Army Thread 20th February
Hello again Army. I have both kids home and I'm trying to get a few things done around the house.... Tuesday is Mardi Gras-carnival season here.
That's why I have the pug dog avatar dressed up in his costume (that's not him-my pug!):H.
Jan-I hope they can give you some help this morning hon. If I was you, I would also start googling support groups for women victims of domestic violence. I have heard in many of your posts how you are still suffering from what you went through with Ollie's dad. Just remember that Ollie is NOT his dad. I'm not saying that he does not have some similar genetic problems of his father but it could also be that he too is suffering from the abuse your family went through. These scars do not heal overnight.
If you can't find a women's group around your area-maybe you can find an online sight like many of us have done with MWO.:l You need to find others who have experienced the same thing as you. Just like I didn't go to a help site for heroin abuse because for me it was the drink. Keep coming here-but also try to find a group that deals with the domestic violence. You really need to get at the root of the problem for you and Ollie. And please pm me anytime! I've already talked about my own experiences with domestic violence. We have not had contact with my son's father in quite a few years but it's something we are still working on. My little one goes to therapy every week. We are also going to see a neurologist next month because I think he may be bipolar like his dad. One step at a time-and hours spent doing research ! You can do this Jan. But you need help and you need to stop thinking of Ollie like his dad. He's still just a child and he has a good chance to get help now while he's still young-so he doesn't turn out like his dad. You are on the same team hon-Ollie is NOT the enemy. :l
Hello again Army. I have both kids home and I'm trying to get a few things done around the house.... Tuesday is Mardi Gras-carnival season here.
That's why I have the pug dog avatar dressed up in his costume (that's not him-my pug!):H.Jan-I hope they can give you some help this morning hon. If I was you, I would also start googling support groups for women victims of domestic violence. I have heard in many of your posts how you are still suffering from what you went through with Ollie's dad. Just remember that Ollie is NOT his dad. I'm not saying that he does not have some similar genetic problems of his father but it could also be that he too is suffering from the abuse your family went through. These scars do not heal overnight.
If you can't find a women's group around your area-maybe you can find an online sight like many of us have done with MWO.:l You need to find others who have experienced the same thing as you. Just like I didn't go to a help site for heroin abuse because for me it was the drink. Keep coming here-but also try to find a group that deals with the domestic violence. You really need to get at the root of the problem for you and Ollie. And please pm me anytime! I've already talked about my own experiences with domestic violence. We have not had contact with my son's father in quite a few years but it's something we are still working on. My little one goes to therapy every week. We are also going to see a neurologist next month because I think he may be bipolar like his dad. One step at a time-and hours spent doing research ! You can do this Jan. But you need help and you need to stop thinking of Ollie like his dad. He's still just a child and he has a good chance to get help now while he's still young-so he doesn't turn out like his dad. You are on the same team hon-Ollie is NOT the enemy. :l
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