Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

[JackieClaire]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

Rightio orff to watch a bit of TV.............Being Human BBC 7

Prolly be tomorrow when I get back.

[ladyjan]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

it's ok we are alive..
I have to go to the hospital in the morning,
bonnie was here and recorded everything and is gonna show it to the social services..

be honest I feel like getting our passports and flying out of here..

I don't want to lose him again, I would rather die

[anon]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

Thanks for checking in Jan
Good luck with Social Services.

[startingover]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

I am sorry to butt in here Jan, but thank goodness Bonnie is doing something to help you both. She is doing it for both your sakes.

[ladyjan]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

I don't know..
coz we are just a "case"..

I have been begging for their help..

and taking him away is not the answer..

we need help

or I'm gonna fuck the hell away from here with him

I'm not gonna lose him again

[mario]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

ladyjan;1256604 wrote: it's ok we are alive..
I have to go to the hospital in the morning,
bonnie was here and recorded everything and is gonna show it to the social services.. can't believe she would be the judas

be honest I feel like getting our passports and flying out of here..

I don't want to lose him again, I would rather die

Jan. bonnie is not being a judas,she is trying to do something to help and getting the social services involved is the right thing to do,Your saying you cant cope and threatning to kill your son and he is threatning to kill you,your giving him sleeping tablets,none of this is right and I wouldent be blaming bonnie on any of it.

[startingover]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

ladyjan;1256612 wrote: I don't know..
coz we are just a "case"..

I have been begging for their help..

and taking him away is not the answer..

we need help

or I'm gonna fuck the hell away from here with him

I'm not gonna lose him again

Jan you cannot cope with him. Moving to a different place wont help, it will just move the problem with you. He must sense that you are losing the plot and that maybe why he is pushing the boundaries so much. Please dont do anything silly

[mario]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

Goodnight everyone again and I hope jan & ollie that everything goes well for you as this has to stop now. x night.

[ladyjan]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

I would or could never kill him, that was just the way it came out,
why can't somebody listen to my pleas for help.. I don't mean you here....coz I know you do..

and Bonnie recording what we said today will NOT help..

I have begged social services for so long and gone to the doctor etc,etc..
I just don't know what to do..

[littlepinkcat]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

Jan have you tried acsessing theapy for you or Ollie

[ladyjan]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

littlepinkcat;1256621 wrote: Jan have you tried acsessing theapy for you or Ollie

I have been begging for help..

but nothing..

[littlepinkcat]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

have you any english speaking counselling or therpautic centres near you?

[littlepinkcat]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

I work as a person centred counsellor and lots of my clients find it helpful to talk and normally the parents come to us and the children go to a child therpaist and hopefully overtime the child and parent can make more sense of their situation and hopefully develop coping mechanisims that allow them to deal with their situtation in a more positive way

[one2many]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

Jan, thats what Bonnie is trying to do...help......

Thats all any of us are trying to do.

[ladyjan]

Army thread sunday 5th Feb 2012

pinky I know you mean to help, but things are so different here..

somebody sent my Bonnie a part of one of my posts...
and she has taken it for true..

I never meant in the real meaning I could kill him..

goodness sake has nobody else ever said that just as Grrrr.... but never meant it to take action....I could never hurt a hair on his head, I love him dearly