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    The builder

    An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He would miss the paycheck, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

    The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end his career.

    When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect the house, the contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. ?This is your house,? he said, ?my gift to you.?

    What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live in the home he had built none too well.

    So it is with us. We build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points we do not give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the house we have built. If we had realized, we would have done it differently.

    Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think about your house. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board, or erect a wall. Build wisely. It is the only life you will ever build. Even if you live it for only one day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity. The plaque on the wall says, ?Life is a do-it-yourself project.?

    Who could say it more clearly? Your life today is the result of your attitudes and choices in the past. Your life tomorrow will be the result of your attitudes and the choices you make today.

    ? Author Unknown


    :congratulatory: Clean & Sober since 13/01/2009 :congratulatory:

    Until one is committed there is always hesitant thoughts.
    I know enough to know that I don't know enough.

    This signature has been typed in front of a live studio audience.

    #2
    The builder

    Lovely post Mario thanks for sharing.

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      #3
      The builder

      Thanks so much, Mario!

      I am definitely doing a better job at building my house now that I'm sober and have learned some very valuable lessons along the way.

      Sheri
      AF since 3/16/09
      NF since 3/20/07

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        #4
        The builder

        thanks Mario!
        I love my family more than alcohol.:h
        Live in the Solution....not the problem

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          #5
          The builder

          Better late than never for myself!

          I ~ We've taught our children these valuable life lessons & they are listening now, for the most part. I ~ We hope!

          Years back, I'd tease my grannies, sayin wished we could be born old & grow young. There sure can be a ton of wisdom found, at the feet of our elders. They often are my teachers. Tho youngsters to have been my teachers.

          Thanks for sharing Marioman

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            #6
            The builder

            Wow, talk about a timely post!!!! That one really hits home. Thanks for posting.
            Wally22:confusedmonkey::confusedmonkey::confusedmo nkey:
            If I don't want to brag but I can still wear the earings I wore in highschool
            November 2, 2012

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