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    The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

    Just got my ass handed to me by my 'sister'. She and my brother haven't spoken to me in 2 years (yes, they continue to party hearty every weekend, try to get my land, insinuate themselves in my family, but I'm fine with it till now). She called screaming and cussing, so when I said to calm down or call me when she could, she hung up. WTF?? Okay, back story. She no longer speaks to her son, and is mad because I do. But I raised the boy because of her marriages and partying, so I'M not giving up on him. It's just sad. My parents are gone this last decade, but this is nothing like what they taught us. It is sad, but have no idea what to do to repair it unless I just give in to her, which AIN'T happening. (Oh, and she's broke again! Parents left her 3 houses and $100,000, and she spent it on bad relationships.) She got 5X the value I did, but she needed it more, so no problem there. Oh well, not a big surprise, I guess. Everyone has family problems. Just a rude way to start a Sat morning!! If I had to act right now, I'd burn the damn table! And it's mine anyway, it belonged to my g'mother, then aunt, and they gave it to momma and me. Was ruining at the farm sitting in water. ((sigh)) I would have drawn straws with them before, but not now. Sorry, just feeling really petty right now. Can't lower myself to that, though.
    Sorry, guys, vent over. Hubs wants me to sell out to them, get rid of them, but won't work, I know them. Bro has already ripped sis off for all her rentals and business property and there's nothing more I can do to help her.
    Nora, hope you're better. ATL, I had a Tudor fixation years ago, very interesting. Tony, luck on the 'puter! Rog, ya'll call and give me an update on stuff, OK? Sun, have a good 'clopen'.
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      The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

      Morning all. I am definitely back AF now. That was sheer stupidity on my part. :upset:

      RC - so great to see you!!! How are you doing??

      Tony - sorry about the computer problems.

      Ruby - sorry about your sister. I don't understand people like that.

      I think that Paula should be home tomorrow. The funeral was yesterday. I hope that she's doing ok.

      Well - everyone, guess I better get ready for work. Have a great day all!!!!!:h
      "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
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      AF - 7-27-15

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        The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

        I am here....cleaning house.....thanks for the Tudor stuff JC....at first I thought I read "Turdophiles":H
        why is your sister screaming at you Ruby??
        Nora...glad you are back in the saddle girl.....
        Hi Sun have fun in the dirt
        kisses sweet Rog
        what's up with RC?
        Hope scrabble was fun Zen
        HIYA GOOFY TONY!!!
        off the the grocery store...yuk
        I love my family more than alcohol.:h
        Live in the Solution....not the problem

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          The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

          Wanted to share this beautiful pic today of our old friends, and the monster at his happiest game. Latest and last pics, I promise.



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            The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

            Where are the pics from Rubes? The big home ? So sorry about the family! About to go to the Pirate movie with Luke

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              The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

              RM, I can't be here anymore. Glad you're happy here, you deserve and need it, but not me. PLEASE, stay in touch via e-mail, OK. No one is to blame, I just can't fight any more.
              Enjoy the pirates, OK?
              Connie
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              awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                Lovely pics Rubes - off to work with me - love you all,

                love Sun XXX
                How simple it is to see that we can only be happy now and there will never be a time when it is not now....

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                  The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                  Ruby - They look great! What a wonderful trip they're having. Just love your puppie. What is that other picture?

                  ATL - have fun at the movies. :h
                  "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                  ..........
                  AF - 7-27-15

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                    The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                    PS Ruby - don't stop posting pics! I LOVE THEM!!
                    "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                    ..........
                    AF - 7-27-15

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                      The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                      DONT STOP POSTING PICS SILLY WOMAN
                      Vicki and Kelly!!!!
                      and that's Helen Georgia, I think.....right near Ruby's cabin
                      and Beau Finn.....little monster
                      I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                      Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                        The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                        BF DID return my Bass loafers, full of slobber and no laces. Yes, that's Helen this month.
                        V & K sent me that today on their way to the airport.
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                        awprint: RUBY Imagine yourself doing What you love and loving What you do, Being happy From the inside Out, experiencing your Dreams wide awake, Being creative, being Unique, being you - changing things to the way YOU know they can BE - Living the Life you Always imagined.awprint:

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                          The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                          rubywillow;1315209 wrote: BF DID return my Bass loafers, full of slobber and no laces. Yes, that's Helen this month.
                          V & K sent me that today on their way to the airport.
                          :H:H:H At least he returned them.
                          "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                          ..........
                          AF - 7-27-15

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                            The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                            Luke threw an absolute screaming fit after the movie-- I think it is the influence of the video games Mark is using to "bond" with him-- I am against them and for limiting them-- just announced that that is what we are doing and Mark ws not happy-- yes Luke gets lots of exercise and they enjoy playing those together and I am not saying never but I think they make him irritable and need to be limited more. I am with him more and think that I need to be the boss on it, sorry but if I am the primary child rearer and that is what it is looking like then I am making these rules-- this fit was in public and involved crying. Luke is in his room and I broke down crying myself. Mark then asked what I was crying about. I said "that musty be a rhetorical question right?" Surely on mothers day weekend of all weekends but in gneral he should know my 6 year old throwing a screaming fit in a movie theater because he did not get his way is not how I raised him and is a cause for concern-- especially since the tanstrums have been a little too frequent for my taste of late. Then he did the all time worst male thing "Calm down" (that is like waving a red flag in front of a bull) then "do you want to lay down?" I think he believes all problems can be solved by lay down or have a drink neither of which are working for me. So he took off for the store and I am considering shopping on line now-- I went down a size and need some shorts-- can't find the ones I want at the store in my size , only going to get a pair or 2 since I ultimately am aiming to be in my old size by October or so, I will wear the tops big as the girls did not shrink yet (I guess that's what Dr 90210 will be for ultimately!)

                            Thanks for listening to that rant. Ruby, I am so sorry about your family. My dad had some sister in laws like that though his brothers and sisters were so close and not a cross word the spouses did what you described after the deaths and it was so awful on him. He ultimately was so honorable. He took the money and property and divided it evenly among all the children of his siblings and he let them choose property, he did not show favorites at all. He was the last of the line of 11 and there were loads of kids. It was an ugly scene. Not surprisingly to anyone who follows this my mother tried to get involved and cherry pick the furniture and stuff and direct money but my dad would not have it. He told her to butt out! I am sorry they hurt you. There is only so much a person can take! By the way, is your daughter still a tiny little thing or does she have a little bump? probably not yet with a Xmas baby. But I bet you are monitoring.

                            Thanks for letting me vent. MB-- have you seen August Rush? Cheesy but JRM is in it!

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                              The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                              ATL- I used to be mortified when my boys did that. It is so embarrassing.....but he is only 6.
                              Any idea why he is doing it more frequently??
                              And yes...hubs can be so patronizing can't they?
                              My 20 year old made me cry today too...he can be such a cruel smart ass.....but then he felt bad.
                              Nice Mother's Day weekend, huh???
                              At least Baby Clay (17) is a sweet heart. Ruby and Sun have met him.
                              Yes - Mimi what are the baby updates??? When is she due??
                              ATL-- when you go to Doctor 90210 se if you can get a 2 for 1 deal:H
                              Mine need to be trimmed and lifted!!:H
                              Mimi- I hope you have calmed down a little and gotten the slobber out of your shoes.
                              Nora - how you doing today sweetie?
                              I am back from the store and a gazillion errands, so I am sitting for a bit before I start dinner. No telling how many kids are here tonight.
                              Where is Bird?
                              Thinking of you Paula and Rog.
                              I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                              Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                                The Journey begins here so get YOUR ASSES IN GEAR!!!!FOR MAY

                                gonna see if August Rush is on Netflix
                                I looked up JRM on wikipedia and he has been to rehab THREE times for booze,,,,didn;t know that
                                I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                                Live in the Solution....not the problem

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