Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

[Ellaq]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Sunny - that is truly disgusting. My mother worked in retail and I have seen similar things happen in her company. Document everything and see how you feel after the baby is born. Wouldn't you still get the baby bonus if they terminate your contract early?
Take good care of yourself, try not to get stressed. You don't want to end up like me having a baby at 35 weeks while still working, we always thought it was brought on by workstress. The last day my company put me in a very bad situation.

Morning all. Hubby is home today and am really looking forward to an AF break.

Internet voting comps and the best performer don't ever go hand in hand.

[myhappyplace]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Sunnygirl, what Rags and Bridge said...and take care of yourself - you come first in this equation.

Love your photo Frog...

Heaps going on so must take off to B&I land...

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Hmmm I need to do something.

I have a guitar
Do I want to take lessons?

I don't have a piano. So I guess I don't want to buy one and take lessons.But gee it would be nice to be able to play a few tunes... but the scales and appeggios would be my undoing.

I don't have a drum kit like
MelZ - Contest Entry - Hit Like A Girl 2012

so I guess learning drums is outta the question.


Hmmm, singing. Maybe I could take singing lessons... And play guitar. And sing PP&M songs from another era..................


Have to go and pick up Mr Rags from the Nuclear imaging place in a minute.
Catch you later.

[Miss Behaving]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Sunny, that is totally crap. I'm pretty sure that FWA have a phone service where you can get some advice .... like others I rather suspect that it sounds like a case of them wanting you to resign so they can avoid paying out parental leave. Otherwise known as constructive dismissal, and I read in the paper this morning that the numbers of employers trying it on here in NZ is increasing.

HRC Expresses Concern Over Treatment Of Pregnant... | Stuff.co.nz

On the other hand you dont want to compromise your's or baby's health. Get advice, including advice from your Dr/mid-wife. What would happen if your Dr wrote up a medical note which recommended working light duties, or no longer than your contracted hours?

Rags;1265706 wrote: Hmmm I need to do something.

I have a guitar
Do I want to take lessons?

.

Rags - do!!!!

I have been getting much joy over the last couple of weeks having joined the community choir (all takers, no auditions) and going back to ukulele lessons (although I now have blisters on my fingers :H:H

Would you like me to bring over my old (purple!!) ukulele for you?? (I upgraded at the beginning of the year )

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

So at 1:40 I’m feeling a bit peckish and am thinking he should be finished by now, we’ll go for lunch somewhere seeing as our picnic was boycotted on Sunday, I dropped him off at 8:20 am. and after phoning him and no reply, and just a little concerned I drive to the Nuclear place to pick up Mr Rags only to find him at a little caf? in the centre about to tuck into battered and fried fish and chips.
“I was just going to have a bite to eat then ring you to pick me up”.
Me: “Well how about we go somewhere else for lunch” He paid for it and we left.
He had just got out of 41/2 hours of tests for heart problems, he’s a bloody diabetic, he was given very stern warnings by his doctor last Friday, and here he is about to tuck into food that he knows will kill him.

Where we went was closed Tuesdays and it wasn’t until on the way back to town for somewhere else to eat, the enormity of what he had done really hit home.
Why the fuck is he bothering with doctors and wasting their time. Why is he bothering with me.
I said “Well, that lasted all of 5 days”.
He said he wasn’t in the mood and stormed off. No idea where he is. I assume he’ll get a taxi home.
It was the same when he said he had stopped smoking. Everyone but me knew hadn’t, and he lied and lied to me until I accidentally sprung him. I cannot handle lies and deceit from someone you’re supposed to trust. And this is his life. It is not a joke, something to be controlled with a tablet and forgotten.
He obviously doesn’t think it’s serious. So, why should I even bother about him and put myself through all this stress.
So why isn’t he telling any of his family. Doesn’t care about himself. Doesn’t care about me. Doesn’t want to upset his old man but it’s fine to jerk me around.

And yes, I’ve just bought half a dozen Coopers and a packet of red rock deli sea salt chips. But I thought I’d post this first before I have the beers, and Am stone cold sober.

Well, now I’ve got that off my chest I now have to think about what I do next.. stay, leave, ignore, forgive, let him keep doing it till he drops dead? Is this a twist on battered wife syndrome? He’s not even trying.
Bugger it. I’ve really had enough.


The one good thing was there was a little old lady at the next table who wanted to pay by chq or credit card but it a cash only place so I paid her bill without telling her, as the owner had made a bit of a to-do about it. Creep. So that’s another karma point for Raggsy.

[tawnyfrog]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Have read you and want to acknowledge your post. Am formulating a response in my head but in the meantime, ***hugs*** Back inabit.

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Oh and I forgot to mention that when I rang his mobile to find out where he was to bring him home, he let it go to voicemail. Bastard.
He arrived home about 30 mins ago.
It was almost like hallway sex, except no words were spoken, which means its worse than hallway sex.
I've moved myself into the back shed guest accomm. with my computer, my beers, a couple of books, some grapes, my toothbrush and change of clothes for tomorrow. How bloody pathetic (and somehow funny) is this.

And tomorrow I have to go and teach little kiddies about Buddhism and love and forgiveness ......



For those who don't know the joke hallway sex is where your relationship is at the point when you passeach other in the passageway you say "get fucked" last bit of the joke is courtrom sex where everyone gets fucked except the solicitors.

[Miss Behaving]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

oh raggs :l

dont know what to say.

but sending all the karma you need your way.

[tawnyfrog]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Nah-nah-nah ... this is not a tragedy.

It's a domestic. We all have 'em.

Breathe, sulk, stick your finger in the air, stomp, harumph, slam something and maybe in 24 hrs you can sit down and maybe discuss why Mr.Rags has chosen to be such a doody head. Maybe he's scared. Maybe he's just a shit head - but I don't think that's the case.

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

tawnyfrog;1265787 wrote: Nah-nah-nah ... this is not a tragedy.

It's a domestic. We all have 'em.

Breathe, sulk, stick your finger in the air, stomp, harumph, slam something and maybe in 24 hrs you can sit down and maybe discuss why Mr.Rags has chosen to be such a doody head. Maybe he's scared. Maybe he's just a shit head - but I don't think that's the case.

You're probably right.
And I'm being bloody minded.
The TV doesn't work down here.
But am I going to go back up to the house?
No.
Because of sentence 2.
Have had 2 beers. Damned good .


So if he's scared he's pretending he's some cartoon character... "your bullets cannot harm me ... my cloak is as a shield of steel" ye gods!

OK I'm going to log off as I made a promise years ago I wouldn't post whenI was drinking.
Catch you all early tomorrow morning

Thanks Tawn,
Thanks Missy.
What a bloody mess.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0sICVWwI3LE&feature=related[/video]]Laurel & Hardy - Another Fine Mess - YouTube

[Ellaq]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Rags - sorry for your situation.

[Ellaq]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

OK, my hubby is home and this break we are going to be nice to each other and I am not going to drink.

Kids are happy and I have lost more weight......still a bit to go to get into my new jeans.

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

And I had forgotten how much one widdles when one drinks beer.


Undies, sorry to blurb all this... It'll work out in a few days or more, or less. So continue on with your posts and ignore me.

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

Hmmm, if I'd just immediately blurted out "You stupid idiot, you're a heartcase, waddaya doing eating this shit" instead of allowing it to brood and buildin my mind for 45 minutes and making a pretty caustic comment that I knew would hit, maybe this wouldn't have happened. But maybe it needed to happen. And on that note I'll leave you all till tomorrow.
Why do I
ALWAYS
have to have the last say???????


Nighty night.


Hope things are brighter for me tomorrow.



And Missy, back a few posts, yep, have guitar, will take lessons. What key is your uke?

[Rags]

Underoos and Affiliates, February, 2012

See, I did it again.








Had to have the last bloody say on the guitar and Uke