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[Lou]

Oh my...this is hard and rather personal....i haven't had monthlys for 4 months, my doc said to do tests which i have done..3 of them..all negative...so i started back on my pill...unfortunately i think the tests were wrong, im not doing good and feel so guilty....i miscarried once before when i was 23 didn't even know i was pregnant. Same thing has happened again recognised the signs straight away...Im feeling so low..stupid tests, if id known for sure i wouldnt have started on my pill again..the thing that i want the most in my life and i go and destroy it without even realising.....I am feeling truly horrid right now, sorry to be miserable or if iv upset anyone..this is the only place where i feel i can be myself and completely honest

[lushy]

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Lou, the pill does not cause miscarriages. You should go see your doctor to check out your hormones. If three tests came back negative, I highly doubt you were pregnant. I am sorry you are feeling down.........

[Ripley]

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hey sweetheart take a breath... 3 tests are VERY VERY unlikely to be wrong given that you are so "late". Keep calm and make an apt with yr Dr ASAP for an independant test.

Remember this: taking the pill does not necessarily hurt a foetus.

In the (very unlikely in my view) event that you are pregnant, the baby will be fine, even if you have taken the pill. You think you are the first woman who has no recognised the signs of pregnancy and who has continued with her daily pill? They are pretty robust little creatures....

I have been pregnant 3 times and have imbibed the following in the early stages: aspirin, paracetomal, ibrobufen, contraceptive pills, cocaine (justa bit at a party, but not terribly impressive I agree), alcohol, caffeine, blue cheese, raw eggs, blah blah. I have 3 (thank God) gorgeous bright kids. I promise you Lou - you need to relax.

Stop worrying needlessly. Get tests done so you know one way or another if you are pregnant, then go from there.

kx

[Bella]

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What Kate says is right. I know many people who have continued to take the pill when they were pregnant and all was well. Seeing the doctor is the thing to do first and don't panic.

[Diana]

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Dear Lou,
The others have said it all and it's good that you can talk to us here. What ever support you need we can give it. Now get yourself off to the Doctor and let us know what the result is.

Thinking of you
Diana

[Lou]

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Thank you all and deep breath...dont wanna get in to too much detail but i know its happened...as i said in my earlier post it has happened to be before....i know...i seen and am still experiencing the pain from it. Maybe not my fault for taking my pill...maybe just me

[sammys]

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Hi Lou hope you can rest and I think the advice of seeing the Dr. is a good idea. No it is not your fault for taking your pill, been in your shoes a couple of times and it is emtionally (hormones) and physically exhausting.

XXXSammys

[Accountable for Me]

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Ahhhh... Lou. Go and see your doctor ASAP and have it checked out. This way you can relax a bit. If you had 3 home pregnancy tests, then it is very possible you aren't pregnant. They are pretty accurate nowadays. Have your doctor rule it out for you for peace of mind.

There are MANY factors such as excessive drinking, exercise, and stress that can cause an absence of the menstrual cycle. I know you are AF now and have been for weeks, but you have also been under an enormous amount of stress AND you have been exercising a lot! If you are on prescription drugs they can play a part in this to. And don't forget you aren't sleeping either. Your body is probably maxed out.

Book an appointment tomorrow.

Hang in there. :l

[Cashregister]

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Lou there are many things that can cause an absence of periods - cysts, diet, stress etc. I went 12 months without one in my early 20s with polycystic ovaries which fixed themselves up without treatment.

I have also had periods that have been so painful that they felt like labour itself (well almost, but pretty close).

See an ob/gyn asap.

Lots of love

C