Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

[pingu1997]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Treat one done.....

[anon]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

mollyka;1280126 wrote: Hey Jan, it's good to hear you posting positively - and about you speaking about honesty -- now just to maintain that state of mind for the rest of the day! Look Jan, this is fecking hard, no point in dolling it up -- after a long stint off the grog I think it's even tougher, I don't know why, but certainly for me it was. But look, you HAVE to do it -- you have no choice --- well actually you do have a choice like we all have, you can choose the booze and lose Ollie altogether - and I suspect Bonnie as well, or you can really take this by the bollix this time and start sincere honest work on yourself. The rest will fall into place when you're sober/clean - like it did the last time. It is very likely that Ollie is severely disturbed -- feck it, I know my youngest is and he's a lot older than Ollie - but when you're sober, and he knows you're sober, and fighting for him again, things will change. And you'll have the clear head to get the help for him that he needs.
I really hope you mean it this time Jan, and don't limit the honesty to the doc or the alcohol worker or on here, you MUST --- simply MUST be honest with yourself --- that is advice I got from both my young daughter and Oney's Dad --- and potentially was the best ever advice I got in my life. I wish you well!

Here Here :goodjob:

This is a wonderful post Jan I hope you read this and take this and all the other positive suggestions on board.

Hello Pingu

[pingu1997]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Hello anon. waiting to be stabbed...

[one2many]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

mollyka;1280126 wrote: Hey Jan, it's good to hear you posting positively - and about you speaking about honesty -- now just to maintain that state of mind for the rest of the day! Look Jan, this is fecking hard, no point in dolling it up -- after a long stint off the grog I think it's even tougher, I don't know why, but certainly for me it was. But look, you HAVE to do it -- you have no choice --- well actually you do have a choice like we all have, you can choose the booze and lose Ollie altogether - and I suspect Bonnie as well, or you can really take this by the bollix this time and start sincere honest work on yourself. The rest will fall into place when you're sober/clean - like it did the last time. It is very likely that Ollie is severely disturbed -- feck it, I know my youngest is and he's a lot older than Ollie - but when you're sober, and he knows you're sober, and fighting for him again, things will change. And you'll have the clear head to get the help for him that he needs.
I really hope you mean it this time Jan, and don't limit the honesty to the doc or the alcohol worker or on here, you MUST --- simply MUST be honest with yourself --- that is advice I got from both my young daughter and Oney's Dad --- and potentially was the best ever advice I got in my life. I wish you well!

Fantastic post Mollerooney!

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

mollyka;1280126 wrote: Hey Jan, it's good to hear you posting positively - and about you speaking about honesty -- now just to maintain that state of mind for the rest of the day! Look Jan, this is fecking hard, no point in dolling it up -- after a long stint off the grog I think it's even tougher, I don't know why, but certainly for me it was. But look, you HAVE to do it -- you have no choice --- well actually you do have a choice like we all have, you can choose the booze and lose Ollie altogether - and I suspect Bonnie as well, or you can really take this by the bollix this time and start sincere honest work on yourself. The rest will fall into place when you're sober/clean - like it did the last time. It is very likely that Ollie is severely disturbed -- feck it, I know my youngest is and he's a lot older than Ollie - but when you're sober, and he knows you're sober, and fighting for him again, things will change. And you'll have the clear head to get the help for him that he needs.
I really hope you mean it this time Jan, and don't limit the honesty to the doc or the alcohol worker or on here, you MUST --- simply MUST be honest with yourself --- that is advice I got from both my young daughter and Oney's Dad --- and potentially was the best ever advice I got in my life. I wish you well!

WOW. What a fantastic post.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Only popped in for a minute.

Got me shifts changed to a Wednesday morning so I can help run the woman's group in the afternoon.

Shame cos I wanted Tuesday and the Hep C clinic.

Rightio orff to have a bit of a nanna nap.

Bacinabit................slinking of to read this weeks OK mag.

[pingu1997]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

this feels very selfish posting here with everybody going through so much hard stuff. but this is my little celebration to myself to celebrate being a year sober tomorrow, so it's important to me....

[Panno]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Pingu thats gorgeous

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

mollyka;1280126 wrote: Hey Jan, it's good to hear you posting positively - and about you speaking about honesty -- now just to maintain that state of mind for the rest of the day! Look Jan, this is fecking hard, no point in dolling it up -- after a long stint off the grog I think it's even tougher, I don't know why, but certainly for me it was. But look, you HAVE to do it -- you have no choice --- well actually you do have a choice like we all have, you can choose the booze and lose Ollie altogether - and I suspect Bonnie as well, or you can really take this by the bollix this time and start sincere honest work on yourself. The rest will fall into place when you're sober/clean - like it did the last time. It is very likely that Ollie is severely disturbed -- feck it, I know my youngest is and he's a lot older than Ollie - but when you're sober, and he knows you're sober, and fighting for him again, things will change. And you'll have the clear head to get the help for him that he needs.
I really hope you mean it this time Jan, and don't limit the honesty to the doc or the alcohol worker or on here, you MUST --- simply MUST be honest with yourself --- that is advice I got from both my young daughter and Oney's Dad --- and potentially was the best ever advice I got in my life. I wish you well!
Thankyou molly, I do understand what you're saying and where it comes from...:l

anon;1280174 wrote: Here Here :goodjob:

This is a wonderful post Jan I hope you read this and take this and all the other positive suggestions on board.

Hello Pingu
one2many;1280203 wrote: Fantastic post Mollerooney!

JackieClaire;1280205 wrote: WOW. What a fantastic post.

You are all correct.....
I am gonna get back clean again, it's the only way, and it's the only way to live and for the sake of my children, THEY deserve it...

[pingu1997]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

thanks Panno and Zen

got a piercing too but that one was frickin painful and I don't have a nice photo yet cos it's got blood round it LOL

[Panno]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Hi and bye Zen, off home (well to my daughters) tonight, late birthday tea with my grandson he was 6 on Monday...lucky little fella has had a birthday tea every night this week..suppose thats the bonus for having such an extended family, as Cerys puts it ..Granny I do have a strange family but I love everyone :H:H

[Panno]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

pingu1997;1280238 wrote: thanks Panno and Zen

got a piercing too but that one was frickin painful and I don't have a nice photo yet cos it's got blood round it LOL

Ouch, thanks for not sharing

[pingu1997]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Panno;1280240 wrote: Ouch, thanks for not sharing

it's not a dodgy one.... just in my ear cartilage, but man it did hurt and I shouted "you bastard" when the needle crunched into my ear...

enjoy your tea folks.....

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

Zenstyle;1280234 wrote: Fantastic post Mollers... very well put.

Jan... I'm glad to see you've got your thinking head back on. And don't forget to include yourself in the reason for getting clean... you have to do it for YOU as well as the kids. Look... you have been miserable as hell lately, so you can really only go up. Can't fall out of bed when you're lying on the floor, as they say. Getting clean can only be an improvement and can only bring about a happier frame of mind right

Wow Zennie you hit it right on the head..been feeling miserable, unloved,hated for anything I do, nothing is good...point of suicide several times...

I'm not a miserable person, I'm normally positve and happy and strong, but this last 8 months have been a living hell...I've lost so much weight, go from one week to the next without eating, only eat on a friday night and the only reason for that is it's with an old fella/friend 74yrs and we have "proper fish & chips"
rest of the week nothing.....

[ladyjan]

Army Thread Wednesday 14th March

ask Mario how long it took me to eat my dinner when we met....it isn't just my teeth it's the fact I don't eat........can't eat, buy so many times salad stuff, and steaks etc...they all end up going bad and end up in the bin....