Army Thread July 12th 2012

[satz123]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

mario;1349215 wrote: As molly has said Jackie its good to remember why we are all really here :l

Ye know folks. I think the underlying theme I see in you all - is that your OH had to be called on to support you and rose to the occasion and made your bonds stronger for it. Now - I'm filling up 'cos I am fighting this on my own. But I've fought everything on my own all my life - so this I will do too

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

mario;1349215 wrote: As molly has said Jackie its good to remember why we are all really here :l
It is indeed.

satz123;1349216 wrote: NOTHING nicer than bickies & tea when you've been ill is there ???? Yum !!!

I'm not in bed. It's me day to get up. Still in me dressing gown though.

mollyka;1349218 wrote:

No 'special' news here anyhows - Is MrSatz not beginnin to wonder where his wife's gone :-) Back in the day if I'd gone 11 days without the grog Joe'da thought I was preggers!!

:H

[mario]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

satz 123;1349221 wrote: Ye know folks. I think the underlying theme I see in you all - is that your OH had to be called on to support you and rose to the occasion and made your bonds stronger for it. Now - I'm filling up 'cos I am fighting this on my own. But I've fought everything on my own all my life - so this I will do too

Where it certainly is better and easier if you have the support of your partner & family satz, But at the end of the day its down to oneself first and foremost if you want to beat this. said with respect

[satz123]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

mario;1349226 wrote: Where it certainly is better and easier if you have the support of your partner & family satz, But at the end of the day its down to oneself first and foremost if you want to beat this. said with respect

Thanks Mario. Yes you are right.
Besides Mr Satz not the most sensitive of souls. Just keep everything happy, shallow & trivial ........... play the 'normal' wife .........and we'll be grand.
ANYHOO - nuff of this in depth stuff at JC's teatme
Brushing meself down & orf I go .
Later gaters

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

satz123;1349221 wrote: Ye know folks. I think the underlying theme I see in you all - is that your OH had to be called on to support you and rose to the occasion and made your bonds stronger for it. Now - I'm filling up 'cos I am fighting this on my own. But I've fought everything on my own all my life - so this I will do too

aww you lovely woman, you got us now. We'll be yer other halves.

[satz123]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

Ah here JC - stop sneaking new threads up there without warning - I could have missed it .
As we say in here give me a "head's up" going forward :H
Depature posponed for a while.

[satz123]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

mollyka;1349231 wrote: Oh Benji:l You know, Joe wasn't onboard with this for a long time - not till this last quit. Ok he wanted me to stop drinking alright - or more accurately - he wanted me to have 2 glasses of wine occasionally - when it suited him - and stop being a greedy selfish cow carrying on drinking more - well good luck with that one - 'twas never gonna happen - I tried - not a hope in hell in the long run.
It wasn't till he grasped the seriousness of this 'disease' 'illness' - call it what you will - that he realised he had to be with me 100% supporting.
When I was at the stage you are at - I felt very lonely and scared really. I wonder if you just took a leap of faith with him and told him things as they are and what you want to do - could you be underestimating him??
AND - if that's out of the question - you really aren't on your own you know - I truly consider peeps on here as my friends - specially since I've met them in the flesh - and you will too - FFS we'll organise a meetup in your honour --- how's that????

Thanks Molls - that makes me feel better that the two of them are much the same ................
AND yer on Mollerooney for the meet-up. If ye give me time to get sorted I'll be there ...........:l:l
On a positive note :

Here are some 'moments' I've noticed from the last 11 days :
Haven't HAD to stop at Lydl on way home. Opened my purse this moning & said to myself - Janey can't have opened this for days ........... cash in it. Lydl take only cash not credit cards.
No trips to bottle bank ..............
Sweet cravings are going ..............
My sister said she was coming out 'some evening' with a friend to look at my kitchen that's for sale - being able to say "any evening" without thinking was GREAT
Suiting myself on Tuesday - GREAT ( lick arse Sarah went with him ):H

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

Wish I could do it this time but the bank account's a bit ermmmmmmmmmm empty.

I'll organize yas though. Done it twice now.

[InChains]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

Howdy there guys, heard you been wondering about me so heres the inchy news:

finished uni a month ago, received a merit for my final project and am taking a year out to work on my portfolio and have some much needed me time before applying for uni next year. Spending most fo the time playing music, studying for my bass guitar grade exams and doing a little artwork here and there. Have been to one fesitval and 2 gigs so far this summer with one more to go. Things with my fiancee have never been better, he found out today he has passed his first year of uni, and he has a job interview tomorrow - he has also lost over a stone on his diet! Personally I am very happy these days, moding with relative success and generally feeling very positive about life

and how are the army these days?

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

Well there ya are Incherooooooooo. You're sounding great.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

I'll have a look see about the end of August.

Think our Whizzy is Newcastle for the Great North Run 16th Sept.

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

mollyka;1349246 wrote: eeerrrmmm - not free the end of August

No I meant to start looking at the flights. Too far ahead and they're expensive. I'll just keep checking everyday.

[InChains]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

aww thanks guys, I might stick around a little while :P

[InChains]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

JC told me I was being spoken of, had been meaning to make an appearance for a while but alas, a woman who plays bass for 3-5 hours a day is easily distracted from such intentions xD

[JackieClaire]

Army Thread July 12th 2012

Nope only RyanAir from Newcastle.