I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

[Guest]

here goes, I have had the flu for 3 weeks so my house is a mess. Felt well enough yesterday to start cleaning heard the doorbell while I was in the family room, didin't anwser it. my rule call first. Hate the drop in, 20 minutes later heard the bell again I noticed that it was the neighbor's daughter. she was locked out and her cell didn't get a signal I asked where her sister was and she said at the house I told her to go get her out of the rain. I put them in the formal L/R and gave the the phone to call their parents. Like I said it was a disaster I had put stuff everwhere while cleaning plus I needed a shower I had worked out and just went on to house cleaning. I notice them looking around; it was a mess. I know they will mention this to their Mom. Who is the regular on all the gosssip. Her sister owns the hair salon I go to, so that will be spread. i know some of you will say so what? But I have a reputation immaculate house,immucalate apperance. The gilrs are 14 and 11 no fooling them. Then I get a call from my own daughter saying that she would like to come vist but her husband won't let her. LET HER???!!!!! She out earns him 2 to1 and pays for her own car. Then I hear as she goes on that his Mother spent Friday night at their house and they spent the day Sat. at her house. I live the same amount of miles from them as his mother does. I just don't rate. he makes a major difference between my Grandson from my daughter 1st marriage and the little girl they have together. He now controls when I get to see my Grandson. I have no relationship whatsoever with the baby girl because he won't allow it. I was uninvited from her first birthday party,because he wanted only his family there. This after I bought all the decorations and an expensive cake topper(vintage). I was allowed to attend my Grandsons because he is not his. This F-er hates me because I see him for what he is and tell him so.When my daughter starting seeing him he was staying too late at night. So I said that seeing her divorce wasn't final and child custody issues were at hand, could he please leave at a resonable hour instead of dawn. It has been on with him ever since. He & my daughter have tricked me into giving them money. Case in point. need money to move from one area to another Mom can you pay for the move my daughter asked. I ponied up 2000 just to find out she got a 5000 sign on bonus and they paid her moving expenses. Found out by accident. asked her a smirk and change the subject. She was raised better than that. I can understand frugal but I abhor cheap! So Long story ending some triggers were pushed drank 1 bottle of wine instead of 2 spritzers. Feeling like a looser. No hangover just disapointment. Another little note. She called this morning I talked to my Grandson He asked if he could come over. I asked her if I could take him for Sat. Or Sun afternoon she said I'll have to ask "Him" It's not his kid. I swear I hate that man.

[Guest]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

Oh fan, I can always depend on you. The husbands out of town, wanna run away this weekend? check you calendar and get back with me.
Smiles
M

[Guest]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

I am pissed for you just reading this....you aren't a loser, he is. You could have done WAY WAY worse. 1 bottle is much better than 2. Your daughters husband...won't give him the privledge of son-in-law, is an ASS. I understand respecting your spouse, but this is ridiculous. Hang-in!!!! AND don't beat yourself up...

[irishlady]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

Hey simey, If you want, us BITCHES can go round and sort him.. Go on, go on, go on, you know you want us to.. Its St Paddys day tomorrow, and us Irish always love a bit of a ruck then.... Just say the word....

[weemelonhead]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

Simey bear my dear...the man is quite obviously a few bricks short of a bungalow....not that this helps much, but wot do you do with these people...shame your daughter seems to be being sucked in too....you're doing great to stay reasonable my dear...hold onto your 'lofty' position...try not to vent at the twit and you'll always come off the better bear.....Loser you are NOT...
As for the untidy house, you say you are always noted for your immaculate abode?? well I guess people will know that there is something wrong then, and hopefully show concern rather than spread spiteful gossip....if not....I'm right behind Oirish!!!
we love you Simey......:h
huggy snogs
Weemelon xxx

[irishlady]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

OIH, Melly, what do you mean, right BEHIND Irish.. You my dear, with the force of your one liners will be in the fore front, actually you will be so fore in the front, you will be in his living room before the the idiot has had time to open the front door..

[Guest]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

wee& Irish, I would love to kick his sorry English Ass! Yes sorry to all the English but he is British . But I think he is 100% Jackoff. Fan,another lifetime perhaps? Take care of the kids
M

[AAthlete]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

SB, the Fanster is right - you are doing great.

Sorry that you have people in your life that are causing you so much pain. All you can do is be the best SimeyBear that you can be - the rest of life will work itself out.

[Beaches]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

Simey, I hear ya and I would be furious as well. So furious. Don't beat yourself up. We all slip and fall sometimes that's why we are here. You are only human. Take Care.

Ha, that's cute Fan....I think Simey's plate is pretty full right now for dates....she's got a house to clean

[Guest]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

I with Irish...let's just beat him up...ready bitches? I'd feel better!!!! Probably make us all feel good...LOL

[Beaches]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

I'm in tired....You let me know what you need and I will be here for you

[Guest]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

Beaches, better get Fan to get us out....bond money and an attorney..HA HA

[Breez]

I screwed up ....AGAIN!!!!

Oh S~
What an idiot! I feel for you. People like that just suck the life force out of you.