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    Hi Guys,

    Didn't know where else to post this but figured you guys if anyone would understand.

    My hubby has had a great day out (now 9.45pm). He went to the final day of the cricket with mates, it finished early so they went to one of the pubs in the city for a long pub lunch and then onto the pub for more drinks. I just called him to say have a great night (obviously a big one), please sleep in one of the spare rooms and I will be upstairs, I am still not feeling well with a shitty flu and sore throat I have been trying to shake since new years.

    He was at one of his favourite chinese restaurants just about to have a glass of one of his favourite chardonnays with another bloke I have met once - all cool, no worries. Until he said in nrelation to me still not feeling well "yes, I am not sure whether you are making that up or not" with an angry undertone I often hear when he drinks.

    This means only one thing for me - the great guy who is the best bloke ever in public may just come home with an angry face - it is brewing now, I can feel it. My hope is he is too far gone when he gets home and heads straight for a bed and to sleep, otherwise he will head to where I am and no matter what I say, or not say, there will only be angry words.All his, and no, it does not matter if I change rooms, he will just follow and continue the one sided verbal bashing.

    Always followed by no recollection in the morning and little or no remorse. Words don't hurt, especially what you don't remember, and they mean nothing because I was drunk.

    Another great reason for me to remain sobre. I have never been an angry drunk, has anyone here ever been? If so, or if someone has experienced it, any words of advice? I never seem to handle it in the right way.

    Wish me luck,
    Louie

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    Hi Louie, I have never been on the receiving end but aparently if you speak with my ex I am on the giving end of the verbal abuse. I don't much remember the verbal abusing except that they never really understood what I was trying to say at the time. mind you it is the first time in 25 years of drinking I had been acussed of being verbally abusive so I don't know really. Best advice I can give is snore loudly, cough alot or agree whole heartedly but don't put up with any physical violence get the hell out if any of that stuff starts no need for that. Hang in there . Kim
    Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win!!

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      When my husband and I drink, a little disagreement would blow out of proportion and end up in verbal abuse. Most of the time it has been just breaking of things, but one occasion it got nearly got to a physical fight with him coming up to my face. I pushed him back so far that he actually ended up hitting the door handle and then onto the floor. Not something I'm proud of, but I've learnt that alcohol does loosen your tongue and you end up saying something you don't mean to and it is so convienient to forget the next day because you have had a drink.

      I totally agree with Boycie. Stay sober yourself or feign sleep. Best to deal with stuff like that when you are both sober.

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