. My belly has suddenly popped out. Anyways, hopefully see you alls tomorrow, orf for some dreams. Have to work early so see you all in the arvo.

[sunshinetoday]

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P.S.
Rags. love the photos. I travel with you in my mind to all those wonderful places you go.
Gster. when is the album finished?
TF, I would love to show up at your place one day for a relaxing holiday, unannounced of course because I know you appreciate that. I would bring a divine plate of cheeses from around the world, and a hammock.
HP, you are missed but I hope you are doing well with the house.
KTAB, are you a vegetarian?

1 week til I am halfway through the pregnancy (20 weeks.)
3.5 weeks til hubs has back surgery for plate removals.
8 weeks and 2 days til my parents come to visit. I am more excited for them to visit than I was for Christmas, and I love my Christmas's.
That is all!

[Wally22]

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sunshinetoday, I hope you are enjoying your pregancy. I love pregnant women, even when they are not glowing. Making life is a miracle. Okay maybe not a miracle but a really really wonderful thing.
Must work outside the home today, get dressed, wash hair, put on lipstick....sigh
Hope all you undies have a fab day.

[Guitarista]

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Wally22;1239208 wrote: sunshinetoday, I love pregnant women, even when they are not glowing.

More blatant lesbianism on the thread. Love it. We are also notorious for peddling drugs too, as some would know.

Sunny, you beautiful, beeeeeewdiful you! New album out soon. (thanks for the heads up i.e. young fella's due in june. Gives me time to finish a masterpiece )

Wishing hubs OP to be successful.