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    #1

    Help please

    I've just come back from the guarda civil

    fuck sake I need help, It's not the AL
    he is being so violent he has hurt me so much today..I just wat to run anway
    he is for the weekend in the custody of Bonnie, but he's not been taken from me..

    for goodness you all know how much I have been begging the different authorities

    please help me my friends don't critisise me I at a loss I really need your help

    the police took me to the oficial medical centre to take photos of what he had done to me etc, plus the fosensic guy came and did all the same

    my heart is breaking...my Ollie is not here

    feel like I'm gonna go nuts
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    #2
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    So sorry LJ, I do not know your details or the people you reference. I am just praying you find some peace as your posts lately speak of a very unsettled situation.

    No matter what is going on i do pray you find peace and well being. We all deserve that much in our lives. If you are in any danger please take steps to get out of it.

    Be safe and take care:l
    AL free since March 17th 2011...loving this life. No drinking no matter what.

    Hi my name is Lori and i am so happy to be here.

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      #3
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      Hi Ladyjan, :l I'm not sure how to help, but I just wanted to respond. I'm sorry you got hurt, that you have a broken heart and that you feel like your going nutz. I will pray for you. Do you have someone you can call to talk to or a place to go where you feel safe? :h

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        #4
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        I have noboby I can talk to, only you guys.

        Ollie is in the custody of Bonnie(my daughrter).who lives with her boyfreind..until monday
        not from damage I could do to him, it's what he might do to me.....my leg is in bit's gotta go to my doc in the morning,

        I am in bits....never,ever would thought he would be so aggresive like his father.....

        be honest I am in bits....and scared

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          #5
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          gonna try and sleep now coz I know it won't last long

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            #6
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            Is Ollie the little lad in your avatar? I'm sorry I am not more familiar with your story, LJ. If your son did this to you, he needs to learn different ways to manage his anger. Is there any sort of therapy available to him where you live?:h

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              #7
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              Jan-I hope you are getting some rest now. Let us know how it goes with your doctor this morning. :l

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                #8
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                Oh LJ, i am so sorry. I thought a boyfriend or husband hurt you. It's so different when its your child. I know you cant leave him so what you really need to do is find both of you some help. This is going to be rough but no matter what dont use AL to get thru this. Are you religious at all? Do you have a priest or someone of faith you can talk to?

                I hope you feel better and can get some rest.
                AL free since March 17th 2011...loving this life. No drinking no matter what.

                Hi my name is Lori and i am so happy to be here.

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                  #9
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                  I hope you get some rest. I'm so sorry your scared and feel like your in bits. I hope peace finds you soon.

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                    #10
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                    Hi Jan. How come he is OK with Bonnie and not with you?
                    This has been coming for a long time and I am so sorry that you are being ripped apart emotionally like you are.
                    I dont really have any advice. But can you stop thinking about his as 'Your Ollie" ? Right now he is an out of control human who is dangerous in your company. He needs help and so do you but clearly not together.
                    Living now and not just existing since 9th July 2008
                    Nicotine Free since 6th February 2009

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                      #11
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                      Marnin.

                      It is very very upsetting about Jan, I just hope that Ollie does NOT go back home with her after the weekend as it will all go back to square one again.
                      "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

                      AF 10th May 2010
                      NF 12th May 2010

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                        #12
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                        Ditto to what Startypants, Zennie and Oney said. Jan, insist that something is done this time and don't let them return Ollie to you. You clearly need to be apart, to get help and to heal. Both of you. I simply cannot understand how they could keep him at the centre for 16 months because of your drinking, and now that there is physical violence on his part, nothing is being done. It makes no sense to me. I'm praying that this time someone finally steps up and does what needs to be done and gets help for both of you. Said with love and caring.
                        For every 60 seconds that you are angry, you lose a minute of happiness.
                        AF since 10/10/2015:yay:

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                          #13
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                          I agree, REFUSE to take Ollie back, I would imagine that if you did do this , Bonnie would have to do something as I doubt she will keep him living with her.

                          As I said before, this will end bad, one of you will end up getting killed, it is that serious.

                          Refuse Jan.
                          "It's not your job to like me, it's mine!"

                          AF 10th May 2010
                          NF 12th May 2010

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                            #14
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                            You are now at a critical point. Refuse to have him back. No ifs or buts.

                            Do this for your own and Ollie's safety. Please.

                            J x
                            :l
                            It could be worse, I could be filing.
                            AF since 7/7/2009

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                              #15
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                              I'm going to the doc now to get my leg re-dressed it bleed all night, I suppose also coz of the blood thinners I take from the epilepsy

                              Bonnie has custody of him and waiting for a call from the fiscalia, he cannot be "taken" as I have done nothing wrong, I have been begging & begging themto do something even take him into care or a centre where he can get help....but nothingI just have to wait..until someting like last night..
                              he didn't want to do his homework and I wouldn't let him play on his pc until he did..

                              so he just went evil, I know it may sound silly but I took him to baseball on wednesday so he learnt how to throw a ball straight and hard...
                              I had a bowl of oranges, he picked them up and threw them at me, hard, he then picked up a cricket bat and threatend me with it waving it to my head, I fell over a chair running away and split my leg open, anything he could find he was throwing at me.

                              my back and arms are covered in bruises..luckily I kept my mobile coz the last time he hid them all, I called 112(emergency) and Bonnie before, so when I was on the phone she came and spoke to them and explained, thank god they toook it serious enough to come staight away with two wagons, so to go seperatly.

                              I cried all nighht when I got home,woke at 7:30 in a daze not sure if he was here or not for school...how stupid..??
                              my head is in a spin..I've called again this morn to the centre for domestic violence....still waiting for a call back...!!
                              can you believe it...I know you guys were angry with me before thinking I had done nothing..but I had..but all falls on deaf ears..now it's come to this the guardia civil said they must act..child services and he has been seperated from me and put in bonnie's custody, for my safety........shit....

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