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    rewarding yourself?

    so i really want to "give" myself something special for my upcoming 6 months of sobriety. a small piece of jewelry? a little tattoo?...not sure..hmmm...what are some things you have rewarded yourself with other than massages or my weakness, shoes.
    I must suppress the beast within so I can find my way out of the darkness.
    sober since 2/4/12

    #2
    rewarding yourself?

    Starfairy ~

    First absolutely well done on over 5 months AF. Cracking along nicely there.:goodjob:

    I'm a great believer in a little reward. I used to buy myself a wee brooch or pin every month around about the 7th Month. Nothing expensive at the most ?5 /$ 8.

    Then I started to buy a cocktail ring same price range but this year I have bought some garden decorations. The more outrageous the better.

    Today I've bought a gigantic spinning sunflower to go in the corner of my garden along with a variety of windmills, spinning ladybirds and believe it or not a spinning buzzy bee.

    Absolutely ridiculous to see but when I look out of my kitchen window it really makes me smile.

    Mind you not sure if I'll ever be ready for a tattoo. Go Star, spoil yourself, you deserve it.
    It could be worse, I could be filing.
    AF since 7/7/2009

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      #3
      rewarding yourself?

      I got a tattoo for a year sober. Along the way I've got piercings, jewellery, purple things...

      I firmly believe in rewards...
      I have a drink problem, I have been AF since 15 March 2011 and I am working hard to stay that way

      They don't call me Pingu Purple Pants for nothing....

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        #4
        rewarding yourself?

        jackie i am a huge gardener so the i get the yard art. that would make me smile too.
        pingu i have a pretty good amount of tattoos already but was thinking of "be brave" or something to that nature, on my inner wrist.
        I must suppress the beast within so I can find my way out of the darkness.
        sober since 2/4/12

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          #5
          rewarding yourself?

          I got a small purple butterfly added to one i already had. plus another ear piercing...
          I have a drink problem, I have been AF since 15 March 2011 and I am working hard to stay that way

          They don't call me Pingu Purple Pants for nothing....

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            #6
            rewarding yourself?

            I have been keeping track of my AF days (44 today...yippee!) and adding up the amount of money I would have spent on wine. All that money is going toward a once in a lifetime vacation next summer that I am sooo looking forward to. For me, this is a huge motivation to stay AF and watch all the rewards pile up!



            When You Change The Way You Look At Things, the Things You Look At Change.....

            Here's to Change!

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              #7
              rewarding yourself?

              To reward myself I got my self a healthier body,I also got into spending the money I have saved to go on lots of foreign holidays,Its nice to be able to reward oneself, Well done starfairy on your upcoming 6 months and you are more than entitled to reward yourself.


              :congratulatory: Clean & Sober since 13/01/2009 :congratulatory:

              Until one is committed there is always hesitant thoughts.
              I know enough to know that I don't know enough.

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                #8
                rewarding yourself?

                The last time I quit (4 months AF) I treated myself to shiny new Les Paul guitar. I've spent the past year getting better at playing it, which is an indescribable reward.
                2023 - focus, getting it done, and living the way it should be and being the person I need to be.

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                  #9
                  rewarding yourself?

                  I can't afford to do expensive things so I usually just take myself out to lunch and have my favorite AF drink.
                  I quit drinking on March 8, 2020. Taking it One Day At A Time and no more taking my quit for granted.

                  Also doing it for me. I got to stay sober for me.

                  Just consecrate on today and do what you can to remain sober for today and worry about staying sober tomorrow, tomorrow.

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                    #10
                    rewarding yourself?

                    i get your drifty...having a looming DWI breaks the bank...i guess i just want an excuse to do or buy something
                    I must suppress the beast within so I can find my way out of the darkness.
                    sober since 2/4/12

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                      #11
                      rewarding yourself?

                      i think i am going to reward myself with a gym membership. i have been going to a bootcamp and love it. i really want a new bike but dont have that kind of cash. this will be close enough. i have never joined one so i am pretty excited.
                      I must suppress the beast within so I can find my way out of the darkness.
                      sober since 2/4/12

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