me too
Hee hee hee... I've just been throught this with a NEW fella and I'm 43 and been single for 10 years so I'm not new to first time sex!
I was a nervous wreck (see my post "I've met a man...") - and it was just as bad for him (he's reasonably new to sobriety too) and immediatly after the first time he said "thank F*ck that's over" - I had to agree with him! lol
Three weeks into this new relationship and I am now I am enjoying the shyness, the coyness and the butterflies - what could be nicer? If we keep seeing each other we will eventually end up losing it, so I want it to last for as long as possible.
I too worry about my flab, my stretchmarks and my wobbly bits... but really, stuff it. The gift is not defined by the colour of the wrapping paper!
I will admit however, that the hardest part is knowing when to make the moves....:huh:
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