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    I need some encouragement

    Hey MB,

    Sorry to hear that you drank the other night. I must say that once you get some solid sober time underneath your belt, the emotional ups and downs will even out.

    I am not at all attracted to drama anymore. Yet, when I was drinking and newly sober, I used to seek it out. I didn't realize it at the time of course. It's unconscious and automatic; part of what alcohol does to our brain. Looking back, I see seeking out drama or putting myself in the middle of it was my way of opening up the door to drinking again, i.e., "I am so stressed out from this and I cannot cope so I am going to have a drink."

    Hope this helps.
    :h
    M3
    AF Since April 20, 2008
    4 Years!!!
    :lilheart:

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      I need some encouragement

      thanks so much "mom"...it really makes sense...thanks for posting in my journal
      I love my family more than alcohol.:h
      Live in the Solution....not the problem

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        I need some encouragement

        Hey girl - I'm thinking of you today. :l
        "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
        ..........
        AF - 7-27-15

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          I need some encouragement

          Mama, one of the things I've noticed about my non-drinking is that Mrs. Fen and I get along much better when I'm sober. Also, I'm reading a book called "Unwasted" which I recommend. The author makes an excellent point about her sobriety. She says that it got to be too much hassle to keep on drinking- quitting removed all the hassles and issues that resulted from her drinking. :h

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            I need some encouragement

            I have heard of that book...
            Bret and I get along better too...trust me!!
            I love my family more than alcohol.:h
            Live in the Solution....not the problem

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              I need some encouragement

              Mama -
              YOU can be feisty? I don't believe it! :H
              I just wanted to jump into your journal and tell you I believe in you...you're a strong, loving lady and I admire you mucho Mama!
              Hugs!!!

              K9
              :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

              Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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                I need some encouragement

                mama bear;1307224 wrote: Nora...I love that...I really do
                and since I can be fairly feisty...I need to remember that
                I think Sun has given up on me.....:H
                she is so classy and serene......
                I WOULD NEVER EVER EVER GIVE UP ON YOU JAN. EVER. don't you ever think that!!!! I am so glad I saw this!!!! You are quite simply - 'a work in progress' as most of us here are!! I love you my friend !!!:l:h

                Hugs, Sun XXX
                How simple it is to see that we can only be happy now and there will never be a time when it is not now....

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                  I need some encouragement

                  it's been a good few days
                  I am taking the Campral and don't really feel much, but maybe a little woozy...but's that probably normal for me...!!!
                  just working and going home and making dinner and watching a movie
                  boring, but good
                  I have loaded up on vitamins and supplements in order to get my energy back, but I know that will take time...
                  Peace Out!!
                  I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                  Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                    I need some encouragement

                    Hey Mama - boring is good, right???
                    "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                    ..........
                    AF - 7-27-15

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                      I need some encouragement

                      yes...boring is good!!
                      for now...
                      I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                      Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                        I need some encouragement

                        :h:l
                        That is all!
                        AF Since April 20, 2008
                        4 Years!!!
                        :lilheart:

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                          I need some encouragement

                          7 days tomorrow!!
                          thanks mom
                          I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                          Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                            I need some encouragement

                            mama bear;1309292 wrote: 7 days tomorrow!!
                            thanks mom
                            Yay for 7 days. You're back on track! Hope the Campral helps too.
                            AF Since April 20, 2008
                            4 Years!!!
                            :lilheart:

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                              I need some encouragement

                              I am ashamed to say for 7 days cause I have said it so many times before. I guess the Campral is helping. I have very little desire to drink right now...but we all kow how that goes
                              I am pretty much being a boring sluggo.....and that's good for now
                              I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                              Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                                I need some encouragement

                                As a brand newbie am thinking this may not be the place for me.
                                If at first you dont succeed......

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