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    #16
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    Hi Paula and all,

    I now can realise the life without AL.
    Now try to avoid the medicine make of AL.
    That's my commitment.it's learning by doing.
    God you saved my job!!
    Don't know how do I keep my signature?
    Two relapsed one big.should I start again from zero or can continue??advices please.
    Dix
    A learned habit surely be unlearned !!

    2012: Continuous AF for 7 months from May to Oct.

    Big Relapses : 6th November and 12th December 2012.

    2013 : So many ups and down !!

    2014: Has a conviction to stay with a healthy life.

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      #17
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      Hi Dixon,
      I am thinking of you. Dust yourself off and start over...we all make mistakes...the important part is to learn from them. Don't let this setback get you down. You CAN move on from this...we are here for you!
      K9
      :heart:I love my daughter more than alcohol:heart:

      Believe in yourself. You are stronger than you think.

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        #18
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        Dix...you are scaring me a little...probably just our difference in language
        please be well.....
        I love my family more than alcohol.:h
        Live in the Solution....not the problem

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          #19
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          Dixon, it's up to YOU to decide whether to change your signature. You should be proud of the time you were able to IGNORE alcohol and do NOT let the drinking you did recently make you sad. Instead just remember how easy it is to slip and keep up with all the good work you have been doing to stay away from alcohol. Just stay away from alcohol as you have been doing so successfully recently.

          xoxo
          Tipplerette

          I do this for my children, my grandchildren, my health, my peace of mind, and mostly for the opportunity to learn to live with my true, unfiltered, clear-headed, vulnerable self.

          "If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading."
          ? Lao-Tzu

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            #20
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            Dix :l

            I am proud of you! :goodjob: you slipped but got right back up and keep going!!
            That is the only thing that matters....NEVER GIVE UP!!

            So what are you making for dinner tonight? Beans on Toast?? Yum!

            :l:h
            On My Own Way Out Since May 20, 2012
            *If you think poorly of yourself, you can fail with a clear conscience.
            https://www.mywayout.org/community/f11/tool-box-27556.html tool box
            https://www.mywayout.org/community/f19/newbies-nest-30074.html newbie nest

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              #21
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              Hi Mama,Tipple,K9 and Kradle,

              Kradle I ate too much today but not at home and in a couple of restaurants.So hot/spicy food after a long while !! I was loving and caring my health but went to spicy food just because of relapse.There were no taste of food without spice.
              Mama,I am sorry what I had written..I was too messy !!
              Tipplerette,I think I must be proud of my AF life and will continue signature with relapse date so I would remember in future.
              K9,
              I remember you how much struggle had you done to get here !! I am now back to normal.You know my depression has gone up due to this single event.I was really happier and getting better with depression.I can now confirm that my depression is not a clinical if I give up this stuff.

              To sum up my life with AL doesn't exist.My liver is shivering ....
              Dix
              A learned habit surely be unlearned !!

              2012: Continuous AF for 7 months from May to Oct.

              Big Relapses : 6th November and 12th December 2012.

              2013 : So many ups and down !!

              2014: Has a conviction to stay with a healthy life.

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                #22
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                Hi Dix

                Glad to hear you are getting right back on track. Do you know what triggered this relapse? Is there anything you can add to your plan to prevent it from happening again?
                AF since 6JUN2012

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                  #23
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                  pixie;1426614 wrote: Hi Dix

                  Glad to hear you are getting right back on track. Do you know what triggered this relapse? Is there anything you can add to your plan to prevent it from happening again?
                  Thanks Pixie,
                  Actually I think I got over-confidence myself because I felt myself recovered from depression and able to cope with family matters.
                  I never and ever felt very low after a couple of months AF.
                  I was gradually becoming stronger...
                  That's why I can now stop immediately.
                  Dix
                  A learned habit surely be unlearned !!

                  2012: Continuous AF for 7 months from May to Oct.

                  Big Relapses : 6th November and 12th December 2012.

                  2013 : So many ups and down !!

                  2014: Has a conviction to stay with a healthy life.

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                    #24
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                    Keep up the good work Dix.
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                      #25
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                      Well done Dix, just put it behind you and move forward.

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                        #26
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                        Can I be honest with you Dixon?
                        I have seen you start thread after thread.
                        I think you are just attention seeking.
                        In order to truly recover, you will have to look inside of yourself, not outside of yourself.
                        Said with love.
                        BridgetX
                        If your 8 year old self met you, would they be proud?
                        Rejoined life 20/5/19

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                          #27
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                          bridget jones~ That was uncalled for and harsh. Good for you that you just stopped and figured it out. Read my posts...do you think I am an attention getter?? How sad you are to us. This is a daily struggle and unfortunately, sometimes we don't know what triggered it. NOT ALL OF US ARE AS STRONG AS YOU. As long as we are aware of this and keep trying we have hope....just don't give up.

                          Dixon, I went through the same thing, but mine has lasted a few weeks. I have made a couple days, but still struggling, even after I had sooo many weeks under my belt. I made an appointment again to see my addiction counselor....unless you have lived this, you will never understand. Hang in there. You and I both know what it's like to be sober, we can just not do drinking again...easier said than done. You are in the right place....keep posting and reading and "we" will all get there, right up there with all the others. :l

                          WE CANNOT DO THIS ALONE. Please do not stop posting.

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                            #28
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                            Paula,Kuya ,byebyebrigedjones and struggles,

                            I actually slipped simply because I postponed to posting here.And I forgot the hell it was happened with me.Anyway your supports are huge here.
                            Brigetjones,I am not taking your advise negatively and want to be like that.
                            Now I am under the transitional period ,living abroad ,have to work hard ,broken family ,no one here even to listen me .
                            The inner core part of the heart and all of you anonymous are here.One day I would be like you said.
                            Just two relapse in 7 months ,I think one % in total.
                            No worrying and getting back.Once settled here I will work as freelancer and will spent time with my extended family ....would be a huge relieve.
                            Dix
                            A learned habit surely be unlearned !!

                            2012: Continuous AF for 7 months from May to Oct.

                            Big Relapses : 6th November and 12th December 2012.

                            2013 : So many ups and down !!

                            2014: Has a conviction to stay with a healthy life.

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                              #29
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                              post as many threads as you wish dixon,thats what this place is supposed to be for,i wish i had your af days 2 slips is nothing youre doing super great! keep us posted of your progress
                              I have too much shit to do today and tomorrow to drink:sohappy:

                              I'm taking care of the "tomorrow me":thumbsup:
                              Drinkin won't help a damn thing! Will only make me sick for DAYS and that ugly, spacey dumb feeling-no thanks!

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                                #30
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                                Keep up the good work Dix. I slipped for awhile too.
                                I slipped when things were good and I slipped when things were bad.
                                I slipped when I was happy. I slipped when I was mad.

                                Let's stop trying to walk on the water and stick close to dry land!
                                Day 1 again 11/5/19
                                Goal 1: 7 days :heartbeat:
                                Goal 2: 14 days :happy2:
                                Goal 3: 21 days :happy2:
                                11/27/19: messed up but back on track
                                12/14/19: bad doozy but back on track

                                One day at a time.

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