One Step at a Time - July 2012

[A.J.]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Thanks so much for your in put Sun. Going to the tool box now

[Wildflowers]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

By Sunbeam
Wildflowers, it is good to just let those words flow. I have often used this forum as a public journal, a place to write down my thoughts to see what I am really thinking, and to hear others' thoughts so I can clarify my thinking. Remember that each of us has their individual battle, that is why we are here. Learn from others, but don't compare yourself because we are all different, doing this for our own reasons.

I discussed comparing myself to others in depth in counseling, for two yrs. She told me all humans do it & it's difficult to avoid. That there is healthy comparing which is inspiring & unhealthy which is competitive to a point of feeling unworthy. Tho being competitive can also inspire to make improvements. There are definitely pros & cons to comparing ourselves to others, but it's natural as humans are seeking information from others. Hopefully, not out of a need to feel superior over others.

It's about finding balance. I usually end up on the unworthy end, hence my need, in counseling for two years & I drank alot. I also find by comparing myself to others, my life, along with others shared life experiences, I may be able to get on their level, able to reach them, possibly even help them. Helping others, helps me too.

Yet, I do completely understand for the need, want, desire for individuality. Individual journeys. The struggles, the triumphs we all face. My God, one size doesn't fit all! I would hate it if there was no diversity, no dimension & the world was black & white!

I think you've mentioned this to me twice on this thread. I think I've only posted here twice. So, I'm not sure if I'm reading something more into this or not, but sense I need to explain myself.

My reason for going AF is cause I over drink, I'm an alkie & want to live, get healthy, be happier. It's hard, but worth! Doesn't matter to me why anybody else is doing it. I'm here for me & to try & help others if I can.

Please feel free to PM me if you want.

Namaste,

Wildflowers :h

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

:hallo: evening

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Hiya Scottish Devil Woman! Why couldn't you attend the party? Or is the answer and obvious one?

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

I am home and pooped.
Crazy busy day at work
For some reason I am feeling jittery...can't explain it...but nothing a good night's sleep can't cure
Gonna eat and watch a movie and try to go to bed early as tomorrow will be a LONG day
Love and peace to everyone
and chin up everyone....we have each other and that's so important

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Surprise me plz. I'm drooling for another treat like last nights to be honest. I wasn't even going to have the ice cream and it was good quality, but everyone was oooing and ahing over the chocolate sauce. Now I wants more!

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

and Zen...good for recognizing you are not in a strong place right now
I have 42 days under my belt and would love a few drinks to wind down some, but that's NOT gonna happen
Hiya RC!
and Nora...I am prooud of you for your honesty
you too AJ.....if we can't be honest here, there where can we be?
We are all on the same crazy addiction train

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Hey Mama---I think it's the full moon. I've been off all day mind you a storm is coming in here. I can feel it...haha I just said that didn't I....

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Full moon tonight although last night's was awesome.


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[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

ya know...I thought about that full moon theory
some days I am so perky it's obnoxious, but tonight I want to rest and have some quiet alone time.
I am fine...just pooped

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

pretty piccies!!

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Thanks Mama--it was a beautiful gathering last night.
Zen--come back! I'z only pullin yer kilt.

[mama bear]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

oh Zenny...it just sucks doesn't it
but try to think of how good you will feel in the morning

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

There ya are! Sorry you're having a rough one. :l

[RingingCedars]

One Step at a Time - July 2012

Kudos to you to Mama. You sound so much stronger this time.