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    #16
    NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

    resrchqueen;1330300 wrote: Tipp... how much did you drink normally?
    You want the truth or what I tell myself and others? LOL..

    The truth is at least a half bottle of wine daily and often twice that. Over the course of a day off, I could have two beers, a bottle of wine and maybe more. Weekdays the most was a bottle and not often but ALWAYS the better part of a bottle as I hogged more than my share while sharing with hubby.

    That's the Truth. Finally.
    Tipplerette

    I do this for my children, my grandchildren, my health, my peace of mind, and mostly for the opportunity to learn to live with my true, unfiltered, clear-headed, vulnerable self.

    "If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading."
    ? Lao-Tzu

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      #17
      NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

      The truth hurts doesn't it... I can do in two bottles easily.... That's why I am frightened of withdrawals although I don't typically feel too bad on day 2... I think I am just using it as an excuse to keep drinking. I really want this to STOP!

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        #18
        NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

        Tipp-
        I think one thing that really helped me get through some of the tough times, was to find a way to cope with "instant gratification". When I would get a craving to drink, I learned how to stop & really think about what that "one" drink was going to do. Sure, for the moment it would feel great & subside all those nagging thoughts running through my brain. But then what?? That's what we need to think about. The more time I put between me & my last drink, the more I realized how just "one drink, right now" would ruin what I had worked so hard for, and that I always needed to keep in mind "the big picture". So in a way, I look at my sobriety in 2 ways... one with a microscope, which keeps me vigilant & guarded moment by moment... and the other with a telescope, that shows me where I can be if I continue on with steadfast commitment.
        I cannot even begin to describe to you what joy & new appreciation for life that will start unfolding for you... your new life awaits!
        How exciting!!
        AF 6 years
        NF 7 years

        A journey of a thousand miles begins with one single step

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          #19
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          Hey Tipp, I'm in. Day 2 again for me.
          "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
          ..........
          AF - 7-27-15

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            #20
            NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

            FallenAngel;1330321 wrote: Tipp-
            I think one thing that really helped me get through some of the tough times, was to find a way to cope with "instant gratification". When I would get a craving to drink, I learned how to stop & really think about what that "one" drink was going to do. Sure, for the moment it would feel great & subside all those nagging thoughts running through my brain. But then what?? That's what we need to think about. The more time I put between me & my last drink, the more I realized how just "one drink, right now" would ruin what I had worked so hard for, and that I always needed to keep in mind "the big picture". So in a way, I look at my sobriety in 2 ways... one with a microscope, which keeps me vigilant & guarded moment by moment... and the other with a telescope, that shows me where I can be if I continue on with steadfast commitment.
            I cannot even begin to describe to you what joy & new appreciation for life that will start unfolding for you... your new life awaits!
            How exciting!!
            I can hardly wait. That's what I want: a quality of life that resounds with self-respect, positive energy, vibrancy and all that it has to offer. Big picture is the key. I have never decided "What the Hell; I'm having a glass of wine." and been thrilled with my decision the next day. I have even poured the glass, stared at it for half an hour and then did my efforts in by taking that first swig. Talk about an exericise in futility..
            Tipplerette

            I do this for my children, my grandchildren, my health, my peace of mind, and mostly for the opportunity to learn to live with my true, unfiltered, clear-headed, vulnerable self.

            "If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading."
            ? Lao-Tzu

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              #21
              NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

              NoraC;1330323 wrote: Hey Tipp, I'm in. Day 2 again for me.
              This time will be different. Promise! We are not alone. Check in tomorrow and brag a little about your evening without booze... we're gonna be all ears and congratulations... for us all.
              Tipplerette

              I do this for my children, my grandchildren, my health, my peace of mind, and mostly for the opportunity to learn to live with my true, unfiltered, clear-headed, vulnerable self.

              "If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading."
              ? Lao-Tzu

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                #22
                NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                Nora knows I will kick her arse...gently:h
                I only have three weeks sober and look at me talking all tough:new:
                I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                  #23
                  NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                  Yeah - cause I'll kick your ass too. :H:H
                  "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                  ..........
                  AF - 7-27-15

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                    #24
                    NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                    I know sista...bring it!!
                    I think I can outrun you.....!!!
                    I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                    Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                      #25
                      NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                      Mamabear-
                      I think you should change your sig from: DAY ONE - 5/21 :upset:
                      to: DAY ONE - 5/21

                      :goodjob:
                      AF 6 years
                      NF 7 years

                      A journey of a thousand miles begins with one single step

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                        #26
                        NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                        Now, now girls...simmer down! I can kick BOTH of your butts. LOL

                        What does everyone have planned for this evening?
                        :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

                        Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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                          #27
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                          good call
                          I know one thing I am NOT doing...cooking diiner for hubs
                          I prepared a glorious meal last night afte slaving all day at work and he was an ASS when I got home, so tonight he gets cat food
                          I am crushed that you would ever consider touching my butt.....now Nora on the other hand prolly deserves it....
                          I love my family more than alcohol.:h
                          Live in the Solution....not the problem

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                            #28
                            NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                            Excuse me! I resemble that remark. :H:H:H
                            "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                            ..........
                            AF - 7-27-15

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                              #29
                              NEW THREAD FOR THOSE ON THE FIRST FEW DAYS A/F

                              Nora... i like the Carol Burnett quote!

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                                #30
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                                Thanks ! It is one of my favorite quotes. I love Carol Burnett.
                                "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.".....Carol Burnett
                                ..........
                                AF - 7-27-15

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